Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Relationship Baggage (w/ Justin Cunningham)

02 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Actor and co-star Justin Cunningham (Grand Crew) chats with Nicole about recognizing toxic relationships, finding a partner who has a mutual respect f...

The Art of Online Stalking (w/ Sona Movsesian)

26 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Conan's assistant, Sona Movsesian (author: The World’s Worst Assistant) is here! Sona shares how she met her husband at Comic-Con, the art of online...

Throupled (w/ Mae Martin)

19 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Mae Martin (Feel Good) chats with Nicole about being in a throuple relationship, their experience addicted to drugs, and starting a fresh lif...

Dealing with FBoys (w/ Nikki Glaser)

12 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Nikki Glaser (FBoy Island, Good Clean Filth) chats with Nicole about being in a 9 year on-and-off again relationship, how to deal with an FBo...

Hired a Matchmaker (w/ Amy Aniobi)

05 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Writer/director Amy Aniobi (Silicon Valley, 2 Dope Queens) joins Nicole to discuss her experience dating with the help of a professional matchmaker, w...

Dating a Mom (w/ Lil Rel Howery)

29 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Lil Rel Howery (Get Out, Keepin' It Rel with Young Wayne  podcast) chats with Nicole about dating a single mom of 4, getting thrown off a ho...

Main Character Energy (w/ Willow Pill)

22 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Reigning drag queen Willow Pill (winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S14) is here! She chats with Nicole about selling mushrooms as a pandemic side hustle, h...

The Story of a Kissless Virgin (w/ Benton Ray)

15 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Benton Ray is a kissless virgin. He chats with Nicole about the circumstances of this choice, they learn new terms for different sexual orien...

Bringing Down Your Walls (w/ Penn Badgley)

08 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Oh my god, he's here. Penn Badgley (You, Gossip Girl, host of Podcrushed) joins Nicole to discuss why people are infatuated by his serial killing char...

Caught Cheating... Twice! (w/ Ketra Long)

01 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Ketra Long joins Nicole to tell the story about how she got caught cheating twice in her relationship. She also shares the time she convinced...

A Stalking Ex-Boyfriend, a Gang Member, and a Gun (w/ Aaron Jennings)

24 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Co-star Aaron Jennings (Grand Crew) and Nicole discuss grade school romances, talking finances with your partner, the benefits of dating an older man,...

Having a Drama-Free Divorce (w/ Grasie Mercedes)

17 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Co-star Grasie Mercedes (Grand Crew, Access Hollywood) reflects on her 14-year relationship and the breakthrough she had in therapy which led to her d...

Setting Yourself on Fire (w/ Vanity Jay)

10 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Stripper and exotic entertainer Vanity Jay chats with Nicole about all things stripping and sex work. She shares the complicated nature of dating both...

Farting in Bed with your Lover (w/ Sudi Green)

03 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and writer Sudi Green (SNL, I Love That For You) joins Nicole to discuss their awkward encounters with celebrities, having baby fever,  and ...

Quit your Job (w/ Kornbread "The Snack" Jeté)

27 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen and reigning Miss Congeniality Kornbread "The Snack" Jeté (RuPaul's Drag Race S14) joins Nicole for a live episode, where they discuss her...

Keeping Relationships Off Social Media (w/ Raja Gemini)

20 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen icon Raja Gemini (winner of Drag Race S3) joins Nicole to discuss the stress of competing in the first all-winners season of RuPaul's Drag ...

Coping With Anxiety (w/ Taylor Tomlinson)

13 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Taylor Tomlinson chats with Nicole about using Instagram to document her panic attacks, coping with anxiety, and the time she was accused for...

Married, but Living Apart (w/ Judy Gold)

06 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The hilarious Judy Gold joins Nicole to chat about the challenges of dating a therapist, her experience being selected as one of Time Out New York's M...

Do Men Not Like Funny Women? (w/ Drew Lynch)

29 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and friend Drew Lynch (America's Got Talent S10) chats with Nicole about a harrowing bee incident they had together on tour, managing high le...

Left for my Best Friend (w/ Tika Sumpter)

22 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Actress Tika Sumpter (Sonic The Hedgehog 1 & 2) recounts the times that boys have left her for her best friend, losing her expensive engagement ri...

