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In this episode of the Tough Girl Podcast, we speak with Dena Lewis, a dedicated runner and advocate for women's safety based in Florida, USA. Dena shares her 20-year journey in running, which began as a way to manage stress after college and evolved into a lifelong passion. Dena's dedication to running is evident in her meticulous planning and commitment, including her morning routine of fasted runs, coffee, and early starts. Where she runs between 10 and 12 miles per day, 6 days a week. Safety has been a significant concern for Dena, who often runs in the early hours of the morning. She has faced harassment and assault while running, leading her to create Running Mate—an innovative app designed to pair runners with companions for safer runs. Launching in April 2024, Running Mate aims to make running safer for women across the U.S., with plans to expand globally. Dena's experience with violence has driven her to become an advocate for women's safety, culminating in the creation of the Female Runner Safety Summit. Through her advocacy, Dena hopes to bring awareness to the dangers women face and foster a safer environment for her daughters and all women. Join us as Dena shares her story of resilience, empowerment, and her mission to make the world a safer place for female runners. Learn about her journey, the creation of Running Mate, and her advice for women looking to start their running journey. This episode has been marked as explicit. Please be aware that the topic of assault comes up during this conversation; while we don't discuss it in detail, some listeners may find it triggering. *** Don't miss out on the latest episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast, released every Tuesday at 7am UK time! Be sure to hit the subscribe button to stay updated on the incredible journeys and stories of strong women. 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Thank you for your invaluable support! *** Show notes Being based in Florida, USA Being a runner for over 20 years Married to her best friend and having 2 older daughter Looking for ways to deal with her stress and picking up running after college Getting into cycling after running How her fitness journey has progressed over the years Running for health, fitness and wellbeing Learning what works for her with regards to running Not being able to fit in run clubs Running all distances from 5k to ultra marathons Running between 10 to 12 miles per day, 6 days per week Her favourite distance being a half marathon Wear and tear, trainers, recovery, fuelling… Why 10/12 miles per day! Living with a certain level of pain at all times Being a consistent runner Not liking to run on a treadmill and preferring to run outside The morning routine Being a fasted runner and drinking coffee Leaving at 5am and being gone for approx 2 hours Planning her day around her run Getting her blood checked on a regular basis Ending up in the ER with chest pains Seeing a heart doctor once a year to have a check up Running in the early morning and experiences fear Am I safe - what's around me Being harassed while running on a regular basis and being assaulted twice Creating Running Mate —an on demand running app (think of Uber for runners) How running mate works Having no experience in tech, finding a developer and starting to work on the project in April 2021 Launching in April 2024 in 3 very specific cities in the US Beta testing since January 2024 Running with other people Female runner safety summit The running mates get paid Bringing awareness to the violence against women Wanting to make it a safer world for her daughter Brining companies together which has a mission to improve women's safety Wanting to expand the app world wide within a year Following and support running mate online Final words of advice for other women who want to get out there and get running Talk to someone and get help if you need support Only talking about the first assault recently Choosing not to report it Having the perpetrator show up on her door step Stopping running Living in fear and how it impacted her day to day life with her family Moving away from the area and starting to feel safe again Sharing her story to let other women know that they are not alone Being in denial for a while Working through PTSD, the trauma, the event and start seeing the other side Not becoming an advocate straight away Taking time to focus on herself and her family Connecting with other women who had been through a similar thing Getting back to running again and feeling a sense of empowerment Getting angry when it happened a second time Why we need advocacy and change Social Media Website: www.getrunningmate.com Instagram: @getrunningmate Facebook: @getrunningmate