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OMG! 25 Cheating Wife Signs You Are Not Aware Of (Yet)
Everyone knows that divorce rates are high, but no one thinks they are on the heartbreaking end of those statistics. We don’t enter a marriage thinking it will end in infidelity.
To some, these situations come out of nowhere. To others, the signs have been slowly creeping up on them. If you suspect your partner is cheating but aren’t sure if it’s all in your head, use our advice to brush off any doubt!
We will help you vocalize what cheating means to you, why it could be happening, and the signs your wife could be showing you that you might not be aware of.
And if it turns out the worst is true, we will guide you to the road of recovery.
What Is Considered Cheating?
You might think the answer to this question is obvious, but everyone views the world differently. To some, watching porn is a form of cheating. To others, flirting with a friend is crossing a line even though it's clear nothing is going on. Many people think that a New Year’s Kiss shared amongst friends is a platonic form of celebration, but to others, it’s a massive betrayal of trust.
You cannot assume that you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to infidelity. Instead, you must communicate to each other where your boundaries are. Opening up this conversation and asking how your partner feels will show you how they see the world and how they experience love.
Your partner might explain that physical contact, like holding hands, kisses on the cheek, and hugs, are a normal part of friendship, but buying gifts and sharing cuddles on the coach are more intimate. With this insight, those questionable moments between your partner and her friend will seem more innocent.
Why Do Wives Cheat?
There can be a wide range of reasons why a spouse might cheat, but they all tend to come down to 4 things. A lack of self-esteem, a lack of love, the feeling of neglect, and unfulfilled sexual desire all of which can turn a marriage toxic if not addressed immediately.
Self-Esteem
Self-esteem is how you value yourself. People who have low self-esteem tend to look for validation around their lives to boost their self-esteem, or they look for negative things in their life to prove the negativity.
Sometimes a person’s low self-esteem will cause them to create a social bubble around themselves, rejecting everyone around them. This makes their partner lonely, and like a self-fulfilling prophecy, the thought that you are not good enough for your wife seems to come true as she finds another person to share her life with.
Another way in which self-esteem can affect a marriage is when a partner loses confidence in themselves and searches for someone to pull them up. If they cannot find that person in their partner, they will look elsewhere for validation. In these scenarios, you may tell your wife that they are beautiful, intelligent, and accomplished, but these words do not reach her. This is a road they need to walk down themselves, but that doesn’t mean you cannot be by her side. Ask her what she wants, and find the solution together. If she takes the road alone, she may discover validation in someone else.