Bisexual Erasure (w/ Stephanie Beatriz)

15 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Actress Stephanie Beatriz (Encanto, Brooklyn Nine-Nine) chats with Nicole about leaving a 9 year relationship, dealing with bisexual erasure, and expl...

How to have a WAP (w/ Donnell Rawlings)

08 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Donnell Rawlings (Chappelle's Show, Winning Time: The Rise of the Lakers Dynasty) chats with Nicole about the powers of having a WAP, why suc...

The System is Broken (w/ Lilly Singh)

01 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian, actress and YouTuber star Lilly Singh (A Little Late with Lilly Singh, Dollface) chats with Nicole about April Fools' Day pranks, setting up...

Nicole gets a special delivery of hot gossip

31 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If there’s anyone who loves mindless gossip more than Nicole, it’s her good pal Solomon Georgio. In fact, it’s the subject of his brand new podc...

Mistaken Identity (w/ Raven Goodwin)

25 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Actress Raven Goodwin (Single Black Female, SMILF) shares her worst first dates, the adorable story behind her picnic proposal, what she planned for h...

Twin Divorce (w/ Darcey and Stacey Silva)

18 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Oh my god, it’s happening. Twins Darcey and Stacy Silva (TLC's 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Darcey & Stacey) are here! They chat with Nic...

Granny Chaser (w/ Tenderoni)

11 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Drag king Tenderoni (Winner of The Drag Queen of the Year Pageant 2021) chats with Nicole about why they love older women, the challenges of performin...

Married in a Hospital (w/ Danielle Pinnock)

04 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Danielle Pinnock (Young Sheldon, Ghosts) and Nicole get mistaken for each other... a lot.  The comedian and writer chats with Nicole about the differ...

Sensitive Boys (w/ Jackie Fabulous)

25 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and motivational speaker Jackie Fabulous joins Nicole to chat about negotiating prenups, how to gently give direction during sex, finding the...

Love Exhibited (w/ Moses Storm)

18 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Moses Storm lived in an art exhibit where he would sleep, shit, and had sex in front of an audience.  He navigates trying to find love while...

Dick Tricks (w/ Shalita Grant)

11 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Actress Shalita Grant (You, NCIS: New Orleans) talks to Nicole about her life dating an MMA fighter, her straight sex phrase, the moment she realized ...

Lesbianity (w/ Gina Yashere)

04 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Gina Yashere (The Daily Show, Bob Hearts Abishola) chats with Nicole about the adorable meet-cute story behind meeting her girlfriend at a wo...

Cumbucha (w/ Lamorne Morris)

28 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Actor and comedian Lamorne Morris (New Girl, Woke) is here! Lamorne teaches Nicole about the importance of playing hard to get, and how to act unavail...

How to Make a Man Commit (w/ Abbi Jacobson)

21 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and actress Abbi Jacobson (Broad City, The Mitchells vs the Machines) and Nicole go over a list of ways to make a man commit - is the advice ...

Throwing Shade (w/ Bianca Del Rio)

14 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen icon Bianca Del Rio (winner of Drag Race S6) joins Nicole to chat about the challenges of finding a partner who fits with your lifestyle, t...

Hot Singles In Your Area (w/ Chelsea Peretti)

07 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and actress Chelsea Peretti (Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Sing 2) chats with Nicole about the best places you can go to meet singles, strong pick-up l...

Relationship Deal Breakers (w/ Nina West)

31 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen Nina West (Drag Race S11, Hairspray) is just as tragically single as Nicole. They commiserate over the single life, talk about how Nina’s...

Naming Your Body Parts (w/ Heidi N Closet)

24 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen Heidi N Closet (RuPaul's Drag Race S12) chats with Nicole about how her dating life changed after Drag Race, the kinky things she's introdu...

Raw, Unadulterated Fun (w/ D'Arcy Carden)

17 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Friend, actress, and comedian D’Arcy Carden (The Good Place, Barry) joins Nicole live for some raw, unadulterated fun! They check in on how they've ...

The Nicest Dick I've Ever Seen (w/ Naomi Smalls)

10 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The holidays are here! As a gift, we're releasing the livestreamed episodes from behind the paywall!  On today's episode, drag queen Naomi Smalls (Ru...

