The New Man
Episodes
Money, Mindset, and Comedy – Paul Ollinger
10 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Paul Ollinger (Crazy Money Podcast) busted his ass, cashed out of Facebook, and became a stand up comic. Today we’re going to talk money being a maj...
Meaning, Strength, and the Wolf Connection – Teo Alfero
25 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Teo Alfero The Wolf Connection: Creating a life of meaning and heart. Leaving home to work with Carlos Castaneda, building a wolf sanctuary, and rigor...
Dating Essentials for Men Who Don’t Want to Be Jerks — Dr. Robert Glover
11 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Robert Glover Dating Essentials for Men — Dating advice for guys who don’t want to be jerks. Finding high quality women, testing for interest, how...
Excuses: How to Quickly Pivot into Power
31 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Stop making excuses and quickly pivot into power. There are 3 main excuses that hold us back and have us play small. In this quick talk coach Tripp La...
Mark Manson is Out to Kill Your Sacred Cows — Mark Manson
10 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Mark Manson sold millions of copies of his last book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and he’s back with a new one called Everything is F*cked....
Why Play Makes Us Stronger – Peter Gray
30 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re one of those guys who is struggling to find what has you feel alive, it’s probably because you’ve forgotten how to truly play. Discuss...
Relationships, Fighting, and Lack of Sex: What Can You Do? — Jayson Gaddis
19 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Jayson Gaddis discusses Relationship Warrior, why we tolerate draining relationships, fighting, and a lack of sex. Are we doomed to be dissatisfied as...
229 How to Align Your Work with Your Values — Jon Mitchell Functional Medicine
28 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Jon Mitchell put a lot of time, money, and energy into his career and then realized it wasn’t for him. Instead of staying stuck, Jon hired a coach, ...
228 What She’s Not Telling You – How to Communicate Without Arguing – Alyson Schwabe Lanier
05 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Relationship Advice - How to Communicate Without Arguing. What is she not telling you? Relationships go off the rails when we believe we can’t talk ...
227 Intuition and Trusting Your Gut – Rick Snyder
21 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Intuition and Trusting Your Gut - Rick Snyder author of Decisive Intuition: Use Your Gut Instincts to Make Smart Business Decisions. Why denying our i...
226 Stuck: No Longer Passionate About Your Work? Time to Upgrade Your Mindset
06 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
No Longer Passionate About Work? An excerpt from a coaching conversation with Tripp Lanier. In this call, we explore some of the reasons why my client...
225 How to Stop Coddling Yourself and Others – Jonathan Haidt
24 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Jonathan Haidt thinks we constantly lie to ourselves as a way to rationalize emotional choices. So should we become Vulcans, living lives devoid of an...
224 Motivation, Pressure, and Getting Off the Hamster Wheel — Craig Revord
09 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Do you depend on fear for motivation? Do you make progress but still feel anxious, tired, or under pressure? And is success really just a strategy to ...
223 Energy, Power, and a Wife That Wants to Go to an Orgy — Rob Kandell
19 Dec 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What if your wife asked you to go to an orgy? Rob Kandell (Unhidden) explores why so many guys are feeling drained and exhausted in our relationships ...
222 How to Live When You Should Be Dead — Dave Baker
28 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
In May of 2007 at the age of 49, Dave Baker, a competitive athlete and lifeguard, went through, let’s just say, an “incident”. This is his story...
220 How to Drop the Negativity – AJ Jacobs
31 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Human guinea pig and bestselling author AJ Jacobs (Thanks a Thousand) returns to discuss what he’s learned from his latest long term experiment. Thi...
219 Using Failure and Loss to Become Stronger — Coaching Call
17 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we stay in jobs and marriages way past their due date? Why are loss and failure critical to future success? How do we unconsciously self sabota...
218 What Fantasies Reveal About Your Mindset – Group Coaching Call
03 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Are your goals making you unhappy? Are you busting butt to create a future that may never exist? What do our fantasies tell us about what we truly wan...
