Relationships rarely end because of one major event. More often, they slowly break down through small moments where one partner feels dismissed, unseen, or emotionally unsupported. Matthew Fray, relationship coach and author of This Is How Your Marriage Ends, joins Julie & Yue to unpack the lessons behind his viral article An Open Letter to Shtty Husbands*. He shares how emotional neglect quietly erodes connection, why these patterns often go unnoticed until it’s too late, and what it actually takes to become a more present, emotionally aware partner.In this episode, you’ll learn:How emotional neglect quietly damages relationshipsWhy small dismissive moments matter more than people realizeThe hidden warning signs relationships are strugglingHow these patterns can begin long before marriageWays to become a more emotionally present partnerTo learn more about Matthew Fray, follow him @frayrelationships and visit matthewfray.comWant to feel more connected to your partner? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/PORSHOWOur Sponsors:* Get Behind Closed Doors wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com* Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code POR at ruggable.com * Talkiatry: Get matched with an in-network psychiatrist in just a few minutes using talkiatry.com/POR* The Throne of Broken Gods: Go get the book wherever books are sold or through https://www.kensingtonbooks.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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