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This is the companion episode to this week’s newsletter, “Did You Eat?”: The Three Words That Explain Korean Culture.The newsletter opens the door. This episode stays in the kitchen a little longer.In the essay, I wrote about why the Korean question “밥 먹었어?” (bap meogeosseo?, “Did you eat?”) is never just about food. In this episode, I go deeper into the Korean table itself: how meals became a language of care, how families became sikgu or “eating mouths,” how children learned nunchi at the dinner table, and how even workplace dinners carried the old grammar of hierarchy, loyalty, and belonging.So no, this is not me simply reading the newsletter out loud. Think of it as the side dishes to the main essay. If you read and listen together, you get the whole table.In this episode, I talk about:* why Korean care often says “eat” before it says “I love you”* what bap really means beyond rice* why sikgu is such a revealing word for family* how the Korean dinner table became a place of training, affection, and surveillance* what bapsangmeori gyoyuk teaches children* how hoesik, the Korean workplace dinner, carried family-table hierarchy into the office* why the dream of three unrushed meals a day feels almost luxurious now* how breakfast, achim, gives us another clue about food and care in Korea* why the Korean table was never only furniture, but social structureNext week, we move into honbap: eating alone in a country where eating alone was once socially uncomfortable.💬 I’d really love to hear what this brought up for you. Come find me here and share your thoughts, stories, or questions.Understanding Korea, One Story at a Time is written and hosted by Jiwon Yoon. New episodes every week, alongside the newsletter.Korean Words and Phrases from This Episode안녕하세요, 반갑습니다 (annyeonghaseyo, bangapseumnida)Hello, nice to meet you / welcome.밥 먹었어? (bap meogeosseo?)Did you eat? Literally about food, but culturally often a way of asking, “Are you okay?” or “Are you taking care of yourself?”밥 (bap)Rice, but also meal in everyday Korean.사랑해 (saranghae)I love you.밥은 먹고 다녀? (babeun meokgo danyeo?)Are you eating these days? Often used to express concern.뭐라도 먹어야지 (mworado meogeoyaji)You should eat something.언제 밥 한번 먹자 (eonje bap hanbeon meokja)Let’s eat together sometime. Sometimes a real invitation, sometimes a gentle way of keeping a relationship alive.아침밥 (achim bap)Breakfast, literally “morning rice.”아침 (achim)Morning, and also breakfast.점심 (jeomsim)Lunch.저녁 (jeonyeok)Evening, and also dinner.김밥 (kimbap)Rice rolls wrapped in seaweed, often filled with vegetables, egg, meat, or other ingredients.식구 (sikgu)Family or household members, literally “eating mouths.” People who live together and share meals.가족 (gajok)Family, usually referring more directly to family through blood, marriage, or legal ties.파전 (pajeon)A savory Korean scallion pancake.밥상머리 교육 (bapsangmeori gyoyuk)Literally “education at the head of the dining table.” The manners, values, emotional cues, and social awareness children learn while eating with family.눈치 (nunchi)Social radar; the ability to read the room and sense what is happening without everything being said directly.왜 이렇게 안 먹어? (wae ireoke an meogeo?)Why are you eating so little?살쪘네 (saljjyeonne)You gained weight. A painfully common Korean table comment.이것도 먹어봐 (igeotdo meogeobwa)Try this too / eat this too.회식 (hoesik)A Korean workplace dinner or team meal, traditionally associated with hierarchy, bonding, drinking, and office loyalty.작은 회식 (jageun hoesik)A small or modest workplace dinner, reflecting newer, less intense forms of Korean office gathering.삼시세끼 (samsi sekki)Three meals a day. Also the title of a popular Korean variety show about cooking and eating three meals in a slower, rural setting.떡볶이 (tteokbokki)Spicy rice cakes, often eaten as street food or an after-school snack.조선 (Joseon)The Korean dynasty that lasted from 1392 to 1910.독상 (doksang)An individual tray or table setting for one person.혼밥 (honbap)Eating alone. A combination of honja (alone) and bap (meal/rice).먹방 (mukbang)Eating broadcast. A Korean-born online video genre where people eat on camera, often while interacting with viewers. Get full access to Understanding Korea, One Story at a Time at yoonjiwon.substack.com/subscribe