In this episode of The Well Designed Wedding, we’re diving into a question I hear all the time: should you do a first look? This modern tradition, where couples see each other privately before the ceremony, has become almost standard, but it’s definitely not for everyone. I’m sharing both the emotional and logistical sides of this choice and what a first look can do for you for different reasons. I’ll also walk you through thoughtful alternatives if you love the idea of connection, but want to preserve the magic of the aisle moment.Whether you’re feeling torn or haven’t even thought about this yet, this episode will help you weigh the options and make a decision rooted in your values, not pressure or trends. Remember, there’s no right or wrong here. What matters most is choosing the experience that feels most true to you and your partner. If this helped bring a little clarity, I’d love it if you subscribed, left a review, or shared the episode with a friend who’s planning too!FARO Wellness: Enjoy 10% off bridal wellness treatments like lymphatic massages and facials with the code Beth10. Visit FARO Wellness to book your appointment and get ready to glow on your wedding day!Have a wedding question? Send me text!Sign up for my newsletter! Website: https://www.bethhelmstetter.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bethhelmstetterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewelldesignedweddingpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/bethhelmstettereventsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bethhelmstettereventsLinkedIn: Beth HelmstetterYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@bethhelmstetterPinterest: https://ca.pinterest.com/bethhelmstetter

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