Your World Within Podcast by Eddie Pinero
The One Thing That’s Killing Your Greatness (And You Don’t Even Notice)
26 Nov 2025
Chapter 1: What is the main message about greatness in this episode?
Anything but average. To put it simply, because life is too short for anything other than your everything. Here's the simple truth. The hours will go by. The calendar pages will turn. The skin on your face will wrinkle and your hair will gray. This isn't a question, this is reality. It's a fixed game we're playing.
But what you do in that brief window we call life, on the other hand, well that, that's your story to write. See, life is a candle already lit.
Chapter 2: How does regret affect our pursuit of greatness?
The flame will burn whether you tend to it or not, but how bright it glows, its warmth, its reach, its impact, how much light it pours into the world, that part is yours entirely. So burn bright. As bright as you possibly can. You owe that to yourself and you owe it to the world. See, there is one enemy as far as I'm concerned. That enemy is regret.
Knowing that there was even a drop of life left in you when all is said and done. Knowing that you had dreams and they stayed imaginary. Allowing yourself to, as Thoreau eloquently put it, lead a life of quiet desperation. Allowing your passion, your aspiration, and your potential to go to the grave with you. Let today be the antithesis of that outcome. A step forward.
Where no stone is left unturned. Where you push, prod, where you try and explore, where you fall down and rise again. Where the limitations and expectations of others fade into the background of your pursuit to greatness. A pursuit not taken on because you have to, but because you get to.
Because you were placed here with the seed and the opportunity to nurture that into something meaningful every single day of your life. When all is said and done, let them say either that you gave every single thing you had, all of your heart and soul, and fell short. Or that you, against all odds, crossed the line and emerged victorious.
But never let your time here support the notion that you settled for average. Or that you immersed yourself in mediocrity. That's not you. It's not why you're here. So while there's still air in your lungs, while you're rotating around the burning ball of fire up in the sky, make your mark. Prove them wrong.
Show the world that despite the highs, the lows, the ups, the downs, and everything in between, you were anything but average. They call it failure when your body gives out. When you hit the ground, shaking, breathless. But what they don't see is that moment is sacred.
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Chapter 3: What does it mean to earn your failure?
It's where effort becomes art. Where pain becomes proof. You collapsed. Not because you're weak, but because you had the courage to go there. You touched the edge of yourself. And through that struggle, earned the right to rise anew. Last week, I got the opportunity to train with Eric.
And although now I call Eric a friend, at the time I knew of him merely as the trainer or engine behind some of the names in fitness and personal development that I looked up to the most. The man silently behind the scenes pushes others to find more in themselves.
One of my favorite examples being he is the spotter and trainer in the infamous David Goggins video when David's yelling, who's going to carry the boats? I refer to these people as Hamiltonian, as they're somewhat behind the scenes, right? But pulling strings and shaping reality as it appears on stage. No one wins alone, right? And Eric is that support for so many. Your win is his win.
Your breakthrough is his breakthrough. And so when I was asked to train with him, you know, it was an obvious no brainer. Let's see how hard we can stretch things. Let's push some boundaries today. I show up, he introduces himself, explains a bit about the process and says, Eddie, we're about to go on a journey. I want you to imagine you're in a race car. Pick a color. Okay.
I say, certainly intrigued. We'll go black and teal. Great. Now, Eddie, I want you to picture someone you love riding shotgun with you. Can you do that? Sure. I close my eyes for a second.
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Chapter 4: How can we push our limits and embrace discomfort?
Got it. Okay, perfect. So, Eddie, when you are at your lowest point, when you're really fighting, I want you to imagine that person's face, and I want you to do it for them. Because we don't just grow and evolve for ourselves. We push and we stretch for those we love the most. Those counting on us, those depending on us. Got it.
And note that I'm paraphrasing, of course, but he ends the intro with, what we're going to do today is earn our failure. And this little piece right here is what I saw as absolutely transformative. We're going to earn our failure. He continues, Eddie, I've worked with some of the biggest names on earth, the fittest people on earth. All of them have failed. All of them.
And that right there is the magic, the beauty. When we fail... We change. We become that much closer to the divine. When we earn our failure, we give ourselves permission to grow. When we fail, life begins. So today, this morning, how about we earn our failure? Let's go.
