The Self-Help Podcast with Deepali Nagrani

The Art of Having Difficult Conversations with David Deighton

03 Feb 2026

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Send us a textWhat if a single conversation could turn a cliff’s edge into a bridge?That question sits at the center of our conversation with artist and educator David Deighton, who has spent years engaging strangers in public spaces to transform political heat into human connection. Instead of chasing debate wins or feeding algorithmic outrage, David uses playful art installations and three non-confrontational questions to invite a different posture: attention over argument, safety over spectacle, and shared emotion over hardened positions.In this episode, we explore David’s shift from confrontational online activism to gentle, in-person dialogue—and why it works. He shares how listening for a single common feeling—frustration, hope, disillusionment—and reflecting it back can soften defenses without asking anyone to concede their beliefs. You’ll learn his three questions, why he lets opinions rest without rebuttal, and how to read the body’s cues that signal openness or resistance.The result isn’t capitulation—it’s clarity. When someone feels seen, they often reveal more nuance. When you name a shared feeling, guards lower. And when a conversation ends with one word that captures it all—so often hope—both people walk away changed.If you feel anxious about talking with a parent, partner, friend, or colleague, this episode offers a practical roadmap:Start with strangers to build the muscleChoose the right time and placeLet the first round be theirsLet triggers pass like warm rainWhen invited, speak from the shared emotion—not the argumentWe also unpack why playful public art opens doors that formal panels often slam shut, and how small, daily acts of listening can be as civic as a vote—and sometimes more transformative.Come for the method. Stay for the mindset: presence, curiosity, and the courage to meet the person before the position.If this resonates, subscribe, share this episode with someone you’d like to talk to, and leave a review telling us the first question you’ll ask.Support the show💛 Thank you for being here. If something in this episode spoke to you, I hope you carry it with you — or share it with someone who might need it too. I'd love to hear your story, your thoughts, or just how you're feeling after listening. Reach out anytime at [email protected] 🌐 For more stories, resources, downloadable freebies please visit: www.deepalinagrani.com 🕊️ This is just the beginning. Take care of your body. Be gentle with your heart. And never forget — your story matters.

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The Self-Help Podcast with Deepali Nagrani

The Art of Having Difficult Conversations with David Deighton

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3ª PARTE | 17 DIC 2025 | EL PARTIDAZO DE COPE

13:00H | 21 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

12:00H | 21 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

10:00H | 21 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

13:00H | 20 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

12:00H | 20 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

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