Asking my wife UNCOMFORTABLE questions guys are too afraid to ask

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Why do girls say one thing but mean another?

Matt 0:00
Why do girls say one thing but always mean another?
Abby 0:02
I do that?
Matt 0:03
You do that?
Abby 0:04
I feel like I'm a clear communicator.
Matt 0:06
What is the biggest ick a guy could give?
Abby 0:08
Picky eating is a big ick for me.

What is the biggest ick a guy could give?

Matt 0:09
When I told you I didn't like cheese or chocolate, did that kind of piss you off?
Abby 0:12
It agitates me.
Matt 0:13
What's wrong with asking your girlfriend, are you on your period, when they're overreacting?
Abby 0:17
Do I need to explain that?
Matt 0:18
If you're a man watching this, you need to put the are you on your period question into the no square. Would you remarry if I died?
Abby 0:25
It's kind of sad to think about.
Matt 0:26
That's really sad. We asked you guys to submit juicy questions guys are too afraid to ask. Thank you to everyone that submitted their questions on our Unplanned Podcast Instagram. Our first question, starting off strong, is why do girls talk about sex so much and intimate topics with their friends?

What's wrong with asking if she’s on her period?

Abby 0:46
I like talking about it with other women that are married. It's not something that you can like talk about super openly. So then when I'm in company that I'm like, okay, these are also people in my same stage of life. They're my close friends and they're also married and they're women. I would not talk about it with men ever.
Matt 1:04
What's shocking to me is it sounds like you and your lady friends will just like drop your drawers in front of each other. Like you guys have seen each other. Haven't you like seen each other without your clothes on? Because I don't just see my dude friends with no clothes on.
Abby 1:16
I wouldn't say that happens on a regular basis, but if we're like changing, then I feel like men would probably tend to go to separate rooms, whereas women would be more likely to change in front of each other.
Matt 1:26
Maybe you just have more confidence than me.
Abby 1:28
Well, you know, I feel like a lot of it has to do with having had babies you lose a certain level of modesty that i don't think i ever fully regained that especially okay between pregnancy birth and breastfeeding you just some you lose some of that you don't quite gain all of it back i gained some of it back you've had so many women and nurses and doctors see your hoo-ha when you're giving birth i've also always kind of been that way like i think i did dance growing up and we were like always in dressing rooms i did theater
Matt 1:57
And everyone's just seeing each other with their clothes with their clothes off and dance.
Abby 2:01
Also, I don't think my parents like I would I still describe myself as a modest person.
Matt 2:06
Well, wasn't that a thing?
Abby 2:08
It's so relative. Like modesty is so relative. But my parents didn't like ever. They were never like, go back in your room, little miss, and put on longer shorts. They were never. They bought me bikinis like they weren't that type. They never made me feel ashamed of my body or shy about it.
Matt 2:20
i remember that actually dating you in high school i was like this is so hot this girl wears bikinis like she looks so good that's really shouldn't be strange i saw you look great i was just a teenager that thought you looked hot the thing is i never like changed without clothes on from anybody like i did i did theater like i was never changing the dressing room but we were in our underwear we i wasn't well yeah we were in our underwear too but i wasn't taking my underwear off like our parents generation used to take showers together playing like football and doing stuff like that that does seem really wild isn't that weird like everyone's just like in the shower together no clothes on i'm sure that in like some like ymcas it's probably still the case well even in the spa like women are naked really yes actually we were just at the spa and there were naked dudes at the spa i know that i'm thinking about but it was like it's always the old dudes though like the young dudes are more no i would agree it's usually the same with women i would say older women just don't give an f and they're just walking around with with see i'm always i'm always going back and

Why do women talk about intimate topics with friends?

Abby 3:18
that's funny i'm always going back and forth between like okay i need to cover up keep my body private and then also like it's just a body and we don't need to like make it so much more than it is we don't need to like sexualize everything why do girls say one thing but always mean another yes can we please talk about this i do that you do that i feel like i'm a clear communicator you were not a clear communicator okay give me one example

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