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Chapter 1: What insights does the host share about building wealth?
Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, broadcasting from the pods moving and storage studios, it's the Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love. and create actual amazing relationships. Rachel Cruz, Ramsey personality, number one best-selling author multiple times. My daughter is my co-host today as we answer your questions about your life and your money.
Open phones at 888-825-5225. Valerie is in Oakland, California. Hi, Valerie. How are you?
I'm doing well, Dave. Thank you for taking my call. It's a pleasure to be on with you today.
Thank you. How can we help?
So I was recently in a car accident that totaled my car, or they're writing it off. Wow, are you okay? Yes, I'm fine and grateful just to be alive. So they're writing my car off and offering me 15. So I use my car for work. And I'm a physical therapist that does home care, so I need a really reliable car. And, of course, my car was paid for. I'm on baby step number four. I have no debt.
I was working on my emergency fund. I have about $11,000 in it, trying to get to $25,000. And I don't know what to do about a vehicle now. Of course, I have a rental until the end of the month, but... just feeling pressured to make a decision.
Well, you were driving a $15,000 car, and you have a $15,000 check. You go buy a $15,000 car.
Yeah, it's not going to have all the bills in with it.
It's the same car. That car should have a market value that was totaled of $15,000. If you're getting a $15,000 check, you should be able to buy that car again.
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Chapter 2: How did Valerie's car accident impact her financial situation?
And you said or two or another an extra week of that just to give you some breathing room to be able to find this because you should be able to find it.
So, Valerie, let me tell you what's happening, okay, and what I'm pushing against, and this is why it's messing with you. I've not been fair. I'm going to be fair now. I'm going to tell you what's going on, okay? Almost every time for 30 years I've talked to someone in your situation, for some reason the human brain says we need to move up in car.
We need to celebrate the fact that our car was totaled by getting a much better car. And so you've been out looking at new cars.
Well, I wasn't intending to look at new cars.
No, but they jumped in front of you when you were going down the road. That car dealer lot swung around at the traffic light, and there it was in front of you.
Right, but I was looking for a used car on that car lot, and today they're telling me that the used cars are costing more than the new cars.
Yeah, this would be who that told you that, the new car dealer. Yeah.
that's a bunch of crap okay that was true for about five months during the back end of the pandemic when the mississippi ran backward and used cars went up in value it's the only time in history those two things have happened in one year it's absolutely a miracle the red sea parted that year too so but no it's not used cars are not more of do not cost as much as new cars that's not true anymore it was true for 20 seconds and it's not true anymore so you know
If you ask a new car dealer if you need a new car, that's like asking a dog if it's hungry. Okay. So, no, you need to go look for used cars. You need to jump on AutoTrader, some of these other things.
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Chapter 3: What advice is given for purchasing a new vehicle after an accident?
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It is. And today's question of the day comes from Jonathan in the Netherlands. He says, to pay off $43,000 of student loans as soon as possible.
As we're young, we're a young family, we're making $6,500 a month, and now we can use our income and savings to buy a second-hand bigger car, make a garden, make our garden a bit nicer, and later in life we'll have more to spare to pay off those loans anyway. What are your thoughts on this, and what would be the benefit of still following the baby steps more rigidly?
That's a really good question. And you know what, Dave, I hear this a lot. I think a lot of people are like, why do I have to be so urgent? Why do I have to be so intense? And I look at it a couple of different ways. Number one, the series of steps that we follow. This is a guy, you know, Jonathan, I don't mean any harm, but you're kind of just an ish guy.
right you're doing what you want to do you're really not on our plan and that's fine you don't have to be it's your prerogative but the way the steps work is you're doing them consecutively and the first three three you're doing them with intensity so that you can get to the final four which is really that wealth building area so there's um some method to this madness but this kind of goes back to what we've talked about before um
There is urgency because how many, I mean, I think about my grandmother who would say, you know, if you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans. And there is something to be said for that. I think a lot of people just coast through because they think, hey, you know, this is my plan. If I just go out like this, it's going to go, you know, check off the boxes like that.
But you really don't know what's going to come your way. You know, God willing, everything goes fine. And, you know, you'll keep that income and everything will be perfect and everybody's healthy and everything. But you don't know that. And I think that you've got to live each day to the fullest. You've got to do the best that you can with each day that you're given.
And when you've got debt, pay it off. You got $43,000 of debt and you make a fine income. It doesn't have to take you three years to pay this off. You can honestly pay it off a lot faster than that.
