before you send that "wyd" text, ask yourself if it's worth the past, the pain and the regret. if it is, yolo. full send it. https://linktr.ee/thezurkieshow
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Why is it so bad to get back with your ex? What's the big deal? Dude, I'm laying at home. It's Friday night, Saturday night, Sunday night, and I'm laying there. It's a cold bed. I just want a little company. What is so wrong with that? So you hit up your ex boo thing. You slide in the Snapchat DMs and you write H E Y. And then a couple hours later,
You realize you've made a mistake as the person that you remember as this fun, jolly, great person that made you feel so many emotions suddenly is in your presence and you realize, oh, I know why I broke up with them. I really don't like this person. And we've gotten back together. Rip. Genuinely rip. Rip.
The next time you have an urge to give in to some instant gratification, to get back with somebody, and it doesn't have to be a relationship, it could be a friendship. It could be somebody who you know is terrible for you and they're not reciprocating any of your feelings, they don't care about you, but you missed them. I want you to ask yourself this question. Is it worth it?
Because, spoiler alert, most times it's not. It's not. Most times we remember the good. We remember, ah, well, it was so nice to have this person next to us. We remember the feeling, not of them, but of the company they provided. And in reality, the minute we hang out with them, we say, oh my gosh, I made a mistake. Literally, you go like the Joker or something. Because we've made a mistake.
We've made a really bad lapse in our judgment by deciding, oh, we're going to bring this person back in. The next time you entertain the idea of getting back with that ex who cheated on you, who manipulated you, just ask yourself, is it worth it? Is it worth it? And try to remember not the fact that, oh, well, but they were there when I felt sad.
What about the minute they cheated on you and you had to find out through Snapchat because you saw them cuddled up to somebody and the hoodie was not yours. It was somebody else's hoodie. And you were like, what is going on here? That is my girlfriend. Why are they next to that person? Maybe let's remember that. Because people don't change, man.
some do and it takes everything in them to do so and hey some people they cheat and they realize you know what that wasn't a good move that was really bad i'm sorry of course but if you're thinking about going back to something that made you feel a type of way Is it worth it? Is it worth it?
All I am asking is for you to genuinely ask yourself, is the potential downside of this situation, of this person's ego attitude, the fact that they willingly don't text you back for hours to make you feel like you did something wrong and then they say, hey, as if nothing happened, is that worth it? Is that really worth it?
Because what a lot of us don't understand is we are accustomed to the love that we experience. We only understand our veil of judgment. So if there's something that is better for us out there and we haven't experienced it, we don't know. It's not our fault. We have no idea.
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