The Tai Lopez Show is now available on Soundcloud. Check it out here: Soundcloud.com/TaiLopezShow “People subconsciously act out stories in their mind about how they think the world works, and it controls their behavior” (click to tweet) Today’s episode is about the book “Love is a Story” by Robert J. Sternberg, which explores the way that the stories we mentally tell about ourselves and how love works controls the way we behave. This means that one of the most important things to look for in a potential partner is either the same, or a similar love story, so that your attitude and mindset will line up with each other. So if it seems like no matter how hard you try, you cannot find the right person, it could be your stories aren’t lining up, or are simply too different. It’s a fascinating way to look at relationships and finding the perfect fit in a partner. “Never date somebody who has a dramatically different subconscious story compared with yours” (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind The love triangle: Intimacy, passion, and commitment People subconsciously act out stories in their mind about how they think the world works, and it controls their behavior Never date somebody who has a dramatically different subconscious story compared with yours While it is possible to change your story over time, it is often a better idea to just look for someone who has the same or similar story to begin with Find out what your love-story is: https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200007/whats-your-love-story “Love is a Story” by Robert J. SternbergLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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