My Dominatrix Roommate (w/ Joyelle Nicole Johnson)

03 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Joyelle Nicole Johnson lived with a dominatrix. She talks about the type of clients that would visit her apartment, and the kinky 'services' ...

Best Relationship Ever! (w/ Jimmy O. Yang)

26 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and actor Jimmy O. Yang (Silicon Valley, Love Hard) joins Nicole to tell the story of how he met his girlfriend, discusses at what point does...

Kidnapped and On the Run (w/ Aida Rodriguez)

19 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Aida Rodriguez was kidnapped twice as a child.  She describes her time on the run with a murderer, and how she uses her stand-up comedy to p...

Real Life vs Your Persona Life (w/ Raven-Symoné and Miranda Maday)

12 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Raven-Symoné (That's So Raven) and wife Miranda Maday join Nicole to share the story of how they met, broke up, and got back together again. They dis...

From DM to Marriage (w/ Shannon Joy Rodgers)

05 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Friend and writer Shannon Joy Rodgers (Jimmy Kimmel Live!, Ellen) joins Nicole to talk about roller-blading, the costs and challenges of planning a CO...

The Art of Taking a Profile Pic (w/ Rob Corddry)

29 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Rob Corddry (Childrens Hospital, Hot Tub Time Machine) joins Nicole to discuss cannibalism, the art of taking a good profile picture, Rob giv...

Zoom Speed Dating (w/ Gilli Nissim)

22 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Friend and writer Gilli Nissim (The Other Two, A.P Bio) joins Nicole to discuss breaking up in the middle of the pandemic, her experience speed dating...

Attached (w/ Brittani Nichols)

15 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and writer Brittani Nichols (A Black Lady Sketch Show) chats with Nicole about recognizing different adult attachment styles in relationships...

Second Puberty (w/ Carter Ray)

08 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Filmmaker Carter Ray (The Change Up) chats with Nicole about their experience going through a 2nd puberty while on hormones, the challenges they fac...

Pooping Together (w/ Meghan Trainor and Ryan Trainor)

01 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Does the couple that poop together, stay together? Grammy-award winning singer-songwriter Meghan Trainor and brother Ryan Trainor (co-hosts of Workin ...

Awkward Sex Talk (w/ Crystal Methyd)

24 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen Crystal Methyd (RuPaul's Drag Race S12) joins Nicole to chat about their most romantic date, getting the 'sex talk' at the age of 22, and d...

Playing Hard to Get (w/ Ms. Pat)

17 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Ms. Pat chats with Nicole about her time in jail for drug trafficking, shares the secrets behind her 28 years of marriage, and offers advice ...

Yelp for Escorts (w/ Alexa Eason)

09 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Full-service sex worker Alexa Eason shares about her life as an escort. She teaches Nicole about BDSM, the relationship risks involved with sex work, ...

Catfish Catcher (w/ Justin Martindale)

03 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Justin Martindale joins Nicole to discuss how their 'summer of love' has been disappointingly dry for the both of them. Justin shares the tim...

Sucking D in the Locker Room (w/ Laganja Estranja)

27 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen and choreographer Laganja Estranja (RuPaul's Drag Race S6) joins Nicole to discuss her truth coming out as trans, finding confidence in sel...

Hot Girl Summer (w/ Lawrence Chaney)

20 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen of Scots Lawrence Chaney (winner of RPDR UK S2) chats with Nicole about his dating live after winning Drag Race, how he got banned from Tin...

I got 99 problems... palsy is just one (w/ Maysoon Zayid)

13 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and actress Maysoon Zayid was born with cerebral palsy. She chats with Nicole about some of the cruel comments she receives about her disabil...

How to be Intuitive About Your Love Life (w/ Laura Day)

06 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

'Psychic to the stars' and best selling author Laura Day is here to teach Nicole all about intuition and how to develop it. She discusses how she real...

Problem Solving on the Toilet (w/ Yola)

30 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What a treat. Grammy nominated English musician Yola is here! Nicole and Yola chat about the difference in racism when dating in the UK vs the US, how...

Thriving Alone (w/ Harvey Guillén)

23 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Actor Harvey Guillén (What We Do in the Shadows) is single but not quite ready to mingle. He discusses why he guards his profession from his dating l...

Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber)

16 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Nicole’s close friend Francesca Amber (host of Law of Attraction Changed my Life) talks about the struggles of being a mother of twins, explains the...

The Cost of Being 'Cute' (w/ Cat Hollis)

09 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Cat Hollis led the 2020 Portland Stripper Strike. Here, she explain why it happened and her work for equitable workspaces in the adult industry. Cat d...

The Power of 'I Love You' (w/ Sam Richardson)

02 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Actor and comedian Sam Richardson (Veep, I Think You Should Leave) chats with Nicole about his success finding love on Raya, wanting kids so he can co...

Are you 'Love Avoidant'? (w/ Reggie Watts)

25 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and musician Reggie Watts (The Late Late Show with James Corden) chats with Nicole about his unique eating habits, his time spent playing in ...

We're living in the wildest times (w/ Jason Concepcion)

18 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Jason Concepcion (host of Takeline, Binge Mode) joins Nicole to discuss the culture shock he experienced visiting the Philippines during a coup, how t...

Back in the Dating Game (w/ Shea Couleé)

04 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen Shea Couleé (Winner of RPDR All Stars 5) talks to Nicole about finding love at the club, being a drag mother, wig mishaps, and doing poppe...

Sleeping with Your Uber Driver (w/ London Hughes)

28 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian London Hughes (Netflix's To Catch a Dick) and Nicole chat about her experience moving to America during a pandemic and race war, sleeping wit...

Proposal Gone Wrong (w/ Paul Scheer)

21 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and actor Paul Scheer (The League, Black Monday) and Nicole chat about how his proposal to June Diane Raphael went terribly wrong, how June's...

Kinky in Public (w/ Jessica Rothe)

14 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Actress Jessica Rothe (Happy Death Day, La La Land) and Nicole discuss if it's OK to do kinky acts in public, the bizarre ways people are monetizing k...

Filming Sex Scenes (w/ Casey Wilson)

07 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Casey Wilson (Happy Endings, SNL) chats with Nicole about shooting her recent sex scene, exchanges crazy nannying stories, and shares how she...

Being 'Sexually Smart' (w/ JB Smoove)

30 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian, actor, and self-proclaimed 'Love Doctor' JB Smoove (Curb Your Enthusiasm) joins Nicole to provide his wisdom on flirting, roller skating, de...

Bad Dating App Bios (w/ Aparna Nancherla)

23 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Stand-up comedian Aparna Nancherla (BoJack Horseman, Corporate) joins Nicole to discuss how her first and only Tinder date evolved into her longterm r...

Will You Be My Girl? (w/ Jillian Bell)

16 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Actress and comedian Jillian Bell (Workaholics,The Pole) joins Nicole to solve the reasoning behind their mutual singleness. They discuss the results ...

Finding the G-Spot (w/ Marc Rebillet)

09 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Loop Daddy AKA Marc Rebillet Fucks. He and Nicole have a very horny chat about how he's enjoying his singledom, gaining the confidence to dominate su...

Deputy Gangs in the LA County Sheriff's Department (w/ Cerise Castle)

06 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this bonus episode, Nicole talks to reporter Cerise Castle about her multi-part series, A TRADITION OF VIOLENCE, uncovering the history of deputy g...

Arranged Marriages (w/ Hari Kondabolu)

02 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Stand-up comedian Hari Kondabolu (The Problem with Apu, host of Politically Re-Active) joins Nicole to break down some common misconceptions about arr...

Acid Tripping (w/ Bowen Yang)

26 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Actor and comedian Bowen Yang (SNL) is just as fiercely single as Nicole. They talk about the struggles of singledom, the crazy current news cycles, t...

Polyamorous and Experimenting (w/ Ashley Ray)

19 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and pop culture expert Ashley Ray (host of TV I Say podcast) used Tinder to run an experiment where she dated every zodiac sign for a month a...

How to Manifest your Dream Man (w/ Alaska Thunderfuck)

12 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen Alaska Thunderfuck (RuPaul's Drag Race S5, winner of Drag Race All Stars S2) joins Nicole to discuss what it was like to date another drag ...

Unravelling From A Breakup (w/ Rhea Butcher)

05 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Rhea Butcher (Adam Ruins Everything, Good Trouble) chats with Nicole about how they quit smoking after 16 years, being a lifetime vegetarian,...

