The Messy Inbetween
Episodes
Unexplored Pathways To Pleasure | Episode 211
27 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment:https://beducate.me/bg2612-tmipodcastLet's get out of the ordinary and into the unexplored ...
Things We're Still Figuring Out In Our 30's...|Episode 210
20 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Friday, Eid Mubarak to all our Muslim Ibetweeners🥳🌙We hope you’re having a really soft, beautiful day.Let’s get into today’s convers...
Sex Toys...Where Do You Draw The Line? | Episode 209
13 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Friday Inbetweeners🤩. Let’s talk about the toy drawer💦👀... Where do you actually draw the line?In this episode we share our sex toy s...
Things You Need to Decenter as a Woman | Episode 208
06 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Good afternoonnn, It’s lunchtimeee and TMIII just dropped a new oneeee🎶🎵 Flow with u💃💃Anyway, Happy International Women’s Day, Queenbe...
Q n A | Episode 207
27 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
It’s definitely… TMI Fridaysssss 🤩🤩New episode. New montage. And yes...we finally delivered the new montage we’ve been promising 💃💃(...
Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks | Episode 206
20 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Your daily dose of happiness is here! TMI FRIDAYSSS🤩🤩.Today’s agenda? Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks. And listen… some of them are wild. For...
Things We Assume Come Naturally, But Actually Don't... | Episode 205
13 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment. Take the quiz: https://beducate.me/bg2608-tmipodcastHappy Valentine’s❤️. How are you spe...
Our 2026 Ins & Outs | Episode 204
06 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Surpriseeeee🤩🎉No, you're not dreaming , it’s actually a new episode, dropping on a Friday!Hey Inbetweeners! Happy New Year 🥂How have yo...
From the Peaks to the Pits...Our 2025 Recap | Epd 203
26 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The last episode of 2025! We did it, Inbetweeners!Happy Wednesday and welcome to our final episode of the year. What. A. Year.We’ve both had our fai...
Movie Moments That are Red Flags in Real Life |Epd 202
19 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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Less of… & More of… Sex, Relationships & Friendships |Epd 201
12 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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Big Girl Jobs, Older Men & Friendship Breakups |Epd 200
05 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
200 episodes in the bag💼🤩✨We did that!🥰 The giveaway post goes up on our Instagram this week, so keep an eye out and make sure you partic...
Canon Events That Shape You as A Woman |Epd 199
29 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Your weekly source of joy is here! Happy Happy Wednesday!We’re talking about the canon events that shaped us as women — the moments that completel...
What's Destroying Relationships More Than Cheating? |Epd 198
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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Abortion Truths No One Talks About | Epd 197
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners!You guys sent us so many questions after our “Stranger Removal” episode and we heard you❤This week, we’re answer...
How to Ruin a Date 101 |Epd 196
08 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Hey Inbetweeners💖 We missed you last week but guess what… we’re back with another banger 🎉 This time we’re talking about the things that c...
Unspoken rules of Situationships |Epd 195
24 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s talk situationshipssss! The real pandemic among the youth 🤣. On this episode we’re getting into the tea: what actually makes a situations...
So…Are you really happy with your sex life right now? |Epd 194
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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STRANGER REMOVAL |Epd 193
10 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
“CTRL+Z” aka abortion...That’s the conversation on today's episode.Recent trends show just how alarming the rate of unsafe abortions in Kenya is...
An Inbetweener Once Said...|Epd 192
03 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s TMI Wednesday✨Today we’re reacting to your comments from episode 190: Life is Messy.You guys shared what life is teaching you, from learnin...
Hey Big Sisters-Dilemma Epd | Epd 191
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s been a minute since we did a dilemma episode, but the wait is over!First, thank you for being so open with us—sharing your dilemmas really he...
Life is Messy!!! | Epd 190
20 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This one wasn’t even supposed to happen 😅 We sat down to shoot a dilemma episode, but ended up just catching up — and it turned out to be the c...
We’ ve tasted employment & self-employment, We highly recommend a rich, generous husband | Epd 189
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Rich generous husband, any day everyday!😅We recently came across this trend and decided to hop on it: "I have tasted X, I have tasted Y & I highly ...
Why is the Worst Man Always the Best in Bed?👀| Epd 188
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Get 60% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated!🔗:https://beducate.me/bg2530-tmipodcastToday's episode is all about Sex!The different kinds of se...
