Abbie Chatfield
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There is so much advice still to this day, 21 years later after this book,
that is men saying if she says no, just keep, you know, she's lying.
Just keep pushing, yeah.
She's too scared to seem easy.
Yeah.
She's playing hard to get.
No woman is playing hard to get.
I don't know if that's just me because I have ADHD.
Maybe I don't, but like.
Persist past their barriers.
Yeah.
Exactly.
Yeah.
And the ironic thing is –
for example, speaking about I want you to go down on me or even like saying I want to have sex with you or kissing someone first, anything like that, even flirting with someone, the way that you do that is not persisting past barriers.
It's actually respecting the barriers.
And speaking about other things and not saying, yeah, well, you're a slut.
For you to get laid, you're going to have to create a situation where the woman feels like she can have sex with you without consequences for her.
It's like, yeah.