The New Man

Dial in Your Money Psychology — Brent Kessel (Encore)

16 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are you more comfortable talking openly about sex or money? Does the topic of money conjure up feelings of struggle and difficulty? And why does yo...

Defending the Ego Makes Us Weak — Aubrey Marcus (Encore)

09 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What would your buddies think about you if they knew other men were sleeping with your wife? Are you only valuable if you’re working hard? And do ...

Is Money Killing You? – Jordan Grumet

02 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Is money like oxygen for you? Is money the reason why you feel stuck? And will we care about money in the last days of our lives? Today’s guest h...

How to Identify the Drama Triangle and Get Yourself Out — David Emerald (Encore)

26 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Could you be a drama queen without even knowing it? Are you focusing on your problems or the outcomes you want? And how does playing the blame game ...

Is There More to Life Than Winning or Losing? — Shaun Tomson (Encore)

19 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Would you buy a shotgun to defend your career? How could facing death help you be stronger in other areas of your life? And how do you know when it’...

Always Worrying About Money — Michael Neill (Encore)

12 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you think you can solve money worries simply by making more money? Do you think you need to struggle and endure self-criticism and pressure in ord...

How to Approach Women Without Being a Moron — Shana James (Encore)

05 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you wish you could approach any woman, any time, anywhere? Do you get stuck planning the perfect thing to say so you don't screw up? And how do y...

JP Sears Wants You to Get Offended – JP Sears (Encore)

28 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

(Very) controversial YouTube comedian JP Sears talks about laughter, getting offended, and how you can be better than everyone else in this encore epi...

How to Live When You Should Be Dead — Dave Baker (Encore)

21 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In May of 2007 Dave Baker should have died from a massive heart attack. This is his unbelievable story — what happened, how he recovered, and why he...

How to Reinvent Yourself – Steve Chandler (Encore)

14 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Drugs, alcohol, failure — In this encore episode, coach/author Steve Chandler tells the insane story about turning his life around. If you get easil...

How to Make a Big Life Change – Robert Greene (Encore)

07 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Is it really too late to make a big change in your life? In this encore interview Robert Greene discusses power, mastery, and how he wandered through ...

Sex, Drugs and Escaping from Life – Junpo Denis Kelly(Encore)

31 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If you make enough money, have enough sex, do enough drugs, meditate, whatever -- can you escape the frustration of living? The late Zen Master Junpo ...

Greg Long – How to Come Back from the Dead (Encore)

24 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Please enjoy this encore episode of The New Man Podcast. Afraid to take risks? Afraid to admit you’re afraid? Greg Long nearly drowned surfing Corte...

How to Beat Mental Resistance + Wannabe Rock Stars — Tripp Lanier

13 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If your current path is challenging or scary, does that mean you’re on the wrong path? How can we keep mental resistance from killing our confidenc...

The Ego is Not the Enemy? — Tripp Lanier

30 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What if our ego is not the enemy? What if trying to kill our ego is killing our peace of mind? And what does this have to do with Peacemaker, Team Am...

Startup Founder Mindset – David Perel’s Racing Rollercoaster Continues

15 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had your dream opportunity pulled out from under you? Do you try to do everything yourself or do you train others how to help? And if ...

Kelly Slater and a Healthy Competitor Mindset — Tripp Lanier

01 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever get burned out striving for more, more, more? Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself or your accomplishments to others? And what c...

The Magical Steak Story: Dangers of a Magical Mindset — Tripp Lanier

15 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do some people seem to have magical powers? Or do they just have a skill you may not have yet? And what does this have to do with a mysterious objec...

The 3 Keys to Clarity: Finding Direction and Alignment — Tripp Lanier

01 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have a gnawing feeling that you’re not “on track”? In this short video, I discuss the 3 step process that helps me and my coaching clien...

Why Did They Call Me Cat Squeeze? Productivity and Outgrowing Your Life — Tripp Lanier

18 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered why some folks call me ‘cat squeeze’? Probably not, but we’re doing to talk about it anyway. Today we discuss outgrowin...

