Why Hot Takes Are Ruining Dating Advice ft. Dear Shandy
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Hello, and welcome back to the Friday Feels episode of the You Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.
And I am Jared Freed. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana, but it is especially good because we have two very special guests from the Dear Shandy podcast, Charlene Joint and Andy Levine. Thank you guys for coming on.
Thanks for having us, guys.
What's going on?
How are you guys today? It's good.
What are the unique perspectives on dating advice shared by the guests?
It's good to be here. I know we didn't cross paths. You asked if we were up, and we said we were up, and then you never consummated the thing. So now we all have to fuck.
Oh, they didn't tell you that's how we do all the episodes?
They locked the doors. Now we're in your pocket. So you guys have a podcast, Dear Shandy. You talk about dating, relationships. I mean, why do we have to do this? If you do what we do, what do we need to do this for? What is the... Meeting of the minds. What's the meeting? What are we going to talk about?
I guess it comes down to who was doing it first. What year did you guys start?
Before you. Really?
Why are people often confused instead of just turned off in dating?
So we went there. What's the nature of the podcast? How did it start? I know you were on The Bachelor. Yes. And Andy, what did you do before?
I was just doing my business. I was just a businessman.
Okay, that's a secret. That sounds like a grift.
It was business, you know, business here, business there. What pyramid scheme did you have? It was a couple of things, MLMs. But no, I met this beautiful woman, and we dated for a few years. Yes, many years. Actually, we got married like a year after. We got married really fast, actually.
How do the guests define the difference between true love and true likes?
I proposed to her five months after I met her. Five months. Interesting story. I meant to propose three months after I met her. We were in Italy and I had a ring in my pocket that I brought from New York and I was in bed with her. I was like, I'm gonna do it now. I don't care. You know, all the times I tried to get it romantic, like at the top of a castle outside, it was like raining and there was too many tourists. I was like, I'm doing it right here in bed. And I went into my pocket and I was like, I can't get the thing out. Like it was stuck in the bottom of my jean pocket. And I was, I just couldn't get out. So I was like, I'm not going to do it. It was taking too long. So I proposed a couple months later.
Had you discussed engagement?
What insights do the guests offer about their experiences on reality TV?
No.
No. You wanted to surprise me. Wow. What are you doing in Italy three months in? She was singing.
She was an opera singer.
And you were just like, I'm coming. What's this business that you do that affords you to go to Italy three months with some random opera singer?
Fun fact, his business or what he does outside of the podcast is top secret information. We never divulge on our podcast.
You never divulge.
So our shandies of nearly six years still don't know what Andy does.
Don't you think that's an issue for a dating podcast where you're supposedly the honest one who gives it to people straight and you're not talking about money at all?
That's right. Well, the reason I set that precedent is because I do not believe that work should be discussed in the first couple of days.
Yeah.
I mean, you're here on a Wednesday at 1151.
So you must be doing well. I've done well. He's doing some detecting.
How has social media influenced modern dating dynamics?
I've delegated the business.
You think in the first few dates that is not worth bringing up at all?
Well, the first few dates for sure. But I've always been on a first date with our fans.
Andy has always hated the question, so what do you do on a date?
I'm asking it right now. I think it's very important to the conversation because money revolves around all of this, don't you think?
Take your pants off. Let's see if it's worth it.
I absolutely will.
I don't care.
I have no issue.
No, I don't. It's just a thing.
So the listeners have no idea what you do for a living.
I think they have some idea. They've pieced it together.
I'm sure if you do your own research. Well, now you've made such a big deal about it.
What are the challenges faced by men in dating today?
No, I would not trust someone who won't reveal what they do for a living.
I wouldn't trust me regardless of me revealing what I do for a living.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
0:02–0:24
2
What are the unique perspectives on dating advice shared by the guests?
0:24–1:02
3
Why are people often confused instead of just turned off in dating?
1:02–1:33
4
How do the guests define the difference between true love and true likes?
1:33–2:08
5
What insights do the guests offer about their experiences on reality TV?
2:08–2:58
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How has social media influenced modern dating dynamics?
2:58–3:40
7
What are the challenges faced by men in dating today?
3:40–4:20
8
What makes Love is Blind a standout reality show for relationship dynamics?
4:20–42:51