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🎧 Why do Korean parents push their kids so hard—and is it really heartless? In this episode, we explore the cultural and historical forces behind Korea’s intense education system.This episode is based on the second post from my Growing Up in Korea series.In this audio essay, I dig into one of the most confounding contradictions in Korean society: how can a country known for its deep love for children push them so relentlessly through an education system many outsiders see as brutal?From sky-high academic pressure to the cultural forces behind it, this episode asks a deceptively simple question: Are Korean parents really that heartless? (Spoiler: they’re not.)The voice you’ll hear is AI-generated, but every word comes from my own research, writing, and reflections—plus the questions I’m asking as I try to understand how a country’s history, culture, and values can shape such intense behaviors.📖 Read the full post here: Past as Prologue: Understanding a Nation Through Its Historical and Cultural DNAEp.2 — Glossary of Key Korean Terms (Romanization · Hangul · Meaning)(Timestamps indicate the first mention of each term in the episode; exact times may vary by a few seconds depending on your podcast app.)Joseon (조선) — 1:11: Korea’s long-running Confucian dynasty (1392–1897). Think of it as the “operating system” behind etiquette, exams, and palaces. (Yes, the “Joseon” in Beauty of Joseon nods to this era.)Gwageo siheom (과거시험) — 1:17: The imperial civil-service exam. Imagine SAT + bar exam + life lottery. Pass and your career launches; fail and it’s back to the study hall.Daechi-dong (대치동) — 1:22: Seoul’s cram-school capital in Gangnam (강남). If “after-school tutoring” had a mothership, it would live here.Sadaebu (사대부) — 2:00: The scholar-official class—bookish, Confucian, and running the bureaucracy. Think “elite literati with clipboards.”Cheonmyeong (천명) — 2:18: The “Mandate of Heaven.” When rulers govern well, Heaven approves; when they don’t, legitimacy is lost and a change in rule is justified.Jeong Do-jeon (정도전) — 2:25: Joseon’s chief architect of ideas. Designed institutions and ideology—basically the dynasty’s settings menu.Minbon (민본) — 3:22: “People as the foundation.” A governing principle that policy should serve common folks first—Confucian civic UX.Dapjeonbu (답전부) — 3:52: A Q&A-style piece by Jeong Do-jeon (정도전), included in his collected writings Sambongjip (삼봉집, “Collected Works of Sambong”; Sambong 삼봉 is Jeong Do-jeon’s pen name). Tradition says he learned hard truths from a farmer while in exile, then wrote them up as a wisdom download.Cheongbaengni (청백리) — 4:54: “Clean and upright officials.” The anti-corruption gold standard—the kind of person who returns extra change and the empire’s tax revenue.Yangban (양반) — 6:23: The hereditary elites. Born with status, expected to ace the classics and behave impeccably… at least on paper.Sogwa (소과) — 6:45: The “minor” round of the national exams (often the saengwon/jinsa (생원/진사) track). Clear this to reach the big leagues.Sungkyunkwan (성균관) — 6:48: The top Confucian academy (today Sungkyunkwan University 성균관대학교). Dorm life, but with ritual bows and classical Chinese.Daegwa (대과) — 6:50: The “major” state exam. Final-boss level of the career game.Seoul (서울) — 7:26: Today’s capital, where past palaces and present coffee chains happily coexist.Gyeongbokgung (경복궁) — 7:28: Joseon’s main palace—grand courtyards, tiled roofs, guard ceremonies. A postcard from the dynasty.Gaegyeong (개경) — 7:40: Capital of Goryeo (고려), roughly today’s Kaesong (개성). Before “Seoul,” there was “Gaegyeong.”Choe Chung (최충) — 7:51: Goryeo’s famed educator, nicknamed the “Confucius of Korea.” If tutoring were a dynasty, he’d be its founder.Munheon-gongdo (문헌공도) — 7:53: Choe Chung (최충)’s private academy network. Think proto-campus ecosystem for classical overachievers.Gujae-hakdang (구재학당) — 7:57: The “Nine Schools” of Goryeo (고려)—elite prep academies that fed the state exam pipeline, with late-night study literally done by candlelight (see Gakchok busi (각촉부시)).Hagwon (학원) — 8:05: Private cram schools. Nighttime classrooms powered by snacks, highlighters, and ambition.Yi Seung-jang (이승장) — 8:14: A Goryeo scholar who studied at Solseongjae (솔성재) and, crucially, had mentoring ties to power (taught by Kim Don-jung (김돈중), son of historian-official Kim Bu-sik (김부식)). In every era, networks matter.Gakchok busi (각촉부시) — 8:23: “Carve the candle, compose a poem.” Seniors notch the candle; while it burns down to the mark, you must finish your poem. A timed writing challenge, medieval-style (recorded at Gujae-hakdang 구재학당).Yi Gyubo (이규보) — 8:28: Genius poet of Goryeo (고려)—who still crammed with a star tutor right before the big exam. Even prodigies panic-study.SKY (SKY) — 9:05: Korea’s shorthand for top-tier universities: Seoul National University (서울대학교), Korea University (고려대학교), Yonsei University (연세대학교). A three-letter way to say “prestige.” Get full access to Understanding Korea, One Story at a Time at yoonjiwon.substack.com/subscribe