Dealbreakers: Are You Roommates or Lovers? — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

14 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you and your main squeeze lovers or just roommates? Is being lovers a priority or an afterthought? And what puts the brakes on your sex life? T...

My Wife Challenges Me to Go Big — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

30 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you holding yourself back from the life and work you truly want? Do your fears of rejection or going broke keep you playing small? And would oth...

Do You Fear Your Ambition? (Part 4) – Brian Johnson

16 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are your goals too ambitious or are you holding yourself back? What is the opposite of imposter syndrome? And is there anyone in your life who chall...

What Would You Die For? – Sebastian Junger (Freedom, Tribe, The Perfect Storm)

28 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you lost or do you have a clear sense of purpose? Do you seek or avoid risk? And do you feel that you’re part of a group that you would die fo...

Why Avoiding Conflict is Creating Conflict – Jayson Gaddis (Getting to Zero, The Relationship School)

12 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What if avoiding conflict was the thing killing your relationship and sex life? Are you being fake with your partner because you’re afraid to tell ...

From Inner Critic to Inner Peace – Richard Schwartz (IFS, No Bad Parts)

28 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Richard Schwartz introduced IFS or Internal Family Systems many years ago. Since then, the process has been used to heal, strengthen, and align the mi...

You’re Being Hormonal – When Heated Talks Turn into Fights — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

14 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When you tell her she’s being ‘hormonal’ why does it typically erupt in flames? Why do heated conversations have a tendency to spiral into infe...

Adrian Grenier: Success, Failure, and Rebirth

31 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Adrian Grenier (Vincent Chase from HBO’s Entourage). While Chase’s life was a fantasy, Adrian’s life behind the scenes had its share of ups and ...

Rickson Gracie – How to Win Without a Fight

14 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If you’re even remotely familiar with the world of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu then you know that Rickson Gracie is nothing short of a legend. He has a new...

This Doc Wants to Wake Your Ass Up – ZDoggMD Zubin Damania

03 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If you speak the truth could you lose your career? Is there more to life than striving for something we don’t already have? Dr. Zubin Damania aka ZD...

Imposter Syndrome – Is it You Against the World? — Tripp Lanier

21 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Ever feel like it’s you against the world? Does imposter syndrome give you the sense that at any moment it’s all gonna come crashing down? And h...

How to Create Anti-Fragile Confidence (Part 3) – Brian Johnson

06 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you focused on what’s important or just trying to put out fires? Do you ever get overwhelmed by all of the ideas in books and podcasts? And wh...

How to Level Up Without Burning Out – Steven Kotler (The Art of Impossible)

23 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you trying to achieve the impossible or just get through the week? What are the necessary keys for turning your work into play? And is grinding ...

What if Surrender is the Opposite of Defeat? – Kute Blackson (The Magic of Surrender)

09 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you fixated on who you should be or who you truly are? Are you exhausted from trying to control so many things that seem out of your control? An...

How to Stop Bitching and Create What You Want – Shana James, MA

26 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Does your partner give you a hard time because you want more sex? Do you blame your work or family for getting in the way of what has you feel alive?...

Psychedelics and Getting Out of Your Own Way — Will Van Derveer, MD

11 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If you were wearing blinders, how would you know? What if your perspective on the world — instead of the world itself — was the thing truly holdi...

Is Believing in God Dangerous? — Jamie Wheal, Recapture the Rapture

26 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Is it dangerous to believe in god or something bigger than yourself? What do Mars colonization, cults, and the pursuit of heavenly salvation have i...

Go From Poopy-Pants to Power — Tripp Lanier

20 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Tired of feeling uninspired or “meh?” Tired of hearing yourself bitch and complain? And why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or ...

Aren’t We All a Little Crazy? Mental Illness to Peak Performance — Keith Kurlander

06 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What if your normal level of stress, anxiety, or depression didn’t have to be normal? Do you feel like you’re using work, alcohol, or something...