217 Is “Success” a Fantasy? Mastering Midlife – Mark Silverman
19 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
How to thrive as we age. Why guys can have a midlife crisis when they’re 30 or 50. Why hustling is often a symptom of an unhealthy mindset. Learning...
216 How to Get Your Life Together – Joe Bernstein
05 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Mission, Money, and Meaning. How to get your life together; How to identify the mindset that keeps us playing small; Where we find the most satisfacti...
For Coaches: Why Jerks Can Make Money
23 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the biggest threat to our coaching practice? And why can jerks make money? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established ...
For Coaches: Why Great Coaches Go Broke, Too
21 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Why do some of the “best” coaches go broke? What else do we need other than coaching skills to have a thriving coaching practice? Plus more inform...
For Coaches: Why Most Coaches Won’t Experience 10X Growth
16 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What can we learn from a professional coach who experienced 10X growth within 18 months? And why are so few coaches unwilling to do what it takes to c...
Overcome the Fear of Failure – You’re Not a Big Deal
14 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What if you weren’t that big of a deal? What if your fear of failure was a waste of the precious time you have to be alive? Ideas for how to stop ta...
For Coaches: Take the Sting Out of Rejection
09 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Rejection stings. And avoiding rejection will kill professional growth, too. Today we talk about ways to take the sting out of getting a “no”. Plu...
Making Excuses: Blowing Up Our Lives to Make a Big Change
07 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Is it true we have to quit our job or jeopardize our family in order to create a big change? Let’s discuss resistance and the excuse that keeps us s...
For Coaches: Why You’re Not Getting Penetration
02 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Why aren’t you getting cool opportunities and referrals? Let’s talk about the Professional Friend Zone. Plus more information about the Authority ...
Leadership Skills – Nearly Pissing Away Millions Because of Fear
01 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
How one of Tripp’s coaching clients nearly pissed away millions because he was stuck in fear. What happens when we play not to lose vs focusing on w...
Mindset for Success – Will F-You Money Slay Your Dragons?
25 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Are you hoping one day you’ll be successful enough to finally feel free from life’s “dragons”? What’s the mindset to find lasting peace, fre...
45 Year Old Boys – Why Some Just Can’t Grow Up
18 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Why is playing the victim the most natural thing we can do? And why is bitching, complaining and protesting a false sense of power? Learn the two basi...
Manliness – How Good Boys Become Manly Men
11 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Why is the pursuit of manliness a trap? Who are the only guys who care about being ‘manly’? And how do we learn how to play our own game? Also dis...
Personal Growth Jackass – How to Tell if Optimization is a Distraction
04 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What can Kenny Powers teach us about personal growth? Is optimizing your diet, meditation, mindset, and exercise a distraction from what’s most impo...
Hunter or Prey? How Are You Approaching Your Life?
27 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to how we create our ideal lifestyle, relationship, and profession — are we acting like hunter or prey? Are we letting fear and urgenc...
Success or Failure – Why Most Guys Will Fail
19 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Why are some guys able to make amazing things happen while most will not? Instead of making excuses, what if we looked between our ears? In this epi...
Why Tough Guys Make it Hard to Solve Problems
12 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
When you’re facing a challenge do you hide out and withdraw from others? In this video we talk about why “tough guys” aren’t so smart when it...
Finding Your Purpose in Life – Stop Making it So Hard
30 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Most guys are trying to find their big, magical purpose for life — the profession or calling that will make them plenty of money and getting up in t...
FOMO, Scarcity, and the Need for More, More, MORE
23 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Beautiful bikini-clad women on the covers of magazines aren’t the only photoshopped BS that we’re consuming. Comparing ourselves to the distorted ...
The Right Path: How to Tell if You’re on the Wrong Path in Life
16 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
How can you tell if you’re on the right path in life? What can you do if you believe you’re on the wrong path? In this video we discuss a simple t...
Goals, Grit, and the Hero’s Journey
09 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Today we’re going to talk about goals, the hero’s journey, and what we can do to stay off the hamster wheel of scarcity and fear in our lives. Cr...
