我们有位听友在听友群里提出了这样一个问题:怎样在拒绝别人的同时,又不会让人觉得你冷酷无情?很多人有“拒绝人”的心理障碍,不同人拒绝别人和被别人拒绝的心理活动,也是“识人识己”的一个很好的切入点。#本期成员舒扬;赵楠;薛毅然#内容概要02:26 赵楠为什么要删除“班班”?04:39 薛毅然很反感的打焦虑牌的、“恐吓型”邀约08:46 舒扬觉得自己接触的很多做推销工作的人“没有眼力见”09:56 提出请求之前,换位思考对方客观上能否满足,以及表达方式是否让对方愿意参与13:46 拒绝邀约和拒绝求助17:03 求助者如何给被求助的人“说真话的机会”18:07 越具体的需求,越容易得到帮助22:15 没觉得拒绝对方,但对方觉得自己被拒绝25:55 情绪的宣泄和具体的求助:前者可能会让听者感到累心,后者可能会让听者更乐意去贡献才智30:43 不想“无情”地拒绝前来做职业咨询的人,也是薛毅然的一种烦恼34:53 为什么舒扬认为拒绝也是帮助36:56 被拒绝,有时其实是“感到被拒绝”42:31 工作中的拒绝46:17 那些擅长不让别人拒绝自己的人01:00:35 提出问题的听友,为什么会被“如何拒绝”困扰?【新的听友如果想了解盖洛普测试,请前往02期】#制作相关音乐:Barnville-Free PD剪辑后期:舒扬时间轴/简介:舒扬logo设计:薛毅然、赵楠#联系我们微信号:helloworld3333 ,加好友请备注“识人识己”
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