Build Confidence: There is No Secret Sauce — Tripp Lanier

24 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you struggle to follow through on the stuff you know you need to be doing? Do you get “shiny object syndrome” and change course too often? ...

How Do You Deal with Criticism? (Part 2) – Brian Johnson

08 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you following the herd or taking the lead? What’s driving your chronic dissatisfaction and frustration? And how can rubbing people the wro...

Competitive Mindset: Is There More to Life than Winning and Losing? — Tripp Lanier

03 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Make the most of your competitive mindset without turning life into a pissing match. Tips for dealing with the fear of missing out, losing, and that t...

Is There More to Life Than Chasing Money or Importance? — Doc G

16 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you worry that you’re on the wrong path in life? Are you focused on goals and outcomes or doing what you actually enjoy? And what if there’...

Winning Your Inner Civil War (Part 1) – Brian Johnson

02 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have a sense that something is rumbling in your soul, trying to get out? Do you feel confused about who you are professionally? And are y...

Are You Selling Your Soul? — John Jantsch

19 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

John Jantsch (The Self-Reliant Entrepreneur) discusses how our deeper values play a role in our success. If you’re tired of the typical, hyper-achie...

The Truth About Relationships – Neil Strauss (Replay)

05 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Neil Strauss (“The Truth”, “The Game”) discusses the gritty truth about his experiences with infidelity, sex rehab, sex clubs, open relationsh...

The Tools to Get Out of Your Own Way – Barry Michels (Replay)

15 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We revisit Barry Michels’ classic interview on The New Man Podcast. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/barry-michels-tools-coming-alive ...

Not Everybody Gets to Be King: The Mindset Difference Between a Leader and a Follower — Tripp Lanier

08 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Not everybody gets to be king. What’s the mindset difference between a leader and a follower? Are you a king hiding out as a knight? And ho...

Motivation Beyond Fear: Underachievers vs Overachievers — Tripp Lanier

01 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Finding motivation beyond fear. Why underachievers and overachievers are typically driven by fear. Developing self leadership skills to get out of fea...

No More Mr. Nice Guy – Dr. Robert Glover (Replay)

24 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

No More Mr. Nice Guy (Dr. Robert Glover) What is Nice Guy Syndrome? Why do nice guys struggle in relationships and work? Plus, the four steps for gett...

Am I With the Right Person? — Tripp Lanier

17 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why we get stuck in unsatisfying relationships. Understanding the purpose of your relationship, tips for creating more alignment so you don’t have t...

How to Meditate for Mindfulness — Tripp Lanier

13 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What’s the point of meditation? How does it help us bounce back from fear and reactivity? And what’s it like to meditate in a room full of f...

The War of Art, Fear, and Resistance (Replay) – Steven Pressfield

03 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Steven Pressfield The War of Art. Ready to turn pro and do the work? Legendary author Steven Pressfield talks about beating resistance, getting out of...

Why You (Probably) Don’t Need to Be More Productive — Tripp Lanier

27 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you busy but still feel like you’re not doing enough? Does it seem like it’s all on you to keep things on track? And do you think that ...

Divide and Conquer: Avoid the Trap — Tripp Lanier

20 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you sick of the pissing match being played out in politics and the media? Can you no longer be friends with folks because you have differing po...

Integrity: What if We Weren’t So Full of Sh*t? — Tripp Lanier

13 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A quick dive into the uncomfortable topic of integrity. Let’s shine a light on the ways we fudge the truth, the costs of doing so, and the opportuni...

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k (Replay) – Mark Manson

06 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We revisit one of Mark Manson’s interviews on The New Man Podcast. Do you ever feel like you must be living your life the wrong way? Do you co...

Is Playing it Safe Killing Your Motivation? — Tripp Lanier

29 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What’s killing your motivation? Is there more to life than making money or being exceptional? And why do so many fathers and husbands forget h...

Why Bother Loving Yourself? (Replay) – Kamal Ravikant

22 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We revisit one of Kamal Ravikant’s classic interviews on The New Man Podcast. Can you actually learn how to build confidence and get in the zone ...