So we stretch, jump right into the workout, beginning with what I'm guessing is 15 to 20 minutes of squats, jump squats, lunges, all lower body stuff. And, you know, I think to myself immediately, this is my strength, right? I'm confident. Going back to the four years of rowing in college that has become, to this day, sort of a foundation for my physical abilities.
Metabolic conditioning, no problem, right? At least that was the story in my head. But we lock in, start the intervals, and sure enough, while the confidence was great, I quickly realized that none of that mattered. After about six minutes, my entire body was screaming. Quads were spasming in inactive rebellion.
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Chapter 5: What role does vulnerability play in personal growth?
probably been about 10 years since I've gone that long without a single momentary pause, without a break. And he's screaming the entire time, Eddie, let yourself fail. You've got this. Fail. In my mind, there was this defense mechanism without even realizing it.
When my body was at the brink of failure, I would do these little bounces or pulses at the bottom of a hole to mitigate tension, or I would adjust slightly enough that the pain and the weight could be redistributed. I come from the school of, it doesn't matter how you get there, just figure out a damn way. And, you know, there's certainly a time and a place for that. But the vulnerability...
The nakedness of staying locked into something until you physically collapse and fall. That was tough. My mind desperately wanted to prevent failure every time it felt itself getting close. every time it could feel the pulsing resistance getting stronger and stronger.
If it weren't for Eric's reoccurring screams, let yourself fail, Eddie, I would have probably buried the notion as I attempted to adjust my way through the hell I was experiencing. Let yourself fail. Earn that failure. Gift yourself that failure. Again and again and again. Moved on to 20 minutes or so of core, straight abs, no breaks, no rest.
And anyone who's done something like this probably knows that, sure, your abs obviously get worked. But kind of an unknown thing is that after minutes of flutter kicks and bicycles and leg raises, so on and so forth, your legs get heavy. And again, my brain said, no, not on my watch, right? Without even realizing it, I would attempt to flutter kick, holding up my legs with my hands, right?
Refusing to let them hit the ground. That is until I heard the words, let them fall, Eddie. Let them hit the ground. Let yourself fail. And so I let go of control. I let them fall and fall they did, giving me about a three-second reprieve from the chaos before I gathered myself and entered the fight again and again and again. I think I probably failed four or five times.
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Chapter 6: How do we transform knowledge into action?
But rising each time, collecting myself, reframing the experience and carrying on. segment by segment, exercise by exercise, we got through it. Finally, we stood up, sat against the padded wall in the gym and talked about the session, talked about life. And I quickly realized perhaps the line separating the two was finer than I may have realized.
We don't give ourselves permission to expand until we earn failure in our lives. until we travel out to the brink of who we are and let ourselves hit the ground, until we carry so much weight that it ultimately levels us. Because every time we start again, not only are we a little bit stronger, but we begin to realize that if that was the worst case,
that if I swallowed my pride, let it all come crashing down, and still I rose. Still I asked for more. Still I showed up. What can stop me? What out there is bigger than me? What out there is so scary that it can halt my upward trajectory? The challenge is, and always will be, finding the strength to let yourself.
To not hedge, to not look for off ramps, to not hold yourself up, but for a time, fully disassemble. Have you ever been driving and reminded yourself to relax your muscles? Let your shoulders down, loosen up your back. and you realize how tight you were, right? How you were holding yourself up. Deep inhale and with the exhale, you intentionally relax, let it all sort of melt.
That tension we didn't even realize was there until it crossed our mind. I think the same thing is true when it comes to the vulnerability of failure. We often, without knowing it, want to shield or protect ourselves from it, right? The natural thing is to be safe. We are biologically designed for safety above all.
But the thing is, in order to water the seed that is your infinite upside, you cannot be, quote unquote, safe. You can't stay in the middle, insulated from the chaos and turbulence of the outer edge.
We must walk to the periphery of what we know, to the edge of who we are, and allow ourselves to fail, to earn that chance to gain strength and composure, to break down our worldview and self-image so that it can be rebuilt. I promise you, it's there. It's there for me, it's there for you.
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Chapter 7: What is the significance of surrounding ourselves with excellence?
And it is the bridge connecting where you are now to where you can be. And so the question is not how do we move forward while avoiding failure? The question is how do we earn failure again and again? How do we reprogram our minds to see it as a beautiful necessity, a step forward?
falling while continuously standing tall and marching towards that horizon with trust and conviction, trust in the process and trust in ourselves. Because in a world where falling is scoffed at, right, looked down upon and considered a negative, only a few, a select few, a great few, see through it. Find the strength to accept it and embrace it.