I knew I couldn’t marry him when…|Epd 187
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! 🎊Today we’re talking about that moment you realized you could never marry him…We asked you on Instagram to submit...
Growing Through It |Epd 186
23 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Guess who’s backkkkk?Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners — we’ve missed you so much! We’re officially back, and what better way to ease in than with...
Propaganda I’m Falling For |Epd 185
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s TMI Wednesdayyy!In today’s episode, we’re getting into the propaganda we’re totally falling for 100%, from romantic love and contraceptio...
Propaganda I’m not falling for…| Epd 184
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners!Propaganda is a sustained effort by a group of people to get you to believe or try something.Has alcohol overconsumption ...
Canon Events in Friendships |Epd 183
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What’s a Wednesday without a new TMI episode? 👀Happy Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! How are y’all doing?In today’s episode, we’re talking c...
The Only Child Confessions featuring Victor Peace |Epd 182
28 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do an only child episode!”…..“Where’s the only child episode??” You guys have been in our DMs demanding this one and guess what? It’s fi...
Answering Your Questions (Part 1) | Epd 181
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! On today’s episode, we’re answering some of the questions you sent in on IG. Situation-ships… Did we ever feel ...
Self-Pleasure 101 | Epd 180
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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The Last Born Experience Unfiltered | Epd 179
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Last borns—what do they really need? They’re often the most loved in the family, so what more could they possibly want? We’ve been conditioned t...
The Aftermath |Episode 178
30 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners. We’re back, just like we promised.❤️Before anything else—Thank you! Your DMs, your kind words, your condolences...
The Reality of Being A Middle-born| Epd 177
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We’re officially at 141k subbies! 🥳 Thank you so much, Inbetweeners — your love, your comments, your wild takes… we see them all, and we woul...
Firstborns: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly|Epd 176
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Firstborns… breathe in, breathe out. You’ve got this❤️🥹In today’s episode, we’re talking about something that so many of you relate to;...
An Inbetweener Once Said…|Epd 175
02 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s TMI Day🥳🤩!This episode is a special one, we're going through some of your comments from past episodes and having a real convo about them....
The Bar Was So Low I…|Epd174
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Get 60% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! 🔗 : https://beducate.me/bg2504-tmipodcastThe bar is so low that even with resources like Beduc...
Signs of a Dying Relationship 💔|Epd 173
19 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is my boyfriend pulling away?" Google searchers, assemble! 👀 In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the signs of a dying relationship not dead...
Who’s most likely to..? |Epd 172
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Heyyy Inbetweeners! How’s everyone doing?This week’s episode has been a long time coming, and it’s finally here! Who’s most likely…?We had y...
International Women’s Day with Kesi Njoro | Epd 171
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Happy International Women’s Day!💜 This year’s theme is Accelerating Action, and we’ve got the incredibly talented Kesin Njoro, a practicing c...
Birthday Reflections |Epd 170
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Birthday to us!🥳 How are we already in our mid 30s?! Weren’t we just celebrating the big 3-0 the other day? Time has really moved fast.In...
The Valentine’s Episode ft Beducated |Epd 169
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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The Break, the Catch-Up & Our 2025 Intentions| Ep 168
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Happy New Year, Inbetweeners! 🎉✨ How are you guys doing? We missed you sooo much, and we’re so excited to be back! 🥹The DMs, the comments,...
2024 Wrapped | Episode 167
11 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We’re wrapping up 2024 by looking back at those resolutions we made at the beginning of the year. Did we crush them or did life completely curve us?...
Unpopular opinions about Christmas🎄🎁...|Episode 166
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
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I no longer need friends who...|Eps 165
27 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We are all T for Tayaaaddd of ghetto ass friends. You are giving jealous vibes… bye!✋🏾 You’re not respecting boundaries…bye!✋🏾 You are...
Things we learnt from our family...|Eps 164
20 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Things we have learnt from our family!Take a seat and a breath because…😭Okay, it’s not all doom and gloom but family with teach you THINGS! Goo...
The older i get the more i need...|Eps 163
13 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
A few weeks ago we did the episode ‘the older I get the LESS I need…’ and you guys had a lot to say! But what do you need MORE of as you get old...
Getting INTIMATE with each other🥰....|Eps 162
06 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you and your friends building intimacy ama it’s just vibes ?🤭 We played this intimacy Q&A and things got rather deep. Questions on our belief...
