The Real Question
Episodes
Boundaries
03 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we’re joined by special guest Brigid Goggin who is bringing her own question to the podcast.Brigid loves setting boundaries and saying no...
Evil: Part 2
26 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Following up on last week’s conversation, Casper and Vanessa return to some questions about the nature of evil. When do people do evil things and ho...
Evil: Part 1
19 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Casper used to believe that there was no such thing as evil. But since the Trump presidency, he can't suppress the creeping feeling that some people g...
Clothes and Size
12 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
CW: We discuss weight loss and size in this episode.Vanessa owns the perfect polka dot dress. It’s sophisticated yet flirty, it makes her feel amazi...
Neighbors
05 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What do we owe our neighbors? When Casper first moved to New York, he put a lot of effort into getting to know the other people in his apartment ...
Apologies
29 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes apologies that seem 'good' technically, don't actually make Vanessa feel any better.Is there a formula for a good apology? How do you explai...
Grandparents
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Casper wants to feel closer to his paternal grandparents. But there’s a problem: they’ve been dead for a few years now. Is there a way, as he grow...
Voyeurism
15 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
CW: This episode discusses multiple instances of sexual assault and violent crime.In 2014, Vanessa was obsessed with the Woody Allen/Dylan Farrow case...
Driving
08 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If you don’t learn to drive, are you failing to equip yourself for adult life? Casper has promised himself every summer that *this* is the year...
The Tooth Fairy
01 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is it weird to steal children’s body parts in the middle of the night and teach them that it’s okay?After playing the Tooth Fairy for her two step...
Trailer: The Real Question
19 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to The Real Question, a new show from Not Sorry, hosted by Vanessa Zoltan and Casper ter Kuile! Each week we’ll explore life’s questions t...