Many of us hold onto the belief that “once I’m in a relationship… then I’ll finally be happy.” But while love can absolutely bring joy, it can’t replace the inner work of building our own happiness baseline. In this episode, Julie and Yue talk with celebrity happiness coach and positive psychology expert Rob Mack about why lasting happiness starts within—not after you meet the right person. Drawing on research like the Michigan State study showing marriage increases happiness by less than one percent, Rob explains why real love thrives when two people come together already full, grounded in their own worth —and how couples support each other, not complete each other.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why Happiness Isn’t Delivered After Love—It Starts With You• How Hedonic Adaptation Lowers the High of Major Life Moments• How to Build a Sustainable Happiness Baseline Through Self-Worth• Why Some Relationships Drain You—and How to Walk Away With Clarity• How to Choose a Partner Who Supports Your Wellbeing (Without Relying on Them for It)• How to Create Interdependence—Not Dependence—in Your Relationship• Why Two People Who Are Already Full Build the Strongest, Healthiest LoveTo learn more about Rob Mack: follow @robmackofficial and visit https://www.coachrobmack.com

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