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Chapter 4: How should one handle the urgency of finding a new car?
The idea of where debt freedom will take you, which is into wealth and into a whole other realm of generosity than you could even grasp right now, is not appealing to you as much as your garden. Give me a break. Seriously. Will not work, Jonathan. Will not work.
So you can go do what you want to do, but please do not associate my name with it because I don't want to be tied to your failure and you go, I tried that Ramsey stuff and it doesn't work. No, you didn't. No, you didn't. Because we know that there's a high probability you are never going to get out of debt unless you attack it like your dadgum life depends on it.
You got to get so fired up and wired up that your character shifts. Your neuro plasticity moves in the way your brain works, where when you see debt, you recoil. When you pull up next to a nice car at a traffic light, you now no longer go, oh, that's a nice car. You go, that fool's got payments.
Yeah. Well, you know, right now he's stuck in comfort. His life, he feels comfortable. He says, I don't think there's any need to get uncomfortable, to change this. I'm cushy. What's the big deal?
The greatest enemy of excellence is not bad things. The greatest enemy of excellence is the okay.
Yep, just fine.
I'm okay. It's just fine. I'm okay.
That's so true, Dave.
No, you're not. You suck. You're not okay. Your plan sucks. It's pitiful, and it's not going to work.
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Chapter 5: What are the implications of using an emergency fund for car expenses?
Sometimes we do that. George and I do. And Rachel and I do my kid, you know, everybody that that's all okay to do, but that's not what we're talking about here. We're talking about control.
Yeah. And I don't borrow money from family on principle. If they said they wanted to gift it, even with the strings attached, I wouldn't take it. And so it went from a bad idea to a terrible idea real quick. And the truth is, you don't need them. You're going to pay this off fast. You've been doing the hard work.
It's giving you dignity to do the plan on your own without having to do this weird reverse allowance thing to your parents who you already have a strained relationship with. And it's only going to hurt the relationship if you take that money.
Yeah, it is. It's going to make it worse, not better. And they're trying to be nice, but they're trying to influence you to do what they want you to do rather than rather than let you be a grown up. And that's a control function is what that is. And they mean, well, I don't think they're bad people. I'm not saying that at all.
But you can't let folks interrupt your spiritual walk, interrupt your financial decisions. You can learn and you can have discussions, but you can't let people have control over those things, regardless of what they do. So George is right. Even if it was a gift, if it had no tithing and we're not going to do anything
any financial plan you agree with which happens to be ours in this case then um that's a control function and that's what you've got to stay away from so you you already knew what you needed to do you just it but then say this out loud liz here's what's interesting i can hear your voice i can hear it in your voice if you took this money you would feel like you were eight years old
Oh, yeah. I still feel like that a lot anyway with them.
Yeah, and that they return you to your childhood. And so the reason I could hear it in the way they're trying to control and trying to lord over you. And I've had to learn that here at the office with my son working here and my daughter, Rachel, obviously on the air with me. I've had to learn if I'm going to argue with them, I cannot argue in my dad voice.
I have to argue in my friend that is arguing voice.
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Chapter 6: How does the conversation shift to the importance of debt management?
How much has your life changed in one year?
You don't even know. I can hear it. I'm hoping to do my debt-free scream in the fall. I'm so excited. I can't wait.
All right, let's do it. We'll get it scheduled. I'll hold on and make sure you talk to Austin before you leave so you can get to him and make sure you get your debt-free scream set up. And you remind us of this conversation when you're doing the scream, okay?
All right.
All right, kiddo. Way to go. Wow. Very cool.
I'm proud of her.
That's very neat. It's a hard thing to do. Yeah. Moms and dads, it's a very difficult thing. I think, George, it's the most difficult stage of parenting, having your children become adults. And I hate that phrase. I was writing it in a blog thing I was doing the other day about work. And adult children, that's a... I still don't know what to call my kids that are adults.
Because they're your kids. They're not kids. They're not children. They're adults. My offspring that are adults. I mean, what do you call... Because adult children sounds like an oxymoron. Yeah. Doesn't it? And so you've got to... Moms and dads, you've got to...
man well the goal i got it's hard it's hard to not just at easter dinner not to go you know that's a dumb butt thing i've ever heard in my life but you just said they're adults you know i wouldn't say that to one of my friends and so i'm not going to say that to a grown offspring or whatever they are
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