The Kink Perspective
Episodes
Episode 22 - The mysterious gift of submission...
05 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I cover the trope that submission is a gift. Delve into what giving a gift actually means and reflections of what people may want out...
Episode 21 - BDSM And Golden Showers...
28 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I look at the fascination with Water Sports. Why we do them, what attracts us to it and more. If you would like to reach out for a se...
Episode 20 - BDSM and Dirty Talk...
21 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The power of Dirty Talk in a relationship. What drives it, motivates it, why we like it and more on this episode. If you would like to learn more abou...
Episode 19 - BDSM and Sensory Deprivation
14 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What is sensory deprivation? On this episode, I talk about removing or depriving the different senses we have during a scene and how it may effect us....
Episode 18 - BDSM and Consent - Being under the Influence...
07 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I talk about what I am seeing again all over BDSM social media. Being under the influence and getting involved in play. Comparing tha...
Episode 17 - BDSM and Religions Ritual Connections Part 2
31 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I conclude my discussion on BDSM and Religious ritual practices, and their connection to BDSM. How secularism and decline of religion...
Episode 16 - BDSM and Religions Ritual Connections Part 1
24 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I discuss how religion is in decline but its practices and transcendent states are used in the practices of BDSM. That the way we con...
Episode 15 - BDSM and Aftercare
17 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I discuss what Aftercare is, the benefits of Aftercare, the types there are and whether or not everyone wants or requires it. If you w...
Episode 14 - BDSM and Mentors
10 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I discuss the untapped resource of a BDSM mentor. Things to look out for, moments to reflect and the benefits of having one. If you w...
Episode 13 - BDSM and Trauma Exposure
03 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I discuss how people that have experienced trauma in their lives, can learn valuable new coping techniques and ways to explore their ...
Episode 12 - BDSM and Vetting
26 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why is vetting in relationships important? More so, why is it so important in a BDSM relationship? On this episode, I explore that. If you would like...
Episode 11 - BDSM and Behavioral Change...
19 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I discuss behavior of men and women in the lifestyle. Of those on social media that carry a double standard of behavior. While we need...
Episode 10 - BDSM and One-Sided Relationships...
11 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I am going to talk about BDSM and one-sided relationships. How they can be toxic and affect who we are and take tolls on us. If you w...
Episode 9 - Dominant-Dominant Relationship - My discussion with LunaLux and Sovereign_Kane
01 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I sit down with @LunaLux and @Sovereign_Kane, both on Fetlife, and discuss their relationship. They are both Dominants, that share a ...
Episode 8 - BDSM and Operant Conditioning and Behavioral Modification...
27 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I talk about the origins of Operant Conditioning, applications and understanding of it and what do after a dynamic ends and you are r...
Episode 7 - BDSM and Infidelity...
16 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, I discuss what happens when infidelity happens, especially within the BDSM community, a story about a couple that went through this a...
Episode 6 - Praise inside of the BDSM Lifestyle
09 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I look at Praise and how affirmations play a role within the dynamic of a relationship. How they can be confusing when used and how they are misused.
Episode 5 - Love, Loss, and Giref. A 27 Year Dynamic Love Story...
07 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This is a story about John and Michelle, BDSM practitioners who found themselves through the lifestyle. The life they had, and in the end how the role...
Episode 4 - What is a Fetish?
01 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I go over what is a Fetish. What defines it, how healthy it is, when it becomes a problem, how it can be treated and what things cann...
Episode 3 - BDSM and Mindful Intimacy...
25 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I will be discussing Mindfulness and Intimacy. How we can be sensual, and not just sexual.
Episode 2 - BDSM and the Psychology behind the myths...
23 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I go over some of the common psychological myths associated with those involved in the BDSM and Lifestyle community. #BDSM #Psycholo...
Episode 1 - BDSM Principles
22 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I discuss the principles of BDSM, how the they apply to the BDSM community and some personal insights.