Secure Love Starts With Feeling Safe in Your Body | Dr. Nicole LePera

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Previously titled “Become a MAGNET to Love (Do THIS to Change EVERYTHING Before 2024!) | Dr. Nicole LePera” — renamed by the publisher on Aug 25, 2026

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Recorded15 Nov 2023

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Lewis welcomes Dr. Nicole LePera, renowned author of the #1 New York Times bestsellers "How To Do The Work" and “How to Meet Your Self” Workbook. Dr. LePera, the creator of the #SelfHealers movement, discusses her latest book, "How to Be the Love You Seek," offering invaluable insights into healing relationships starting with oneself. She highlights the significance of understanding past traumas and how they shape current relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of self-love, emotional resilience, and cultivating healthy connections.Relationships have always been essential to human survival. Our bodies and brains are programmed to seek out connection, whether familial, romantic, or platonic. And yet, these vital bonds are often at the root of our deepest suffering. While our hearts are primed for compassionate connection, our nervous systems—which store all our past hurts and disappointments—are wired for threat and negativity.For decades, leading relationship advice has maintained that successful relationships require a specific compromise—that we must change our authentic expression to better meet the needs of others, and vice versa. It may sound reasonable in theory, but as Dr. LePera explains, this approach is nothing less than a recipe for a lifetime of resentment.Buy her new book How to Be the Love You Seek: Break Cycles, Find Peace, and Heal Your RelationshipsIn this episode you will learnThe difference between self-love and self-worth, and how to focus attention effectively on both.Strategies to practice self-love while maintaining healthy relationships.Common patterns and beliefs that hinder the ability to receive love and ways to shift these mindsets.The role of self-compassion in emotional healing and reprogramming the brain.Techniques for setting healthy boundaries and overcoming self-sabotaging behaviors in relationships.For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1530For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes on Radical Self Love & Acceptance:Jason Derulo – https://link.chtbl.com/1460-podKaramo Brown – https://link.chtbl.com/1457-podPokimane – https://link.chtbl.com/1443-pod Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

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