After "The Bachelor" star Ben Higgins first slid into fiancée Jessica Clarke's DMs, they talked every day, and Sadie has a sweet "sliding into her DMs" story of her own. Ben and Jess tell Sadie the crazy story of how they met and fell in love, how he knew he could commit to her, the unrealistic dating expectations created by "The Bachelor," how they found their identity in Christ, and why their relationship has gotten so real. Jess also shares her past struggle with an eating disorder, Ben offers advice on making your life bigger than any one experience, and they preview his honest, relatable new book, "Alone in Plain Sight." Then, Sadie and Christian do Good and Bad Advice, Chocolate Chip Pancakes Edition. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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