Start Healing Core Wounds with Our Reparent Your Inner Child Course, Free with a 7-Day Trial to the Personal Development School https://offer.personaldevelopmentschool.com/reparenting-your-inner-child?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=reparenting-your-inner-child&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-05-15-26&el=podcast If you’re dating a Dismissive Avoidant, it can feel like you’re doing everything right… and still not getting the connection you want. That’s because Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Styles experience love very differently often in ways they don’t openly communicate. Understanding how they actually feel loved can completely change the way you approach the relationship without abandoning your own needs. Episode Summary In this episode, Thais Gibson shares the 5 key ways Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Styles feel loved, and why many of these needs are often misunderstood in relationships. You’ll learn how honoring autonomy, creating emotional calm, maintaining independence, offering practical support, and protecting vulnerability all play a major role in helping Avoidant individuals feel safe enough to connect. Thais also explains how to balance meeting your own needs while adapting your approach — so you can build connection without reinforcing unhealthy patterns. Key Takeaways ✔️ Dismissive Avoidant individuals feel loved when their autonomy is respected ✔️ Calm, steady connection feels safer than emotional intensity ✔️ Independence and self-sourcing needs reduce pressure in relationships ✔️ Acts of practical support often communicate love more than words ✔️ Vulnerability must be met with safety, not criticism or shame ✔️ Space is often experienced as safety, not rejection ✔️ Secure communication balances both partners’ needs Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

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