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Aaron Doughty

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
648 total appearances

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Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Are other people other aspects of our consciousness that we're perceiving of? Which is the deeper aspect that I really like looking at because other people in your life may be playing out certain subconscious patterns that are active inside of your field.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And when you make a shift inside of your field by taking responsibility for it, you might find that people either will shift out of your life if that pattern no longer resonates, or you will get a different version of the people that are in your life that are reflective of that new pattern and that new belief that you have about how people are.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And when you make a shift inside of your field by taking responsibility for it, you might find that people either will shift out of your life if that pattern no longer resonates, or you will get a different version of the people that are in your life that are reflective of that new pattern and that new belief that you have about how people are.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And when you make a shift inside of your field by taking responsibility for it, you might find that people either will shift out of your life if that pattern no longer resonates, or you will get a different version of the people that are in your life that are reflective of that new pattern and that new belief that you have about how people are.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

So it becomes this interesting dance where it's like it's all a reflection anyways, but our job is we can't control the reflection, whether it's people leave or they come back, or it's more so about understanding the dynamic. Now, one quick thing I'll say about this, because a lot of times when I share this at live events or in even live workshops, et cetera,

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

So it becomes this interesting dance where it's like it's all a reflection anyways, but our job is we can't control the reflection, whether it's people leave or they come back, or it's more so about understanding the dynamic. Now, one quick thing I'll say about this, because a lot of times when I share this at live events or in even live workshops, et cetera,

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

So it becomes this interesting dance where it's like it's all a reflection anyways, but our job is we can't control the reflection, whether it's people leave or they come back, or it's more so about understanding the dynamic. Now, one quick thing I'll say about this, because a lot of times when I share this at live events or in even live workshops, et cetera,

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

people have trouble and challenges saying i'm sorry when they did it right yeah like you could just i know i'm thinking of also of your stepmom you know yeah yeah well it's like did it does it make it right yeah you know here's an interesting thing that i heard eckhart tolle actually talk about i thought was interesting the people that are playing out the patterns it's not really the person that did it to you it was the pattern inside of the person

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

people have trouble and challenges saying i'm sorry when they did it right yeah like you could just i know i'm thinking of also of your stepmom you know yeah yeah well it's like did it does it make it right yeah you know here's an interesting thing that i heard eckhart tolle actually talk about i thought was interesting the people that are playing out the patterns it's not really the person that did it to you it was the pattern inside of the person

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

people have trouble and challenges saying i'm sorry when they did it right yeah like you could just i know i'm thinking of also of your stepmom you know yeah yeah well it's like did it does it make it right yeah you know here's an interesting thing that i heard eckhart tolle actually talk about i thought was interesting the people that are playing out the patterns it's not really the person that did it to you it was the pattern inside of the person

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

So when we start taking the personalization and the identification of it out, it becomes a little bit less personal in the sense that this person was doing this to me. And the way that I heard this is Eckhart Tolle was talking about how at the deepest level of forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

So when we start taking the personalization and the identification of it out, it becomes a little bit less personal in the sense that this person was doing this to me. And the way that I heard this is Eckhart Tolle was talking about how at the deepest level of forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

So when we start taking the personalization and the identification of it out, it becomes a little bit less personal in the sense that this person was doing this to me. And the way that I heard this is Eckhart Tolle was talking about how at the deepest level of forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

which will trigger a lot of people when they hear that, but it's about understanding that it wasn't the divine essence of a person that did that to you, it was their traumatized self, it was the part of them that modeled that from the past or from their society, not saying it's right, But that is the energy. So it's not the divine essence of the person and their presence that did it.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

which will trigger a lot of people when they hear that, but it's about understanding that it wasn't the divine essence of a person that did that to you, it was their traumatized self, it was the part of them that modeled that from the past or from their society, not saying it's right, But that is the energy. So it's not the divine essence of the person and their presence that did it.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

which will trigger a lot of people when they hear that, but it's about understanding that it wasn't the divine essence of a person that did that to you, it was their traumatized self, it was the part of them that modeled that from the past or from their society, not saying it's right, But that is the energy. So it's not the divine essence of the person and their presence that did it.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

It's the unconsciousness. Exactly. And that's when Eckhart Tolle says, you don't have to forgive. It's because it's more so connected to the unconsciousness is what did it. Because the consciousness inside of a person that is aware that this is a child or that this is another aspect of me, would you abuse another aspect of you?

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

It's the unconsciousness. Exactly. And that's when Eckhart Tolle says, you don't have to forgive. It's because it's more so connected to the unconsciousness is what did it. Because the consciousness inside of a person that is aware that this is a child or that this is another aspect of me, would you abuse another aspect of you?

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

It's the unconsciousness. Exactly. And that's when Eckhart Tolle says, you don't have to forgive. It's because it's more so connected to the unconsciousness is what did it. Because the consciousness inside of a person that is aware that this is a child or that this is another aspect of me, would you abuse another aspect of you?

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

if you knew that that person was was a part of you or if you knew what you were really doing probably not it's an unconscious part of you that's doing it or whoever you know whatever the situation is so the thing with this is is what you're talking to when you say i'm sorry please forgive me thank you i love you is you're saying that in correlation and communication with the divine with god