Using Play to Deal with Stress and Anxiety — Jason Goldberg

15 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What if life and work could be less draining? Do you ever catch yourself taking things too seriously? And what if you didn’t depend on fear or...

The Obstacle is the Way (Replay) – Ryan Holiday

08 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We revisit Ryan Holiday’s classic interview on The New Man Podcast. Do you think some folks are just magically able to bounce back from adversity...

Are Weight Lifting and Cardio a Waste of Time? — Dr. John Jaquish

31 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How would a scientist approach getting stronger and leaner? Is cardio getting in the way of your fat loss goals? And do we really need things to...

Tim Ferriss (Replay) – How to Be Kickass Fast

26 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We revisit Tim Ferriss’s classic interview on The New Man Podcast. In this conversation, the 4-Hour Workweek and 4-Hour Body author discusses how to...

Give Up or Stick it Out? Tough Love Swimming Lessons and The Hollywood Montage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

18 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Did you have a terrifying experience when you learned how to swim? Does learning a difficult task feel the same as doing it well? And what life ...

Motivation, Clarity, and Why Kids Suck (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

11 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you depend on motivation or confidence to do what’s best for you? What if you’re stuck because you don’t know what to do? And why do ki...

Dealing with Analysis Paralysis and Self Sabotage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

04 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you believe you have commitment issues? Why do we sabotage ourselves? And how can we overcome analysis paralysis so that we can start taking ...

Is it Time to Redefine Yourself? — JP Bouvet

28 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

JP Bouvet is a world class drummer that has lived through one of my recurring nightmares — twice. In this talk we explore our fear of face planting ...

Why Comedy Will Save Your Sanity – Kyle Kinane

22 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Kyle Kinane (Comedy Central, Trampoline in a Ditch) discusses why we need to laugh at ourselves, getting caught up in comparisons, and confro...

Mindfulness, Meditation, and Riding Emotional Waves – Jaimal Yogis

14 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Jaimal Yogis (Saltwater Buddha, The Fear Project) on mindfulness, meditation, and riding emotional waves. Also discussed: fatherhood, common misco...

Fear of Failure and Choosing to Play Big (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

07 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What if the fear of failure wasn’t the thing holding us back? Could the freedom we deeply want be available to us right now? And how could we ...

What Can a Porn Star Teach You About Sex? — Erik Everhard

30 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Erik Everhard, author of Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers has been in the porn industry for over 20 years. He’s had sex with over 4,000 women. Today ...

The Key to Negotiating and Resolving Conflict – Kwame Christian, American Negotiation Institute

22 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you get pissed off when someone says something that goes against your values? Do you believe that negotiation is all about winning and getting t...

Is it Safe to Talk About Race? — Mark Palmer

15 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Does it seem scary to talk about race? How is racial tension similar to an uncomfortable Thanksgiving dinner? And what if the thing that would m...

The Starbucks Shootout (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt ) – Tripp Lanier

02 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wanted something so badly that you screwed it up? Why do our efforts to “get it right” usually end up with us getting it wrong? ...

How to Use Death to Become More Powerful (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

26 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt that you’re waiting to do what you really want to do in life? How could the fact that we’re going to die, help us live more ...

How to Stop Playing it Safe – Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

19 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever play it safe when it comes to money or sex? Do you take risks or only go for what appears to be a “sure thing?” And how can we m...

That Time I Went to the Butt Doctor (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

12 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What does it mean to be dangerous? How can we ensure we don’t become grumpy, soft, and fragile old men? And could what you’re about to hear ...

Facing Fear: Only the Dead Survive – Tripp Lanier Group Coaching Call

06 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

With so much uncertainty right now, how do you deal with the uncomfortable feelings that arise? What if it actually all came crashing down? What...

Confronting Fear, Scarcity, and Pressure — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

07 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do we have to depend on fear for motivation? Can we learn how to put scarcity and pressure into perspective? And how can we learn to forge our ...

Playing a Game We Can’t Win — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

10 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you think more success and status are the keys to lasting fulfillment? What happens when our achievements leave us feeling empty? And what ...

