Can Someone Truly Change After Cheating?
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What are the implications of lying in a relationship compared to cheating?
Hello and welcome back to the You Up Podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.
And I am Jared Freed. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. How are you? What's going on? We are virtual for people that are on YouTube land. What's going on?
How are you? What's going on? I'm good. How's Long Island?
How are the babies? How are you? How's Mike?
The babies are good. We brought them, the twisters, to the city for a birthday party on Saturday.
How did that go? That's like climbing, going to the Himalayas to climb a mountain, I feel like. Two babies? Is it easier than I think?
Well, it's not that bad because we drive, so we just put them in the car park. And then like now I'm really, I've now been demoted from front seat. I now sit in between them in the back seat. So Mike's an Uber driver. Yes, Mike drives the three of us around whenever we need to go somewhere. But it's because like with the two of them, there's always like one who's like needs something or something. So I sit in the back, which is like a weird feeling. It's like, oh, now I'm just like a person who sits in the back of the car.
Driving chauffeur style.
Is it helpful or harmful for an ex to warn a new girlfriend?
Yes. And you know, it's funny. I told you all about how people love twins. I think the one exception to the rule is in New York city where no one gives a about anything. Went down by you in Florida, by you in Florida. Everyone has like something to say, wants to start a conversation, has like a discussion with you. And then I get to like, I was expecting the same thing in Manhattan. And like, everyone's like, look at these fucking assholes taking up the entire sidewalk with their two strollers. Move over. Get out of the way.
Hey, mama.
Move your ass! Yes, that's the one place where I guess no one gives a fuck and they want you to, you know, just move.
It's funny that it's like leaving an area where you get recognized a lot and then going to an area that no one knows who you are. Yeah.
Was that like Florida for you?
It's the embarrassing part of my, you know, where I'm at as far as... who knows me and who doesn't know me. And that's, I get recognized from time to time, but it is not like a normal, it's not like I'm walking around like, Oh, get these cameras out of my face. But you have to remember, you have to start at no one knows me or else you could really embarrass yourself. Because if someone comes up to me and is like, excuse me. And I'm like, Another fan, another day. And they're like, move out of the way. I don't know who you are. You know, it's the same thing with you with the babies. You're like, oh, you want to see the Twisters? And they're like, no, move your fucking ass. You're moving too slow.
Yes.
How do finances and resentment impact relationships during a breakup?
Literally like that was the exact vibe. It was like, I was, I went in kind of like, because my only other experiences was with them was everyone being so obsessed with them. We're like parking on the street. And then there's a guy who like miraculously does this like amazing parallel park job. It gets in behind us. I was like, this guy's never getting in. He got in. And then I was like, he's like, oh, do you need something? I'm like, yeah, I'm just trying to get like, I'm just trying to get the kids like out of the car. He's like, oh, bye.
Yeah, good luck with that, lady.
Move, yeah.
So you brought them to a birthday party. Is it another kid's birthday party?
Yeah, one of Mike's friend's kids had a first birthday party, which is really just like an adult.
First birthday party. Well, you have, I guess you got to have it. I think so.
I don't know, the kids don't remember it.
Well, I saw someone, they were like, I don't know who this was, but I saw they were like, I'm not doing anything until they can remember it.
Yeah, well, it's more for you, I guess.
Right.
But I feel like if it were more for the adults, it should be like more of a party.
It should be called a we did it party, not a it's their first, you know, like. Right. It's we accomplished a year of being a parent party. That's the party.
Yeah.
I think if I did one, I'd want no kids.
What advice is given for couples exploring new sexual experiences?
Right.
Right?
Just adults celebrating me. That's like one of those things that makes more sense that would take a lot of balls to actually do.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What are the implications of lying in a relationship compared to cheating?
0:00–1:21
2
Is it helpful or harmful for an ex to warn a new girlfriend?
1:21–3:01
3
How do finances and resentment impact relationships during a breakup?
3:01–4:29
4
What advice is given for couples exploring new sexual experiences?
4:29–5:32
5
What red flags should you look for in a partner’s behavior?
5:32–6:30
6
How should one handle a partner who refuses to wear deodorant?
6:30–8:08
7
What should you consider when deciding to forgive a partner's past lies?
8:08–9:26
8
How can one navigate the complexities of dating and past relationships?
9:26–1:29:17