What does it mean to build your identity around alcohol, and who do you become when you walk away from it?In this personal episode of the Via Stoica Podcast, Benny reflects on six years sober: the slow unraveling of a drinking identity, the moment that changed everything, and how Stoic philosophy helped him find solid ground on the other side.Welcome to the Via Stoica Podcast, the podcast on Stoicism.This isn't a recovery programme or a how-to guide. It's an honest reflection on self-awareness, learning to see your relationship with alcohol clearly, and asking whether it belongs in the life you actually want to live.Benny traces his story from heavy social drinking in the Netherlands to a quiet turning point in a Dubai hotel room, and the evening years later when he finally made the decision for good. Along the way, he explores the difference between white-knuckling willpower and building genuine intrinsic motivation, and shares how the Stoic practice of negative visualization became a practical anchor in moments of temptation. Pause. Trace the consequences. Ask yourself honestly if that's a price worth paying.What he feared most, losing his place in the group, became his greatest gain.If this story resonates, take a moment to reflect on your own.Support the show🌐 viastoica.com▶️ YouTube: @viastoicaProduced by: Badmic.com#Sober #SoberLife #SoberLiving #Sobriety #SobrietyJourney #AlcoholFree #QuitDrinking #MindfulLiving #Stoicism #StoicPhilosophy #ViaStoica #NegativeVisualization #DeliberateLiving #SelfAwareness #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #PhilosophyPodcast #StoicPodcast #SoberPodcast

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