Aaron Doughty
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216 appearances
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first heard May 2025
last heard May 2025
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It's like this is all fun exercise, but ultimately the deepest level is that you are it.
Already here. That's right.
Yeah. Well, when it comes to any time you have something that you really, really want, if you really, really want it, you really, really lack it. If I were to like want this glass of water, wouldn't it look ridiculous if I was like, I want a glass of water? Yeah. And I was like sitting here, I was like, yeah, so Alyssa, I really want a glass of water.
And if I had it, and you're like, you have it in your hands, just drink it, right? It's a silly idea because when you have it, it's just, you don't want it, right? So energetically, what happens for many of us is we want something that we're energetically lacking and infusing that it's not here now. But then another thing that we can do is create something that is called excess importance.
Anything we make really, really important, we put on a pedestal and on that pedestal, it's up there. We energetically distance ourself from it. What we energetically say is this is not natural for my identity. This is not natural for me. We are then separating ourselves from it. And remember, if you treat someone like a celebrity, they're going to treat you like a fan.
That's like a general understanding of, yes, some energy pattern, but that's like in any area of your life. If you're like, it would be really, really amazing to be in a relationship. Oh my God, it'd be really, really amazing to have enough abundance and to be really, really amazing. It'd be so amazing. And it's on a pedestal.
And you believe in the false narrative that that's going to complete you. That also will block that thing from happening naturally. Now, the truth is, as I've lived my own dream life over the last eight years, when I went from working at Barney's New York, selling women's shoes to doing what I love, traveling and living with more abundance than I probably would have imagined many years ago.
if I were to go and shift from there to here, it's like the person I've become, it's like natural for me. It's natural for me to be traveling the world, living in abundance, having investment. It's natural. It's not on a pedestal. It's not really, really crazy. It's natural. Just like different areas of your life or like by the time you're in the dream relationship or whatever,
To be honest, in that dream relationship, there's probably still going to be work that you're going to do.
Right. Like it's if it's on a pedestal and it's like once I'm there, then it's going to complete me and then I'm going to feel whole and complete. When really it's about understanding that this importance we're infusing onto these different things in our life is the very thing that's blocking that thing in our life from actually coming in.
And also little things that you do in your life now, you can see it as if you're already doing the same thing. So even though you're not on stage speaking with a certain number of people in the crowd, you may be giving a talk at some company or something like going in and doing a little talk for 10, 15 people. You're doing it now.
So it's like you're already in the energy of it. Yeah. Somewhere in my life, I remember when I was first learning about this concept, because it comes from this book called Reality Transurfing. It's a book written in Russian. It's like if you go to Russia, it's like their version of The Secret. Okay.
It's a well-known thing out there because I've talked to some Russian people that are like, oh, it's a thing. Yeah. Anyways, it's a... book written by a Russian quantum physicist. And it has this idea of importance. And that's where I learned about it. And I read about it years ago.
And one of the ways I applied it in that time that I was learning about it was, I wanted to I was in Vegas at the time where I was born and raised. And I was, I was putting this, I wanted to move into this specific house that I found out that I was going to rent for a year. And I found out that the rental market was like vamping up in Vegas.
And what happened is there were like, there were like five or six other applications on this house. And And I immediately went into this, not competitive, but like scarcity. Like, oh, I want this house. It was like the Zen Buddhism vibe and like very tranquil. It was the perfect price. And I just started making, I think, like more money in my business. So I had the money to spend on it.
And what I learned from this book or whatever, this whole importance thing is not putting it on a pedestal. But the other thing that I did is I would visualize it. I put in my application for it knowing there was like five other applications. But what I did is for like a week or two leading up to getting the approval and everything, I visualized it as if I was already there.
I visualized it because I knew the layout of the house because I already saw it, getting up every day, doing my morning routine there. And what I did is I thought of all the difference I could make in the world by tapping into the value I could create in the YouTube videos and how I would feel there and all of this stuff.
There's another concept from the book that has to do with something called outer intention, which is this idea of tapping into other people's intention where it becomes like a win-win in a way. So what I did is I wrote a letter to the people that own the house. And I said, hey, I just want you to know that this is who I am. This is what I do. I think you have a beautiful home.
I'd love to live there for a year. I know I'm younger, but I don't party. I thought maybe they see my ID. There's a young guy who's going to party. I focus on my business, blah, blah, blah. And lo and behold, like a week later, I ended up getting the house. But I attribute a lot of that to the energy of me just like being calm with it and seeing it as natural for me.
And even now, like I went from the YouTuber identity for like eight years on YouTube of making lots of YouTube videos. Now I run live events. I hot seat coach people, bring them to the front of the room. Like I get into the unknown a lot when I'm doing what I do now. And I visualized it as natural. It's natural. I have some friends that do the same thing, and we talk, and it's natural.
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