Things we should not be embarrassed about… | Episode 161
30 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever find yourself cringing at the things that make you, well, YOU ? 🤪😅In this episode we’ll be looking into some habits or some heavy situati...
The older I get the less I need… | Episode 160
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
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Things that we struggle to accept… | Episode 159
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In life, we often find ourselves fighting against the truths we don’t want to hear or believe… yess yeesss we’re talking to ya 👀In this episo...
Rude money habits | Episode 158
09 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Seeing someone spoil themselves should definitely not be an invitation for you to start asking them for money 👀 yes baby that’s actually consider...
Relationship social media etiquette | Episode 157
02 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Social media etiquette when one is in a relationship may seem so obvious but is it really ? 👀🫣In this episode that’s what we’re gonna be tal...
Awkward moments during sex | Episode 156
26 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
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An Inbetweener once said… | Episode 155
18 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We’re baaaaack !!!! 🤩🤩🤩Did you miss us? Cause we missed ya as well 🤣🤣Y’all really didn’t want us to rest eh ? 👀This weeks epis...
Unpopular opinions about family | Episode 154
28 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
They say family is everything but is it really ? 👀👀 Today episode we’re sharing unpopular opinions about family that everyone’s thinking but...
Answering your sex dilemmas Ft Maurice Matheka
21 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The sex podcast and we’ve never had a sexologist on here ?? Well that’s changing cause for this episode we’re joined by Maurice Matheka, A sex &...
What’s a scam that’s become so normalized ? | Episode 152
14 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever felt like we’re surrounded by scams we don’t even notice ? 👀🤯In this episode we’re openly revealing those “everyday tricks” that ...
Friendship lessons we learnt the HARD way as adults | Episode 151
07 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
They really don’t talk about ADULT friendships enough… and the lessons ? 👀 it’s a whew ladies and gents it truly is… One thing y’all shou...
Hey Big Sisters - Dilemma Episode | Episode 150
31 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It is without a doubt that Dilemme episodes are y’all fave … riiight ? 👀 and guess what its our fave too ! Well this week we are treating you ...
TMI @ 3 ! | Episode 149
24 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is one of those deep ones as we get to recap the journey it’s been since the very first day time we started TMI 🥹🥹🥹 Through th...
Life didn't end when... | Episode 148
17 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Babe you know life didn’t end when your mum started dating your ex… 😶 Yesss today episode is Jaw dropping from the beginning to the end 😂 b...
They could never make me hate...| Episode 147
10 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The power people normally have to actually make you hate something/someone ? MASSIVE ! 🫣🫢 On todays episode we’ll be talking about what is tha...
Your Sibling Stories- Part 2 | Episode 146
03 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Last week we did our sibling stories now this week is YOUR sibling stories and guys this episode is just as hot as the other one (maybe hotter? ) 👀...
Our Sibling Stories- Part 1 | Episode 145
19 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s face it all human relationships are complex even with siblings…(the toughest kind) 🥲🥲 For this episode we’ll be sharing our very ow...
Pettiest reasons we wouldn’t date a guy | Episode 144
12 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever found yourself rejecting a guy for a reason so small you couldn’t believe it yourself? 👀🤐 We have too ! 🤣🤣🤣 In today’s video...
The pains our mother's caused... | Episode 143
05 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The pains our mother's caused.. ! 😮💨 A topic not talked about enough… On this episode we will not only discuss the origin of this woun...
Everything you need to know about STD’s & STI’s Ft Mr Chris Obwaka | Episode 142
29 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Talk about an eye opening episode? This is the one ladies and gentlemen !😮💨😮💨 In this episode we’re joined by Mr Chris Obwaka, a ...
Things people don't realize are rude to say | Episode 141
22 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
One thing we’re sure about this episode is that everyone will relate and everyone needs to watch it 🫢 We’re humans guys and it’s Soo many tim...
An Inbetweener once said... | Episode 140
15 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
One thing we love about y’all Inbetweeners is how you always have something to say on our videos… On this episode we’re going through comments s...
Things women don’t get enough credit for… | Episode 139
08 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Being a woman is definitely NOT for the weak 🤣🤣 can we all agree that ? On todays episode we will be talking about some things we don’t get ...
