How to Overcome Retirement Doubts and Feel Ready to Retire

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Previously titled “Ep 127 | Believe You Can Retire And You Will” — renamed by the publisher on Aug 2, 2026

Wealthy After 40: Retirement Planning and Budgeting for Gen X 15 min 1 speaker 2 chapters transcribed 1 month ago
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How does doubt block your ability to plan confidently for retirement?

Dalene Higgins 0:00
You can't build a confident retirement with doubt in the driver's seat. If she's in the driver's seat, the passenger seat, wherever she is, she is going to hinder your progress, your belief into making retirement possible. So inside this episode, I share with you how to identify what is causing your doubt, how to go deeper and make the resolution so that you're then able to find action and move towards your retirement goal. Welcome to the Wealthy After 40 podcast, the show for Gen X women and couples who are ready to ditch financial stress and feel confident about retirement. I'm your host, Dailene Higgins, financial and retirement coach, helping Gen Xers master their money and create a personalized retirement plan so they can stop spinning their wheels and step boldly into their dream retirement.
Dalene Higgins 1:00
If you're feeling behind, don't worry. Continue listening to this podcast as well as be sure to grab your free guide, Five Must Do Steps to Start Retirement Planning Now at elevatefinances.us backslash must do. And remember, let's make retirement possible together. You can't build a confident retirement with doubt in the driver's seat. This, you just cannot. I'm sorry, but we've got to get rid of her. As you start thinking about retirement and stepping into retirement planning, you want to believe it is possible. You're like, yes, I can do this. Yes, we're going to do this. And you are so excited. But then all of a sudden, there are so many things, ideas, thoughts, statements you're seeing, reading, whatever it is, that have you second-guessing the possibility of retirement.
Dalene Higgins 2:02
Does that sound familiar? Is that what you're doing? These things can have you continually questioning if retirement is possible. No matter what that is, no matter if you're saying, well, I just think that, or I have questions, Say hello to doubt. That is what we're going to label her for this episode. But it's most anything that has you, you know, pausing and not taking action. And as long as she is with you, you're not going to be able to confidently plan for retirement or make progress toward your retirement goal. You don't want her hanging around for very long. She's going to delay you. She's going to take up your time. You're already worried about not having enough time, starting late to be able to retire.
Dalene Higgins 3:03
We've got to believe we can. So how do you tell her to get lost? How do you tell, how do you get rid of this so you can make progress toward the retirement you deserve? You've got to get rid of it so you can believe and take action. Remember, as long as we have this doubt, we have these questions, they're going to take our mind off us actually taking the action to move us ahead. We've got to get rid of it as quickly as possible so that we can start taking the actions that we need and start believing that we can, creating that motivation and that excitement. You know how I talk about Creating excitement helps us be motivated. You need to get rid of the root belief of your doubt. What do I mean by that?
Dalene Higgins 4:03
Well, what questions are you asking? Are you thinking? Are causing you to pause? What do you fear the most? Whatever it is, when I say, will you be able to retire? Whatever you just thought is going to be one of your top beliefs. This might look like not having enough money. You're not sure what you're going to do all day, every day.

What evidence shows doubt is stealing time and motivation from retirement goals?

Dalene Higgins 4:34
Believe me, you're going to find something to do. And you're worried about losing the lifestyle that you love, how you live, what you're doing. Those are just a few. You've got to dig deep. You've got to understand your belief. And it may take some time, may take a little bit of work, and that's okay. I had a client who was stuck with the idea of, I don't have enough. It's not enough. This was paralyzing her to be able to grow her wealth, to be able to grow into something bigger. And as we worked together, and I really helped her to start thinking about the past, she was able to then remember a house fire from her teenage years. They lost everything. We know why it was pushed back out of memory.

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