The Blind Spot: Watching a Guy Get a BJ at the Beach
02 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What I learned from watching a guy get a blow job at the beach. What do our friends talk about when we’re not there? What keeps us stuck in unhealth...
Masculine Power: Why Won’t She Have Sex With Me?
24 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Why would your partner want to have sex with you? How are you penetrating the world? Healthy masculine power, nice guy syndrome, and a practice that ...
The Inner Critic and Self Love: How to Be an Ally to Yourself
17 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
How to tame our inner critic, what does self love in a practical way, how to be an ally to yourself, Kamal Ravikant - Love Yourself Like Your Life Dep...
Anxiety: If You Don’t Want Anxiety Then Attack
11 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re feeling anxiety, let’s talk about a quick way to create some ease while gaining a ton of power and energy. It just may not be the way yo...
Productivity Hacks: Why You Won’t Need Them If You Shift Focus
05 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
How to quickly become more focused and effective. Insights into why we’re busy spinning our wheels instead of getting stuff done.
215 What if Nobody Could Hurt You? — Aubrey Marcus
27 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Aubrey Marcus discusses open relationships, why (most) high achievers are driven by demons, life balance, finding power in surrender, how plant medici...
Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power
21 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power — What makes us believe that we have to achieve perfection or have the perfect pla...
Motivation Hacks: Why Passion is Overrated
14 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Motivation Hacks: Why passion is overrated. How to build your fire. Let’s take a look at the myth that says we need to be full of desire before we c...
Dave Chappelle on Making Excuses and How to Quit
07 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
A lesson learned from Dave Chappelle about quitting and giving up on our dreams. Plus why I was afraid to quit playing football, how we abandon what s...
Addicted to Self Help? When Big Ideas Make Us Small
01 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Learning big ideas feels good. But what feels better than discovering the latest big idea? When does learning and preparing and researching get in the...
Ryan Gosling the Pick Up Artist? Standing Out From the Crowd
21 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Can you imagine if Ryan Gosling gave up on his strengths and played pick up artist games to get women? That’s what many guys are doing on a professi...
Tough Love for Entrepreneurs – Find Your Beast
14 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Tripp Lanier shares some tough love from a group coaching call for entrepreneurs. Discussed: expecting things to be easy, how we’re getting soft as ...
10 Years of The New Man: A Few Lessons I’ve Learned Along the Way
06 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The New Man Podcast crosses the decade mark. Host and coach Tripp Lanier shares a few lessons he’s learned about playing your own game, having bette...
214 Sex. Power. Desire. Danger? — Shana James
09 Jan 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Why can some guys flirt without being offensive? Is sexual desire going to get you fired? Is shaming and repressing your turn-on the best way to deal ...
213 Is Average Bad? External Validation & Comparing Yourself to Others – Barry Michels
12 Dec 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Barry Michels (co-author of The Tools and Coming Alive with Phil Stutz) discusses lessons learned from working with celebrities and billionaires — t...
212 Sex Tips for Men: Break Out of Your Sex Routine – Alyssa Morin
20 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Alyssa Morin Somatic Sex Educator - What is your partner complaining about when it comes to sex with you? What can you do if sex is stale or predictab...
211 How to Avoid Communication Breakdowns – Alan Alda
07 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Alan Alda discusses why so many smart guys are terrible communicators, how bad communication makes life harder, and what you can do to be more powerfu...
210 How to Break Free from Negativity – Tank Sinatra aka George Resch
20 Oct 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tank Sinatra aka George Resch discusses what Gary Vaynerchuk told him about trolls, being called a sellout, and what he does to break free from negati...
209 How to Create Life Changing Experiences – Dan Heath co-author of The Power of Moments
10 Oct 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we remember specific moments and forget the majority of others? Can we design “defining” moments and experiences that change our lives? Wit...
Part 6: What I Learned from Being Really Bad at My Job
28 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Part 6 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all ...
Part 5: How to Tell if a Guy is Going to Fail
26 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Part 5 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all ...
