Aaron Machbitz
speaker
17,565 appearances
112 recordings
1 series
first heard Apr 2026
last heard today
Aaron Machbitz’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I learned this yesterday.
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firsthand through experience and reps as a podcaster.
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And for most of my life, I was deeply uncomfortable with silence in conversations.
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But then I lose my sister.
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I work through grief.
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I speak to other suicide loss survivors.
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I have a podcast where I speak to other people who've been through very, very challenging things.
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And you learn to just sit in that space
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You learn to just sit in that space.
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The void, before all that, will kind of send my brain into overdrive, assuming the other person was thinking all sorts of things about me, maybe negative, maybe positive, I don't know, my brain would just kind of go into overdrive.
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I'm sure a lot of people understand that feeling.
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And so I try and void, avoid, I said void earlier, now I'm saying I try to avoid silence at all costs.
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filling kind of every natural gap or pause with some leap, misdirection, joke, some random thing, whatever, just to avoid that uncomfortableness of the silence.
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But as you get older and you go through more challenging events and you speak to more people and you do over almost 600 episodes of a podcast, the more you realize that the pause is often where the real depth starts to form, where the real connection starts to form.
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If you treat every conversation like a game of tennis, just firing the ball back and forth as quickly and strategically as possible, you won't get very far.
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It's very transactional.
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It turns every conversation into something of like a battle, of something you need to win, of a competition.
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And that's not the point of a conversation because the point of a conversation is to create deeper relationships because we know deeper relationships are the cornerstone of a great life.
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And so if you treat
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Every conversation like that, it's always you versus them.
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