This Is Where Most People Quit (Motivation to Keep Going)

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Your World Within Podcast by Eddie Pinero 30 min 2 speakers 5 chapters transcribed 5 months ago
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What hidden habits keep people stuck when pursuing change?

Eddie Pinero 0:00
I'm about a mile in.
Unknown 0:04
Everything feels good.
Eddie Pinero 0:06
Almost too good. You know, and I've been here before. This is the lie. This is where you start thinking, oh, wow. You've got this, man. Today is your day. No demons here. But I know better. Because the run doesn't start when it feels good. It starts when it doesn't. Like that old Muhammad Ali adage, I don't count my sit-ups. I only start counting when it starts hurting because they're the only ones that count. And so about three miles in, light bulb goes off. Ah, there it is. That shift, subtle at first, right breathing gets a little tighter, legs a little heavier, and a voice shows up. A familiar voice. Hey, ease up. Let your foot off the gas. It's not loud or dramatic. It never is. It's just suggestive. Take a little off.
Eddie Pinero 1:06
You can still finish strong. You'll find some later. And that's how it happens. Not collapse. Never collapse. It's drift. feeling right that version of me the one that negotiates the one that says maybe it's right we don't need to push here we can make it up later and i've listened to him before that's the dangerous part he sounds like me but then another voice cuts in quieter sharper nah eddie that's not who you are And now it's not about the race anymore. It's about identity because nothing around me has changed. Same road, same body, same sky, same landscape. But I feel myself at that metaphorical fork standing there. Do I fold or push? Five miles in, it gets loud. Everything in me is screaming now.
Eddie Pinero 2:14
Slow down. Just survive this. Just get through. This is where most people think the battle is physical. It's not. It's permission. Permission to back off. Permission to break character. Permission to become someone else just for a moment. And I've done that. I've stepped away from who I said I was just for a second. But you see, that's all it takes. A second. Because you break once and it gets easier to break again and again and again. But today, I catch it right as it starts. That thought, hey, you don't have it today. Ease up. Chill out. And I stop it in its tracks. Not with motivation or hype, just a decision. No, that's not me. And then nothing changes except everything. Pain's still there, legs still heavy, but now there's no negotiation, no conversation, just movement, silence, steps on the pavement, breath in and out.
Eddie Pinero 3:34
Because the truth is you don't rise to the level of the moment, you fall. to your identity, to who you know yourself to be, to what you see back when you look in the mirror. Who are you? Eight miles in, I'm not thinking anymore. There's no story left, no justification, no how much longer, just one thing, hold the line. It's a very simple job, not an easy job, but it's simple. And amidst chaos, simple is everything. This is who I decided to be. Not at the start line or when it felt good, but here. And that's how it all works. If you see yourself as someone who conquers, you don't magically feel stronger, you just stop giving yourself a way out. No more off ramps, no more cracked doors.
Unknown 4:35
It's funny, the people that have no plan B, they tend to figure out plan A.
Eddie Pinero 4:47
So if you see yourself as someone who folds, know that you won't collapse all at once.

How does self-sabotage manifest during challenging times?

Eddie Pinero 4:54
You'll just keep accepting those small exits, those off ramps, the plans B, C, and D until there's nothing left to hold on to. The body follows that always. Crossing the finish line, there's no surprise, no shock. Because this was decided miles ago, the moment I chose who I was going to be when it got challenging. So don't tell me about your goals or your plans. Tell me who you are. Who are you when the voice shows up? That's the only moment that matters. And the thing is, like so many things, that voice doesn't just show up in a foot race. It's everywhere. It resides around you. Different race. A few months in, building something, and it's quiet. No sales, no traction. But there it is again. Eddie, maybe this isn't it.
Eddie Pinero 5:57
Maybe you're not good enough. Maybe you can't do this. It's not loud. It's always reasonable at first. Dude, maybe it's time to pivot. Maybe it's not working. And I recognized it immediately.

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