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Well, welcome back to We Can Do Hard Things. I feel so delighted. You do? Yeah, I just feel delighted. I've had more coffee than usual, but also I love this place. I love talking to you too. I love what we talk about and I love who we talk to. I just love our community. So today we're going to continue a conversation.
We started with episode 136, Carefrontation, and received a lot of feedback on about criticism and how to deal with it. Is that a question mark? No, it's an exclamation mark point.
Well, it kind of is a question mark because the whole word, it's curious, the word. Is that word accurately described what we're talking about? It's a really good point. Is it feedback? Does it even count as feedback if it's from strangers? Because presumably you have to direct something to someone for it to be a feedback.
Yes, exactly. It's a feed out if it's public. Right. So, and I love that. It's a force feed. Yes, I love that framing. It's a, yes, I love that framing because I think today what we're going to do is figure out what actually is criticism. Mm-hmm. That we should consider. And what is actually just misogyny being vomited into the air that is not personal to us?
What actually is necessary for us to consider to become bigger and better and deeper and more beautiful and truer? and what needs to be filtered out so that we can take in what matters. And I actually avoid talking about public criticism. I don't think I've ever talked about it in a big way, mostly because number one, I feel like whatever I focus on just gets bigger.
And that part of this life has been confusing, scary, murky to me and unhelpful.
And so you mean like Twitter or people like writing you letters that have problems with you?
No, I don't actually mean that. I think that I have had big luck in terms of the community of people who interact with me directly. Unbelievable, actually, like the level of respect and care and kindness. I mean, people write about our social media feeds about how unbelievably kind. Kind they are, right? I'm actually so amazed at it. It's incredible.
And it was a painstaking process of building that slowly over time and like creating a real culture. But no, I just kind of mean the talking about me out there. And what I hear and read in comment sections here on the internet away from communities that I curate.
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