Aaron Doughty
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Podcast Appearances
At the deepest level of forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive, which will trigger a lot of people when they hear that. But it's about understanding that it wasn't the divine essence of a person that did that to you. The unconsciousness is what did it. When you start to become okay with people not resonating with you, it's actually something that could be celebrated.
At the deepest level of forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive, which will trigger a lot of people when they hear that. But it's about understanding that it wasn't the divine essence of a person that did that to you. The unconsciousness is what did it. When you start to become okay with people not resonating with you, it's actually something that could be celebrated.
At the deepest level of forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive, which will trigger a lot of people when they hear that. But it's about understanding that it wasn't the divine essence of a person that did that to you. The unconsciousness is what did it. When you start to become okay with people not resonating with you, it's actually something that could be celebrated.
You came here to have the courage to express yourself.
You came here to have the courage to express yourself.
You came here to have the courage to express yourself.
to be the real you and it's not your job to please anyone else and the beauty of that is you allow the people that aren't resonating with that level of you to leave but also you allow in the people that really will resonate with that deeper more vulnerable aspect of you i had to learn how to not associate my sense of worth by taking on their burden and then trying to fix them the other aspect i realized is that i was thinking that i was helping them when i was actually enabling them
to be the real you and it's not your job to please anyone else and the beauty of that is you allow the people that aren't resonating with that level of you to leave but also you allow in the people that really will resonate with that deeper more vulnerable aspect of you i had to learn how to not associate my sense of worth by taking on their burden and then trying to fix them the other aspect i realized is that i was thinking that i was helping them when i was actually enabling them
to be the real you and it's not your job to please anyone else and the beauty of that is you allow the people that aren't resonating with that level of you to leave but also you allow in the people that really will resonate with that deeper more vulnerable aspect of you i had to learn how to not associate my sense of worth by taking on their burden and then trying to fix them the other aspect i realized is that i was thinking that i was helping them when i was actually enabling them
I see two different things going on. I see on one hand, there's an energetic energy that's going on that's being neared back. And on the other hand, there's a spiritual component. I believe that's happening as well. So from the energetic level, it can be that people attract people that are reflections of certain patterns because subconsciously there may be some unresolved energy there and
I see two different things going on. I see on one hand, there's an energetic energy that's going on that's being neared back. And on the other hand, there's a spiritual component. I believe that's happening as well. So from the energetic level, it can be that people attract people that are reflections of certain patterns because subconsciously there may be some unresolved energy there and
I see two different things going on. I see on one hand, there's an energetic energy that's going on that's being neared back. And on the other hand, there's a spiritual component. I believe that's happening as well. So from the energetic level, it can be that people attract people that are reflections of certain patterns because subconsciously there may be some unresolved energy there and
And based on their beliefs, based on the patterns that they familiarized as a kid, they tend to attract people that mirror that energy back.
And based on their beliefs, based on the patterns that they familiarized as a kid, they tend to attract people that mirror that energy back.
And based on their beliefs, based on the patterns that they familiarized as a kid, they tend to attract people that mirror that energy back.
So a very common pattern people might attract is if they are someone that overgives, someone that's giving a lot or trying to fix other people, they may find themselves attracted to people that overtake. Mm-hmm. And one of the reasons being is because one, they may have familiarized that energy as a kid, or they may also believe that it is their role or their responsibility to fix someone else.
So a very common pattern people might attract is if they are someone that overgives, someone that's giving a lot or trying to fix other people, they may find themselves attracted to people that overtake. Mm-hmm. And one of the reasons being is because one, they may have familiarized that energy as a kid, or they may also believe that it is their role or their responsibility to fix someone else.
So a very common pattern people might attract is if they are someone that overgives, someone that's giving a lot or trying to fix other people, they may find themselves attracted to people that overtake. Mm-hmm. And one of the reasons being is because one, they may have familiarized that energy as a kid, or they may also believe that it is their role or their responsibility to fix someone else.
The other component of this too is that there may also be an identity that they took on younger that was an identity of I am worthy if I give. My sense of self-worth subconsciously is tied to my ability to be good And to be good as a kid may mean that you abandon yourself to ease the tension in the family or that you abandon yourself to make mom or dad happy.
The other component of this too is that there may also be an identity that they took on younger that was an identity of I am worthy if I give. My sense of self-worth subconsciously is tied to my ability to be good And to be good as a kid may mean that you abandon yourself to ease the tension in the family or that you abandon yourself to make mom or dad happy.