介绍：一席英语出品：主播：翩翩老师，Win老师歌曲：HeroGreetings that require physical contact—Kissing西方的亲吻礼：Cultural context: What is appropriate in each country . 文化情景Levels of kisses 亲吻级别Kiss pointers: how to kiss 亲吻方式1.What is appropriate in each country？每个国家都合适亲吻礼么其实，并不是！看地方和国家！！In America, it depends on what part of America, the south central part of America is much less common and as the northeastern part is more common .美国东北部用亲吻礼会比较普遍些。整体来说，美国并不是一个把亲吻礼做为社交方式的国家。It’s very European. Especially Italian、 Spanish、French, These are the cultures are very open with this much more common.比较欧洲式。特别是意大利，西班牙，法国这几个国家，亲吻礼比较盛行。2. kissing pointers 亲吻方式：one on the right 右脸one on the left 左脸then on the right again 再一次右脸比较普遍的：三下式注意：start from the right cheek 都是从右脸开始3. 不同国家间亲吻方式的基本介绍：a. French culture 法国They will do the three point kiss 。脸上亲三下（叮叮叮）from right, left, then right。(右、左、右）这种亲吻方式出现的场景：️Women to women 女性之间️Women to men 女性主动️Men to Women 男性对女性（一般很少会出现男生主动亲女生）b. Italian culture 意大利Italy does the two point kiss and sometimes does like a full kiss（ on the lips ）* Two point kiss (叮叮两下）* Full kiss=kiss on the lips (亲嘴唇 �）So…romantic.要不要这么浪漫。。。。女生去意大利，有可能在街头被意大利男生送上full kiss哦�。这种独特的意大利社交文化，有让男生沾光（take advantage占便宜）。Play around furtherc. Spanish culture 西班牙They're pretty free with the kisses, it can be one two , it can be one two three ，they may just like kiss each other back and forth 。Back and forth 来来回回西班牙这个国家， kissing culture 比较 free 、 open （开放，不拘束）。敲重点：去这些国家旅游时，最好做下攻略，了解当地的社交礼仪。Especially like Belgium the Netherlands, they have these very strict rules and you might want to know about them。特别是比利时、荷兰，他们对于亲吻礼有严格的规定。Social kiss 社交亲吻总结：1.cultural context of kissing 文化情境* European： common 欧洲普遍（except England, which is more conservative 英国除外，他们相对比较保守)* America： less 美国少见* Asian ： never 亚洲不存在2. Kiss pointer 亲吻方式Offer you right cheek, start from the right cheek 总是会从右脸开始亲。但如果有人想kiss Mouth （it’s really a big deal!）该如何refuse 拒绝呢？首先，我们要了解：You have to realize, if a man is making a move that in many ways he's probably taking advantage of the situation。It's less about being social and more about just abusing。如果有男生想采用亲嘴唇这种方式问好，大部分情况下是想占便宜。我们可以这样拒绝：* I’m sorry ,that’s a bit much for me. let’s have a side hug.A big too much 太多Side hug 边抱你还可以这样表达：* That’s not my culture. 这不是我们的文化。总之，在社交中，所选择的社交方式一定是自己舒服的。不舒服的方式则不用担心，完全可以说出来。西方最基本的问好社交礼仪方式，我们今天就全部学完啦。你们学会了吗？

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