Step Into the Arena: Don't be tricked by Comfort and Complacency

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What does it mean to live in the arena?

Eddie Pinero 0:00
Most people experience neither victory nor defeat. Why? Well, rather than step out their front door and shape their world and their reality, most people sit back and they observe and they criticize and they condemn those who actually do. This is the central premise to Teddy Roosevelt's Man in the Arena speech, which I've talked about and explored a few times on this podcast.

Why is comfort a barrier to growth?

Eddie Pinero 0:34
But I had the pleasure last week of sort of rediscovering it in Sedona. And what stood out to me particularly was just the idea of how okay we are with that middle ground of giving up the highs. to not experience the lows, how okay we are with being the ones who merely observe and critique while life around us is shaped. It's like no defeat. No, that's avoided at all costs. We want safety, safety, safety, which means almost definitionally no victory. And when we skip those two things, what we are left with is empty space. A perpetual purgatory to which most of us are confined. Someone I respect once told me, it's okay to be hated. And it's certainly okay to be loved. But what you don't want to be is simply tolerated, right? Merely existing is for cowards.

How can we embrace risk for a meaningful life?

Eddie Pinero 1:46
And you might be asking, well, what does that mean for me in my world? And that's the beauty of it. I could never answer that for you. You are the only person that can answer it for you. But what I can tell you is that the highs in life make it worth living. I can also tell you that you don't get highs without lows. And so to avoid life's turbulence because you're scared of the risk or you're scared of the criticism is to deprive yourself of life's beauty. Now, am I perfect at this? No, no, no, I don't think anybody is. And that's the beauty of it, right? That's why I surround myself with people to help push me along because every chapter of life demands a new level of courage, new risks. You don't even realize that you've moved up to the cheap seats and you need to step back onto the floor. And it's also, funny enough, easy to see in others or easier than it is to point out in your friends than it is to point out in yourself. I talked to a friend recently who was talking about a business idea and just going through everything that can go wrong. What if I fail? What if this?
Eddie Pinero 3:05
What if that? And they're genuine. They are reasonable concerns, right? But I just sort of posed this question to him. Like, well, what if everything goes right? Think about the upside. Are you thinking about what that could do for you and your family? Are you thinking about the impact? Are you thinking about the financial upside? Are you thinking about that stuff? Because that's transformative. And you could just sort of see behind his eyes that switch. Sometimes we just need that nudge. That reminder that says, hey, you're strong enough to be in the arena, making change in your life, taking on the risk, taking on the burdens, stepping into the chaos of life so that you can make something of it. You can do that. Well, Eddie, how do I figure it out?

What role does awareness play in personal growth?

Eddie Pinero 4:13
Again, this is a work in progress, my friends, and I don't think that ever changes. But I can say personally, awareness. Awareness is the key. Awareness is everything. Understanding that it often does not come natural to go where you most need to go. It requires courage and discipline. I've invested heavily in multiple masterminds, engaged in very intentional conversations, spending every day in some type of contemplation, thinking about that next step, looking for the right risks. Because I know that when one stays too long where they are, they do themselves, their loved ones, and the world a disservice. When you stay the same, no one wins. But when you're aware... everything of value starts to rise, starts to emerge. What is it in your soul that you know you need to do? Where is it in your soul that you know you need to go? Because once you've aligned with that. You get to go out, step into the world and begin the process of falling and failing and making your mistakes. But in doing so, there's a few things that are happening at once.

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