Abbie Chatfield
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Yeah, yeah.
Like why do you need to know?
Yeah, is it like a bunch of grey?
Is it, you know, is it nice little hands?
Mine's like a Reuben if he must know.
Yeah.
Lovely.
But, yeah, there's no need for anyone to know.
The only time I think it's appropriate to ask someone, to ask a trans person about their genitals is if you are talking to them in a dating context because it's going to directly affect them.
Like my boyfriend, he actually didn't ask until,
we like just before we slept together and that was like,
Many dates before that happened.
Yeah, yeah.
Because that's the only person it's actually relevant to and affects.
Yes.
You know, anyone else doesn't affect your life and don't know why you're asking about a stranger's genitals.
Yeah.
And my friend Phoebe, actually, she, when she goes on a first date, she'll mention that she has a best friend that's trans and she uses that as a bit of a litmus test to see if,
how this man reacts to it.
I love that.