Why Everything Changes When You Finally Trust Yourself
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What is the importance of self-trust in achieving your goals?
You need to trust yourself. Yes, you. Think about it. Why would you trust strangers over your own intuition? Why would you give others sway over the things in life that matter to you most? Close your eyes and imagine that perfect ending, that North Star ending. Why would you so easily trade that away? You know, and I'm not sure if it's simply out of caution because historically I've been overly thorough, but it's always been incredibly important to me that I get consensus that my friends or family or people that have had success in business, I really wanted them to feel what I felt and see what I saw. And I'm guessing that, you know, in some capacity we all do. We like to hear, hey, that's a great idea.
You're amazing. That's incredible. But I want to show that other than validating our egos, feedback, negative or positive, is often pointless. Let me first start with what I'm not saying. I'm not saying ignore the analytics, the numbers and data.
How can external validation hinder personal growth?
I'm not saying to go through life blind. I'm not saying your audience or customers or support base is wrong when they push back on something, a product or service or a creation. What I'm saying is simply this. The world cannot see your idea. It is make-believe. It's irrational. Nothingness. Until, of course, it's built and placed in front of them. To have a pull inside you to create something, but then refuse to bring it to life because of what others say is like being judged for a bodybuilding competition two years before the competition date. Quitting, right? It doesn't make sense. You'd be graded on a pure hypothetical. I've had very smart people tell me things in my life wouldn't work or didn't make sense, and they were wrong.
And it's not personal. It's just that my goals existed outside of what they understood.
Why is it essential to visualize your ideal outcome?
Even smart people operate from their own lived experience. I've had friends, you know, poke fun or give me a hard time about some of the things I've done creatively over the years. And then, this is zero exaggeration, ask me for help teaching them how to do those very same things. I spoke about this a little bit starting out, but in many ways, the cycle repeats itself. People ignore or show no support for what you're trying to do until it works, right? Then all of a sudden, like moths to a flame, they're back, right? Dying to reconnect because it's quote-unquote been too long, time to catch up. All this stuff, I used to take this personally, like very personally. And I bring it up now because it's one of the things people want to talk about with me more than anything else.
At least as far as, you know, online questions go or people asking questions about starting a channel or building a media company or whatever it is. Comments, DMs, emails. Same theme, right? Disappointment for not feeling supported by those who you thought would be there when you're doing something vulnerable. And it's like, it's not personal. You have to remember it's never personal.
What role does feedback play in the creative process?
The faster you learn that the better, right? Because of two universal truths. One, people just act in their own interest, just what they do. And two, people can only see what's in front of them. This means necessarily that their feedback is just hypothetical on top of hypothetical. Hey, I'd really love your opinion on the weather for July 16th next year. what and why that doesn't make sense. Same idea. People act in their own self-interest. People can only see what's in front of them. To ask more than that, you're not doing yourself any favors, right? And if that's true, then why would you expect them to see something that doesn't exist? Why would you expect them to feel what you feel? To carry your vision with the same conviction you carry it?
The dream was given to you.
How can you overcome doubts from others about your vision?
The pull is yours. So is the responsibility. Not because you're special or smarter. Simply because you're the one who can see it. That's the deal. The artist sees the painting before there's paint on the canvas. The entrepreneur sees the company before there's a customer. The writer sees the story before there's a page.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is the importance of self-trust in achieving your goals?
0:00–1:21
2
How can external validation hinder personal growth?
1:21–2:20
3
Why is it essential to visualize your ideal outcome?
2:20–3:37
4
What role does feedback play in the creative process?
3:37–4:33
5
How can you overcome doubts from others about your vision?
4:33–5:35
6
What lessons can we learn from historical figures about courage?
5:35–7:02
7
How does comparison influence our perception of success?
7:02–8:00
8
What strategies can help you prepare for unseen challenges?
8:00–34:55
Speakers
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