Abbie Chatfield

Okay.

Don't listen to what women say when they talk about the kind of men they like.

Instead, watch their behavior and look at the kinds of men they actually go for.

And this is where it gets dangerous.

If a woman were honest, she would say that the type of man she likes is, quote unquote,

A sexual man who will create an opportunity for sex and will persist past my barriers.

Ooh.

Ooh.

No, no, no.

No, John.

She doesn't dare say this, however, because she's terrified of someone calling her a slut.

His reason is...

His conclusion, honestly, the amount of times in this first 20 pages where he goes, because they're scared of me calling them a slut.

It's like that's not – we're not scared of being called sluts.

This is a thing that, again, the manosphere still can't quite grasp.

Like when I wear –

my t-shirts, like when I used to wear baby tees to my live shows, there was one that said, be a slut, do whatever you want.

And like men were so angry in the comments going like, oh, so you can call yourself a slut but I can't call you a slut.

It's like, yeah, because it's you're degrading me and I'm actually doing a bit of a flip on that.

Reclamating.