And I think that's the question we're playing with here. Will you be vulnerable enough to let your legs surrender to gravity and your body hit the floor? In a world where biologically we want comfort and societally we're inclined to merely tiptoe through life, Will you choose to earn your failure?
Thank you for this moment. Thank you for the spirit. Thank you for the blood, the love, the strength, allowing us to connect, dive into the deeper connections,
the world reflects back at us what we currently are like a giant mirror projecting the movie that's playing in our heads we lay on the horn in traffic not when we're at peace with ourselves but when we're in duress we gravitate towards the negative not when we're living in abundance but when we're living in scarcity
We quit, retreat, contract, not when we're confident in the road ahead, but when we're doubtful, alarmed. In other words, we find out in the world what already lives within us. Life, in many ways, is not absolute. It's evidence. It's evidence that we'll use to justify the things we already believe. Wayne Dyer used to use the metaphor of an orange.
It can be squeezed and squeezed and squeezed, but there will never be grapefruit juice pouring out of an orange. No, grapefruit juice doesn't live there. You can only find on the outside what lives in the inside. You can only extract from the orange orange juice. Recently, a good friend of mine said to me that they'd like to change their financial situation.
To which my response was, perfect, you most certainly can, right? Like anything, yeah, it'll take work and some planning and some restructuring, all that good stuff, but you most definitely can. And his response was, sure, that's what all you motivational people say. Okay, smart guy, now you're an example on a podcast episode.
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Chapter 8: How can we bridge the gap between our current reality and our potential?
Congrats. Why? Because you want the people around you to realize how much is possible for themselves. It's not sorcery or witchcraft to believe something better is possible. In fact, if one doesn't believe it's possible, they're effectively cementing their feet to the ground, at least with regard to that particular pursuit. Let's face it, you don't begin journeys that are not possible.
We don't allow ourselves to do that. And so to not believe in an outcome and somehow still wish for that outcome, well, that's essentially our orange metaphor, right? Can't squeeze financial freedom out of a mindset that only sees monetary constraint. Believing it's possible starts the journey. See, there's so much pragmatism in growth.
You know, people talk a lot about the law of attraction and yeah, I get it, right? It sets targets, right? But the picture of, let's say, a dream house on your wall is not why you'll eventually have the dream house. The picture of the dream house on the wall reminds you. It helps you believe that you're someone capable of someday acquiring that house, obtaining that type of success.
Which results in you, wait for it, doing things that help bring that to life. It is the doing. But that doing must be connected to belief. Mid-20s. I was unhappy, wanted more, but didn't really believe myself capable of obtaining more. That was the issue. Back to the old orange expecting grapefruit juice. Can't get results in an area not conducive to their creation.
It wasn't until I said, you know what, maybe, not definitely, but maybe it could happen. Maybe I can take control here. The odds have to be greater than 0%, right? It's Jim Carrey in Dumb and Dumber, so you're saying there's a chance. Yeah, it's like starting out, that's all you need, a chance, the door cracked. In the beginning, I just needed to convince myself something different was possible.
The beginning of transformation and that internal change prompted how I interacted with the external world. You do things differently when you believe differently. Or, if you want to phrase it another way, believing that you can bring something to life doesn't guarantee that you actually do. But believing you can't guarantees that you won't. And why not stack the odds in your favor?
I often juggle back and forth between the philosophical and the tangible or the tactical, right? Three ways to do X. Life hack to change Y. Yeah, of course. Life does in so many ways come down to the tactics, to the how, to the steps. But does that even matter if you don't believe in the pursuit? Does it matter what Google Maps says if you never step out your front door? You have to convince you.
You have to create an environment in your world where change isn't crazy, more isn't absurd. It might be challenging. But it's possible, and possible is enough. It is enough to begin, enough to step out, enough to see the trivialities as tools and the resistance as part of a beautiful game. Remember that the world is a mirror, reflecting back at us our worldview.
We find what we look for, so give yourself permission to look for things that make life beautiful. Give yourself the gift of believing change is possible. Just imagine if we implemented into our lives all those things we already knew would make us better. Imagine if we became masters, not just of knowing, but of transforming knowledge into motion.
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