Part 4: The Mindset to Get Out of “Stuck”
21 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Part 4 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all ...
208 The Tools to Beat the Devil In Your Head – Phil Stutz + Barry Michels
19 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
“The Tools” guys Phil Stutz and Barry Michels (Coming Alive) discuss how to have more energy, overcome your worst habits, what to do when you get ...
Part 3: Why Most Guys Don’t Get Stuff Done
14 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Part 3 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all ...
Part 2: How Most Guys Give Up Their Power
12 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Part 2 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all ...
Part 1: How to Tell if a Guy Has Lost His Balls
07 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. An intro to Tripp Lanier's Authority Group Coaching program.
207 How to Create Your Own Opportunities – Mike Kelly Founder of Member Vault
05 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Mike Kelly Member Vault Founder discusses moving from a job to starting his own company, creating your own opportunities, having ballsy conversations,...
206 What To Do About Your Family Problems – Eric Maisel PhD
21 Aug 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Family problems? Do “normal” families even exist? What can you do to stay in your power? Discussion with Eric Maisel PhD author of Overcoming Your...
205 How to Be Tough As Hell – Joe De Sena Spartan Race
07 Aug 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Joe De Sena Spartan Race CEO and author discusses grit, obstacle immunity, hacking, business success, and how to be tough as hell.
204 How to Fall in Love with Fear – Akshay Nanavati Fearvana
24 Jul 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Akshay Nanavati discusses: tips for turning fear into power, PTSD, addiction, ultra-marathons, the Marines, and finding bliss thru fear aka Fearvana.
203 How to Be Better Than Everybody Else – JP Sears
10 Jul 2017
Contributed by Lukas
JP Sears How to Be Ultra Spiritual — Why you should get offended; Comedy; Sex, Tantra and Acro-Yoga; Finding a sense of purpose; Neediness; Spiritua...
202 How to Stop Making Life Harder Than It Already Is – Jaimal Yogis
26 Jun 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Jaimal Yogis (All Our Waves Are Water) discusses why the 4 Hour Workweek Lifestyle is unfulfilling, Buddhism, escaping life’s problems, and comparin...
201 Should You Leave Your Relationship? — Alyson Lanier
16 Jun 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Alyson Lanier (relationship and intimacy coach) discusses: hot to get your relationship on the right track, how to make a big commitment, when it’s ...
How Anger Can Make Us More Powerful: Anger Management
09 Jun 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Is anger management a bunch of BS? How can anger make us more powerful? Discussed: Anger vs aggression, Robert Augustus Masters, Equine Therapy
200 Hero’s Journey Through Addiction – Shane Ramer
27 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Shane Ramer from Sober Guy Radio shares his hero’s journey through addiction to recovery. Plus: mindset, living for something bigger than your ego
199 How to Leave a Career That is Eating You Alive — Robert Kandell
16 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Robert Kandell created One Taste with Nicole Daedone. Discussed: How the company was devouring his life, how he dealt with doubt/uncertainty, and how ...
How To Overcome Anxiety and Move Into Power
09 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tripp Lanier talks about how to overcome anxiety and move into power. Learn how to master dynamic tension, defeat powerlessness, and go all in.
Got Fear of Rejection? How To Stop Avoiding NO
02 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tripp Lanier talks about overcoming the fear of rejection and encourages you to stop avoiding NO so you can play at a higher level and feel more alive...
Stop Trying To Be Liked
25 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tripp Lanier talks about how to grow your business by taking the focus away from trying to be ‘liked’ and instead focus on serving others.
Is Following Your Bliss a Trap?
18 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Joseph Campbell's quote ‘Follow Your Bliss’, how it relates to making money, and how it doesn’t guarantee you won’t have challenges.
Stop Being A Jerk: How Ego Is The Enemy
11 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
How ego is the enemy, how it shows up in self-deprecation and has you play small, and why you might be a jerk if you’re hiding out waiting to do goo...
David Lee Roth at a Strip Club – How To Have More Energy And Passion
04 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tripp Lanier talks about his experience with David Lee Roth at a strip club. Tips for how to get more energy, passion back into your life.
