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Two Hot Takes

214: The Families are Fighting! Ft. Midwest Married

01 May 2025

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Chapter 1: Who are the hosts and guest co-hosts of this episode?

170.065 - 175.469 Morgan

Traveling. 46 weeks. Yeah, 46 episodes. Yeah. So, yeah, come join us. Check us out.

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176.226 - 201.294 Amy

I'll be sure to link it. But today I'm getting into all sorts of just relationship dilemmas and marital woes, just all sorts of quality marital chaos. I need a title. I've been trying to think and rack my brain for a title. I didn't even put anything on the folder. I just had it labeled Matt and Amy on my folder because I've been waiting for you guys for a lot of these stories. I love it.

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202.304 - 204.545 Matt

Marital mishaps, marital misfits.

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204.565 - 213.728 Amy

I don't know. We'll get to the end and you guys will give me a title. We'll figure it out. But buckle up for some of these. They're going to be good.

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214.008 - 214.388 Morgan

All right.

214.788 - 272.696 Amy

Perfect. Let's dive in. Okay. Up first, this is coming from AITAH, 24 days old, titled, Am I the Asshole? Husband and Mother-in-law are bullying me into being a stay-at-home mom, but I paid for our house. My husband is rich, like makes $50,000 a month rich. Nice. We agreed on three things before our baby was born.

273.257 - 295.785 Amy

One, if I covered the 20% down payment on our house, he'd cover the monthly expenses, including child care. Two, if I leave my high paying job after my maternity leave was up, my husband would support me, focusing on building my consulting business, which would give me more flexibility with our baby. And three, we'd get a full time nanny so we could both work.

296.425 - 319.003 Amy

And while I'd work from home to get to see the baby, and outside nanny hours we'd split childcare 50-50. The issue came up when now my husband refuses to lift a finger because he's the provider. He won't do any overnights, even though the baby takes bottles. I am exhausted and burnt out and feel like I got bait and switched.

319.703 - 343.704 Amy

I try to talk to him and he blew up at me, calling me a princess and lazy. I guess he ran to his mom because I got a message the next morning saying I'm putting the family in financial crisis if I won't be a stay-at-home mom for at least the next couple of months. Am I the asshole for telling them no, I will not be forced into being a stay-at-home mom?

Chapter 2: What are the issues in the stay-at-home mom vs. working mom debate?

681.359 - 683.08 Morgan

Drain your savings account. Is that what it is?

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683.12 - 695.529 Amy

That's what it's giving for me. The more I think about it and it's like there's no mention of prenup, but like probably wouldn't be mentioned in this post because she's not thinking divorce. But it's like. Is there a prenup? And what state are they in?

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716.685 - 716.985 Morgan

Yeah. Yeah.

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717.737 - 733.023 Amy

Someone like, I think Katy Perry almost lost an eye or almost like she got really sprayed in the face. I bet she did. No. Just kidding. Just kidding. But didn't you see the video?

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733.504 - 733.664 Matt

No.

734.704 - 735.965 Amy

I'll show you the gif. We're good.

736.325 - 739.226 Matt

I believe you. She went to space apparently.

742.365 - 770.451 Amy

Oh, wow. She like really, and it was high velocity. That's very high velocity. I think she did say she almost like lost an eye from the slime. I hope that was non-toxic. Top comment on this one. If he makes 50K a month and you working puts the family in financial crisis, there's a giant line of bullshit. Is it mom or husband lying? Maybe he's lost money gambling or doesn't make that much money.

770.851 - 773.332 Amy

Or maybe he lied to mom and she's lying to you.

Chapter 6: How do family dynamics and financial control affect marriage?

681.359 - 683.08 Morgan

Drain your savings account. Is that what it is?

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683.12 - 695.529 Amy

That's what it's giving for me. The more I think about it and it's like there's no mention of prenup, but like probably wouldn't be mentioned in this post because she's not thinking divorce. But it's like. Is there a prenup? And what state are they in?

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716.685 - 716.985 Morgan

Yeah. Yeah.

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717.737 - 733.023 Amy

Someone like, I think Katy Perry almost lost an eye or almost like she got really sprayed in the face. I bet she did. No. Just kidding. Just kidding. But didn't you see the video?

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733.504 - 733.664 Matt

No.

734.704 - 735.965 Amy

I'll show you the gif. We're good.

736.325 - 739.226 Matt

I believe you. She went to space apparently.

742.365 - 770.451 Amy

Oh, wow. She like really, and it was high velocity. That's very high velocity. I think she did say she almost like lost an eye from the slime. I hope that was non-toxic. Top comment on this one. If he makes 50K a month and you working puts the family in financial crisis, there's a giant line of bullshit. Is it mom or husband lying? Maybe he's lost money gambling or doesn't make that much money.

770.851 - 773.332 Amy

Or maybe he lied to mom and she's lying to you.

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