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Empowering Intimate Reconnection: Courtney's Journey from Religious Constraints to Expert Sexuality Coaching
22 Aug 2024
Send us a textEver wondered why women sometimes struggle with sexual desire and how societal expectations play a role? In this enlightening episode, we welcome Courtney, a distinguished relationship and sexuality expert, who opens up about her journey from an evangelical Christian upbringing to becoming a mental health and sex therapist. Courtney shares valuable insights from her book "Not Tonight Honey: Why Women Actually Don't Want Sex and What We Can Do About It," where she tackles the intricate dynamics of sexual desire in relationships, especially for military spouses like herself. Her observations reveal the often-overlooked patterns of disconnection influenced by religious and societal norms.Communication can be challenging, particularly around sensitive topics like sexuality, but it's essential for growth and connection. We discuss practical strategies for reconnecting with one's desires by reflecting on childhood joys, and we emphasize the importance of overcoming societal pressures to foster more meaningful connections. Courtney provides actionable tips for initiating open and non-threatening dialogues about sexual interests, helping to build trust and prevent defensiveness in relationships. This episode is a treasure trove of advice for anyone looking to enhance their communication and intimacy.Additionally, we dive into the significance of intentional communication within family and romantic relationships. Discover how neuro encoding techniques can help rewire your brain to celebrate moments of self-awareness, fostering healthier communication habits. We also advocate for the practice of an annual relationship checkup to ensure ongoing connection and understanding between partners. Lastly, we remind our listeners that embracing fun and enjoyment is crucial, not only in life but also in intimacy. Don't miss this packed episode filled with valuable insights to help you navigate and enrich your relationships and sexuality.PLATE & PONDER: EMPTY NESTING w/ Jen & Chris FentonWith a wine buzz, an empty-nesting married couple tackles a full plate of global issues.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show
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