Stop Messing Around: Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
24 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
How to get out of your comfort zone and stop tolerating a life you don’t want. Tips to step out of your comfort zone and into uncertainty.
Why You’re Not Getting Cool Opportunities: How to Sell Yourself Better Than an Elevator Pitch
20 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tripp Lanier talks about learning how to sell yourself by taking responsibility to master your elevator pitch and tell your story so you can create co...
The Drama Triangle, How To Avoid Drama, and Tripp’s 3-Way
14 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tripp Lanier talks the drama triangle, how to avoid drama and the time he wanted to have a 3-way on his honeymoon without his wife.
Get a Growth Mindset: The Magic of a Montage
07 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tripp Lanier talks about the growth mindset, learning as a key to growth, and why you need a montage to achieve your goals
198 Understanding the Mastery of Self – Don Miguel Ruiz Jr
24 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Don Miguel Ruiz Jr: Mastery of Self, how to stop taking things personally, personal power, scarcity mindset, and how men become domesticated.
How To Be A Badass: Learn From Bruce Lee
21 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Learn how to be a badass from Bruce Lee as Tripp Lanier talks about Bruce Lee philosophy and why being a badass requires you to be a whole person.
197 How to Benefit from Altered States – Jamie Wheal Stealing Fire
14 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Stealing Fire Jamie Wheal discusses flow, ecstasis, startup founders at Burning Man, Navy SEALs using altered states to accelerate learning
196 Habits of Heroes, Strength, and the Trap of Manliness – Eric Davis (Navy SEAL Sniper Instructor)
25 Jan 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Eric Davis Habits of Heroes: Navy SEAL Sniper Instructor discusses the trap of manliness, why most guys have no clue about strength, and what makes me...
195 Rebirth and Facing Fears – Kamal Ravikant
03 Jan 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Kamal Ravikant Rebirth: How to face your fears, forgive, use death as a motivator, stay out of victim mindset, and walk the Camino de Santiago.
194 How to Optimize Your Mood – Dr Will Van Derveer
12 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Optimize Your Mood. What’s really causing your lousy moods? Dr Will Van Derveer helps us understand what the brain needs so you can feel amazing. Al...
193 Women and Sexual Harassment at Work – Jeanine Becker
05 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Women and Sexual Harassment with Jeanine Becker. How to be an ally to women at work. When can you tell her a dirty joke without losing your job?
192 The Subtle Art of Not Caring So Much — Mark Manson
14 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Mark Manson author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F discusses why it’s better to be average, entitlement, bad values vs good values, and trying t...
191 Why Personal Growth Won’t Make You More Money — Daniel Priestley
07 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Daniel Priestley on being a Key Person of Influence, why personal growth won’t make you more money, and why self deprecation is another ego-trip.
190 Can a SEAL Sniper Teach Parenting? – Eric Davis
25 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Eric Davis Navy SEAL Sniper discusses Raising Men, lessons learned from SEAL training and taught to our sons and daughters.
189 How to Turn an Enemy into an Ally – Bill Shireman
10 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Bill Shireman of Future 500 discusses how to turn an enemy into an ally, being played by political polarization, and institutions demonizing one anoth...
188 What’s It Like to Go to Prison? – Michael Kass
26 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What’s it like to go to prison? What can we learn from a guy who made a big mistake and then paid for it with years of his life? Plus the danger of ...
187 Doing Whatever it Takes – Tony Bonnici
14 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Doing whatever it takes. Tony Bonnici discusses dyslexia, ADD, building a 7 figure business, and why he walked away from it all for a bigger mission.
Take the Quiz: Power, Success, Money, and The New Man
02 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Are you the shallow rat racer or the broke spiritual seeker? How does The New Man approach money, success, and power? Take the quiz.
Part 5: Why Guys Get Stuck in the Professional Friend Zone
31 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Why guys get stuck in the "Professional Friend Zone," how to identify and stay out of the professional friend zone.