You Need Therapy (w/ Nore Davis)

26 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Nore Davis talks with Nicole about the movies that have brought them joy, why he's decided to 'date himself', leaving a toxic relationship, a...

Love & Music (w/ Randy Jackson)

19 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Musician/producer/host Randy Jackson (American Idol, Name That Tune) shares his skepticism with app dating, the worst date he’s been on, his favorit...

Stripping & Sex Work (w/ Teddy B. Ruxpin)

12 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dancer and sex worker Teddy B. Ruxpin chats with Nicole about all things stripping and sex work. They discuss her start into the profession, finding h...

Ask Him About His Credit Score (w/ Tiffany Haddish)

05 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Actress and comedian Tiffany Haddish (Girls Trip, Night School) first clears the air regarding her Clubhouse bullying allegations. Then, she talks abo...

Owning Your Sexuality (w/ Margaret Cho)

29 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Margaret Cho (The Masked Singer, All-American Girl) and Nicole chat about claiming your right to talk about sexuality, her experience coming ...

Empowering Relationship Statements (w/ Deon Cole)

22 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Actor and comedian Deon Cole (Black-ish, Barbershop) joins Nicole to share his deep wisdom about love and relationships. They discuss judging people b...

Big Dick Energy (w/ Conan O'Brien)

15 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Conan O'Brien is here to help solve the root problems behind Nicole's singledom. They also discuss his sexually repressed Catholic upbringing, what it...

Sex Work (w/ AM Davies)

08 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sex worker AM Davies (Host of Yes, A Strippper Podcast) is here to answer all of Nicole's questions about stripping and sex work. She discusses the di...

Lining Up a Relationship for the End of the World (w/ Niccole Thurman)

01 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian & actress Niccole Thurman (A Black Lady Sketch Show, Shrill) joins Nicole to discuss their 2021 resolutions, how they are cleaning out to...

Wedding Ruiners (w/ Solomon Georgio)

25 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Stand-up comedian and #Skategang member Solomon Georgio (Shrill, Adam Ruins Everything) talks to Nicole about his recent butt surgery and how he's bee...

Issues Affecting the Black Condition (w/ Roy Wood Jr.)

18 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Roy Wood Jr. (The Daily Show) shares his calculations on the safest way of traveling during COVID, discusses dealing with friends who aren't taking th...

Caught in the Act (w/ Jiggly Caliente)

11 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen and actress Jiggly Caliente (RuPaul's Drag Race S4, Broad City) joins Nicole to discuss sex work, walking in on friends or family members h...

Healthcare (w/ Langston Kerman)

04 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Actor and comedian Langston Kerman (Insecure, The Boys) joins Nicole to discuss her recent broken ankle and awkward brush with healthcare. He also sha...

Serving the Full Fantasy (w/ Creme Fatale)

27 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen & makeup artist Creme Fatale joins Nicole to discuss dating horror stories, how to leave a bad date fast, why aren't there any lady glo...

Grown-Up Breakup (w/ Lucy Stoole)

20 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen Lucy Stoole joins Nicole to discuss the story behind their drag name, their recent breakup, the struggles of dating app messaging, and if i...

Fresh Heartbreak (w/ Priyanka)

13 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Drag queen Priyanka (Winner of Canada's Drag Race, host of YTV's The Zone) joins Nicole to discuss their very recent breakup, gett...

Trash TV (w/ Patti Harrison)

06 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Patti Harrison (Shrill, Search Party) joins Nicole to chat about 90 Day Fiancé, issues with casting in today's media, and advocates for the ...

Volunteering in Your Community (w/ Mitra Jouhari)

30 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Mitra Jouhari (Big Mouth, Three Busy Debras, host of Urgent Care) joins Nicole to discuss missing malls, the horrors of dating in high school...

Advice from a Dating Coach (w/ Damona Hoffman)

23 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dating coach Damona Hoffman (A&E Network's #BlackLove, A Question of Love) is here to dish some professional advice. She shares tips for video-dat...

We're Thirsty (w/ Nichole Perkins)

16 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Writer and podcaster Nichole Perkins (Thirst Aid Kit) joins Nicole to discuss setting boundaries in your casual relationships, dealing with thirsty gr...