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Two Parents & A Podcast

Grieving your pre-baby life, parental identify shift & backseat drivers

30 Jan 2025

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Chapter 1: What is the significance of the podcast's rebranding?

0.109 - 7.151 Alex

Let me just be completely honest here. I struggled like I cried an awful lot of tears Saturday night.

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7.251 - 15.134 Harrison

Just the idea that like you couldn't if you know you needed a break or you couldn't come or you didn't have a partner to swap out with. That's what really got me.

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15.194 - 18.895 Alex

But I very much so was like, whoa, am I ever going to be able to do anything again?

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19.075 - 22.036 Harrison

You know, I don't like ribs. I think it's the most overrated barbecue item.

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22.227 - 29.509 Alex

What do you think is the best barbecue item? Brisket. I totally agree with you. I actually love ribs and brisket. Oh gosh, now it sounds good for dinner. I mean, how funny is that?

29.549 - 34.45 Harrison

Yeah, I'm sorry that I'm not going to give you the reaction you want here. I just think that's not true.

Chapter 2: What was Harrison's experience at his first bachelor party as a parent?

34.751 - 52.34 Alex

Welcome back to another episode of, I guess I can't say just Alex. You guys, welcome to the Two Parents in a Podcast podcast featuring me and my baby daddy. Hi.

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52.36 - 53.341 Harrison

Hello.

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54.081 - 78.278 Alex

Do you like the name? To be honest, I don't even want to be this dramatic about the new name. Like, I just kind of want... Just Alex was always... Like, we knew I was pregnant when we started Just Alex, okay? But you guys didn't know, but we knew. And so it was always going to turn into something, but we didn't know what it was going to be. And now it's two parents and a podcast.

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78.298 - 88.993 Alex

I think it's a natural fit. I think it's a natural evolution of what we felt. And so I think we just I think we just glide right into the episode. We have our segments this week.

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89.254 - 93.997 Harrison

We're talking about feels like not much of a change from the way things have been going over the past eight to 12 weeks.

Chapter 3: How do parents cope with guilt after leaving their baby?

94.377 - 97.42 Alex

Exactly. So I think like I think it's very natural to fit into our lives.

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98.361 - 105.266 Harrison

But what I guess like how would you describe the podcast? Well, I would what this podcast how you describe what this podcast is.

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105.672 - 110.194 Alex

It's like having dinner with your parent friends. It's like the babies are down for their nap.

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110.675 - 131.025 Alex

You've cracked open, I don't know, a cold one, maybe a Michelob Ultra if you're you, an Aperol Spritz if you're me, and you're sitting around the table and you're talking about – this is why we do the brain break part of this, which is think of our neighbor friends that are also parents, okay, that their baby's two weeks older than ours, younger than ours.

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Chapter 4: What does grieving your pre-baby life look like?

132.321 - 146.825 Alex

We talk about real life stuff with them, which is the brain break. It has nothing to do with kids. It can be any situation. I don't know. Today we're talking about Girl Scout cookies and whether or not that's a scam. But then we also talk a lot about our kids. And so this podcast is that.

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147.472 - 148.592 Harrison

And things we DM'd each other.

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148.812 - 166.456 Alex

And things we DM'd each other. And bachelor parties. And anything that comes to mind. But I like the structure of this podcast because it's a beautiful blend of parenting, but also like parenting's on our whole identity. You and I, like we both work. We both read a lot. So this is everything wrapped into one.

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167.336 - 172.457 Harrison

And any difference between the podcast this week versus the past few weeks?

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173.007 - 174.968 Alex

No, I would say it's the same. All of our segments are the same.

175.008 - 175.528 Harrison

Just a new name.

175.728 - 176.088 Alex

Exactly.

Chapter 5: What lessons did Alex learn from a weekend alone with the baby?

176.208 - 176.388 Harrison

Cool.

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Chapter 6: What are the challenges of backseat driving with kids?

176.689 - 177.669 Alex

Okay. All right.

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177.789 - 179.03 Harrison

I knew that. That was for the listener.

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179.21 - 179.63 Alex

There we go.

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179.77 - 182.231 Harrison

Let's start. Podcaster.

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183.892 - 188.974 Alex

You're a seasoned host. Today, the meat and the bones that we're going to get into, guys, is mourning your old life.

Chapter 7: How does having two babies change parenting dynamics?

189.834 - 205.625 Alex

and grief of your personal identity but before that we're going to start with the IRL stuff which is Harrison went oh you've just been a little travel guy your airline miles have got to be through the roof you went on a bachelor party and how was it how was being away from the tater tot I'm going to pivot okay

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206.204 - 226.003 Harrison

I think airline miles are an all-time waste of time. I've never understood something less in my life. So I used to not do airline miles. I didn't think they made any sense. And I've started to do airline miles. And this just feels like the biggest waste of time. So I got my little thing here.

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226.946 - 250.32 Harrison

i'm a advantage platinum pro okay on american that like sounds pretty nice right and so like i was like okay so i do this so that way you get upgraded right that's like the main thing no so why do i do it because i was 16 on the upgrade list on my way back from miami number 16 you do it for the points but what why do you need the points

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253.76 - 261.263 Alex

Sometimes you're so smart, and then sometimes you just miss. Sometimes you just want the easy way out. That's what you want.

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261.503 - 264.864 Harrison

Oh, my God. Like the points to book a flight.

265.164 - 266.165 Alex

Sometimes you just want.

266.205 - 268.746 Harrison

So I do all that effort. So fine.

269.286 - 269.966 Alex

No, no, no, no, no.

270.006 - 274.988 Harrison

Let me explain to you. So I have 130,000 points. Yeah, that's pushing. Where can I go with 130,000 points? Nowhere.

Chapter 8: Where does Girl Scout cookie money go?

275.128 - 276.109 Alex

Those are amateur numbers.

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276.389 - 277.709 Harrison

I fly 24-7. Okay. Okay.

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280.046 - 299.376 Alex

Let me explain it to you. It's the easiest thing on the planet to log in. It tracks your airline miles for you. It's not a waste of time. You just log in and then whenever you book a flight, they give you points. Once you accumulate enough points, you can use those points to fly somewhere for free. It's the best gig on the planet. Whoever thought of it's a genius.

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299.917 - 306.1 Alex

You just want to use it to skip the line and be upgraded to first, but you only have 130,000 miles. People have millions of miles, right?

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308.513 - 309.833 Harrison

Who are these people with millions of miles?

310.094 - 330.738 Alex

People that travel for work a lot. Me, I have 400,000. I'm just a regular old person over here. And you need to pick one airline and you need to fly it and you really need to get a credit card also with that airline and then you can really rack them up. I usually get upgraded. If I need to call American Airlines, I have a different line to call.

330.758 - 341.151 Alex

And that's not because I did anything special other than I picked one airline, I logged into my account, and I dedicated my life to it. And I picked it because they fly to Oklahoma City more than any other airline.

341.57 - 344.512 Harrison

Yeah, I just don't think that it's all worth it.

344.672 - 350.255 Alex

Oh, yeah. No, no, no. You could die on that cross. Die on that airline miles suck. Don't log in.

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