Detoxifying Masculinity Ft Rix Poet | Episode 138
01 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The one where we deep dive into the world of masculinity yep you heard that 👀👀 We believe that being a man isn’t about conforming to the outd...
Sex myths we must stop believing | Episode 137
24 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
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What's our OPINION on... | Part 2 - Episode 136
17 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
A part 2 episode where you get to hear our opinions ? YESSSS ! 🤩🤩🤩 This particular episode we’ll be talking about black tax, soul ties and...
What's our OPINION on... | Part 1 - Episode 135
10 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The episode you get to hear what our opinions are ? Yes this is the ONE ! 🤩 For this weeks episode we get to share our two cents on a couple of to...
We all have that one friend who... | Episode 134
03 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The friendship episode you’ve all been waiting for …😂 In this episode we’re talking about that one person in the friend group who behaves in...
Micro-Cheating | Episode 133
27 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Micro-cheating ; something that your partner may be doing that isn’t necessarily sleeping with someone but could be considered as cheating 🫢 In ...
Relationship Killers | Episode 132
20 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
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Dating -The good, the bad & the ugly | Episode 131
13 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
For all those dating put your hands up 🙌🏽 and for those who aren’t, do you remember how your dating experience was ? In this episode we will ...
I'm disrespectful to money when... Ft Just Ivy Africa | Episode 130
06 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY 😍🤍 The theme this year is “Invest in Women: Accelerate Progress & Inspire Inclusion” a key component b...
Hey Big Sisters - Dilemma episode | Episode 129
28 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Finally a Dilemma episode this is not only an episode filled with tea and juice but there’s also lots of learning one can get from these episodes 😮...
Blended not Broken | Episode 128
21 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The world of blended families is a topic not talked about enough In this episode we explore the joys, challenges and all lessons learned from naviga...
Valentines day... but make it HOT ! | Episode 127
14 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
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For the love of my body Ft Coach Roseanne | Episode 126
07 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Okay guys, for us, this is the year we’re FINALLY taking our health consciousness seriously. For real this time. Who’s with us? 👀 We’re start...
We're Back - Holiday recap + 2024 resolutions | Episode 125
31 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ring into the new year with us 🥳 This episode is a perfect blend of holiday catch up and goal setting vibes in all aspects of our life - personal ...
YOU DON’T HAVE TO FAKE IT… | Episode 124
20 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Faking it ? Not really worth it babe 🤭 It’s high time we ditch the act and celebrate genuine connections No scripts, no fakes - just real hones...
2023 wrap | Episode 123
06 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
2023 was very much a year like no other 💆🏾♀️ let’s walk through this journey together as we take a look back - the highs, lows and surp...
Hey Big Sisters - Dilemma episode | Episode 122
22 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A dilemma episode 🤩🤩 y’all have been asking and asking and as usual you know we gotta deliver 💯 Today we will be answering all your dilemm...
Let's discuss PRIVILEGE | Episode 121
15 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What exactly is privilege? On this episode we deep dive and get to understand what exactly it means to be privileged 👀 and how it impacts us all or...
Must haves for great sex | Episode 120
08 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
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Girl Math | Episode 119
01 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is one of those ones for our girlies ☺️ because anything one of us agrees with trust me we’re 10 of us all agreeing to it and that’...
Things men do that women hate | Episode 118
25 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There’re some things men do sometimes that’ll just have you rolling your eyes 🙄🙄 I know you can relate hun, instead of ranting to your bes...
It's not just you babe... | Episode 117
18 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
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Lessons from our exes... | Episode 116
11 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s easy to sit on your high horse and point fingers at your ex for being the problem or giving you the character development of the century 😂 a...
Answering your questions - Q & A Ep | Episode 115
04 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A Q & A episode finally ! 🤩 We asked you to drop us some questions you’d like us to answer on our Instagram & y’all did the thing. From...
Best-Friend Tag | Episode 114
27 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Grab your bestie/s, sit down and let’s have a chat 🥂 We’re answering some intimate (get to know you style) questions and we loved them all! Th...
Things we should start normalizing - Bedroom Edition | Episode 113
20 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You see those seemingly small things you experience once in a while during sex and cringe? We are here to tell you it is perfectly normal hun. We’ve...
Unserious generational traumas we're breaking I Episode 112
13 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
After our last episode on therapy, we decided to keep that same spirit going and discuss some of the generation traumas and habits that were the norm ...