主播：Flora（中国）+ Selah（美国）音乐：I Stay In Love马上到年末了（it’s almost the end of the year），我们今天就来聊一聊外国人的“年底见面语”。01. Year-end Greetings from Foreigners 外国人的年底见面语每到年末外国人的见面问候就会变得不一样了。在西方，从感恩节到圣诞、再到年底，everyone suddenly starts checking in on you (突然关注你)。因为人们现在正处在假期闲聊季（Holiday Small Talk Season）。在这个时候，人们见了面不再只是问：“How’s it going? How’s your day?”而是：“How are you holding up this time of year?” “年底这段时间过的还行吗？”“Ready for the holidays?” “准备好过节了吗？”“How was your year?” “今年过得怎么样？”��那我们应该怎么回答这些问题呢？Do they really want the full story? Or are they just being polite (礼貌的)?有一个非常简单的判断标准：如果这个问题是在你们“擦肩而过”的时候问的，那它多半就是客套一下。People ask it because the holidays can be stressful (过节挺忙的), not because they want a deep answer.02. Practical Responses for Year-end Greetings 年底见面语的实用回答��第一个问题：“How are you holding up this time of year?”我们可以怎样回答呢？“Busy, but in a good way.” “很忙，但忙得很值。”“A little tired, but overall good.” “有点小累，但总体不错。”“You know... end-of-year vibes.” “年底都这样，你懂的。”这个答案更为地道、随意。��第二个问题：“Ready for the holidays?”这像是一个small talk的万能开头。这个问题重点不在于你有没有“ready”，而是“我们可以一起聊一聊这个事”。我们可以这样回答：“As ready as I’ll ever be.” “我已经准备好到不能再好了。”这是英语中一种典型的、略带幽默又有点无奈的表达方式。“Trying to be!” “正努力准备好呢！”“Sort of... still a lot to do.” “算是吧，还有一堆事呢。”��第三个问题：“So... how was your year?”这个问题要是认真回答起来，it could take a while (恐怕得需要一点时间了)!我们可以这样简单地回复：“It was a mixed year.” “这是一个混合的一年：有喜有忧、喜忧参半、起起落落。”“Ups and downs, you know.” “起起落落，你知道的。”“A lot happened.” “这一年发生挺多事的。”不同回答的关键点在于：whether they stop and wait for your answer。03. In-depth Questions Requiring Sincere Responses 需要真诚回答的深度问题��当然还有一些问题不是寒暄，需要认真回答，例如：“What was the biggest thing you learned this year?” “你今年学到的最深刻的道理是什么？”这个问题我们可以从“I learned to...”入手，例如：“I learned to slow down and say no more often.”“我学着慢下来，试着拒绝。”或者也可以用“I realized...”来回答，例如：“I realized I don’t have to have everything figured out.”“我意识到了没必要把一切都想明白。”These questions deserve a real answer because the person is probably wanting a real conversation (交谈).��另一个需要认真回答的问题是：“Are you happy where you are right now?”“你对现在的生活满意吗？”这个问题和“How are you?”的那种寒暄式关心还不太一样。如果有人问这个问题，很有可能那个人是真的关心你。此时，你也无需用“I’m fine.”这样的客套话了。你可以说：“I’m not fully there yet, but I’m getting closer.”“我还没达到我想要的，但是也在慢慢靠近了。”或者是：“I’m figuring it out.”“我还在摸索呢。”Just remember：年底的这些问候不是考试，也不是面试（interview）。You don’t owe anyone a life summary (你不欠任何人一个人生总结).但如果有人问你的话，you’re allowed to answer honestly (真诚回答). It’s all about that genuine (真诚的) connection.欢迎大家在评论区留言：你们年底被问到最多的问题是什么呢？你们都是怎么回答的呢？What is the most frequently asked question by you at the end of the year? How did all of you answer?

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