Maybe You Don’t Have Commitment Issues — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

03 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

If you want more out of life then what’s really getting in the way? Why do we have such a hard time making a commitment? And what’s so wro...

How to Get Out of Your Own Way — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

25 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you want to make a change but believe you need the perfect plan before you take action? Does your work or salary or title determine your value a...

A Bold Way to Start a Relationship — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

18 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you face your challenges alone or do other men have your back? How does our desire for a plan or vision become a trap? And what’s the key t...

From Imposter Syndrome to Being Unf—kwithable — Ash Ambirge

11 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever suffered from “imposter syndrome”? Are you okay with simply chasing money or do you want your work to be meaningful, too? And ...

Should You Settle or Blow Up Your Life? — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

04 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel guilty for wanting more out of life? Is it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship? And would you have to blow u...

The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

28 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How important is it for you to be in control? Do you ever feel like your life is out of alignment with your values? And what does it take to f...

How to Treat Your Body Like a Pro — Jon Mitchell

21 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Lebron James spends $1 million dollars per year on his health. What do you spend to ensure that your body doesn’t hold you back? Functional Medicine...

Neil Peart: Lessons Learned About How to Live Life On Your Terms

17 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Tripp Lanier discusses facing our fears of failure and criticism. Here are a few brief lessons learned from legendary Rush drummer, Neil Peart about l...

Productivity and The Shadow Side of Goals — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

14 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

As someone who makes a living coaching others to accomplish goals, Tripp discusses how our goals can become a trap. Plus: Glorifying busy-ness, how ou...

Defining Success and Strength on Your Own Terms — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

07 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

After coaching successful men for over 15 years, Tripp boils down what kills our freedom, aliveness, and peace of mind. Does success really mean we’...

Following Your Passion is Hard as Hell — Dr. Eric Goodman, Foundation Training

10 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Following Your Passion is Hard as Hell. My friend Eric Goodman is the creator of Foundation Training. He’s built a global movement by empowering peo...

Bigots and Snowflakes — What Do You Have in Common? Integral Theory with Jeff Salzman, The Daily Evolver

25 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Are you bored with the whole left vs right, culture war gridlock? What if there was a way that this dumpster fire could make us stronger? And could yo...

Bold or Reckless? A Rollercoaster of Losses and Wins – David Perel, Pro Racing Driver

12 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

David Perel gave up his dream of being a pro racing driver and became a tech startup founder. But dreams die hard. In this crazy story, David recalls ...

Metallica, Miracles, and the Megaforce of Will — Jon “Jonny Z” Zazula

22 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Jon Zazula (Heavy Tales) and his wife Marsha are legends in the metal music industry. With Megaforce Records they discovered Metallica and launched a ...

Can Masturbation Change Your Life? — Alyssa Morin

08 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Could changing the way you masturbate change your life? Somatic Sex Educator Alyssa Morin discusses settling for lousy pleasure, what hipster beers ca...

Facing Fear Head On – The 3 Phases of a Challenge

17 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

How to face fear. Understanding the 3 phases of a challenge — When we’re in the creative process and we’re looking at the next scary step it’s...

Are We Making Life Harder Than it Needs to Be? — Brian Johnson

05 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Brian Johnson of Philosophers Notes and Optimize.me discusses perfectionism, the inner critic, understanding the whole point of life, and why he blame...

How to Find Your Zone of Genius – Gay Hendricks

20 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

What is your Zone of Genius and how do you find it? Do you have to blow up your life if you want to reinvent yourself? And why do some folks sabotage ...

What’s the Difference Between Rich and Wealthy? – Brian Portnoy

06 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Brian Portnoy, author of Geometry of Wealth discusses the difference between being rich and wealthy, funding contentment, and answering the question, ...

The Inner Critic: When Success Makes Us Weak — Dr. Michael Gervais

23 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dr. Michael Gervais is a high performance psychologist who works with the Seattle Seahawks and Fortune 100 companies. Today we pick apart the myths of...