This week, Karen and Jonelle dig into what it really means to let people be—without needing them to think, act, or believe like us. Karen shares how a moment at church triggered deep discomfort around conversion culture and her own lifelong urge to “help” others align with her values. Together, the two explore how white women are often taught to equate goodness with agreement and acceptance with control. They look at why authenticity requires boundaries, why curiosity can feel risky, and how moral certainty can quietly turn into moral policing. In a culture that rewards comfort and conformity, this conversation invites listeners to practice a slower, more courageous kind of connection—one rooted in respect, not rescue. Calls to ActionAsk yourself: When do I try to align others with my values instead of learning from theirs?Practice acceptance without agreement—curiosity over conversion.Notice when “being right” starts to feel safer than being real.We would love to hear from you! Contact us at [email protected] Support the show

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