Abbie Chatfield

Yeah, yeah.

Do you want to hear an example of an interaction that he had?

When he was dating.

For example, last month I picked up a woman at happy hour.

We talked for a couple of hours about the topics I'll reveal later that make women super chatty.

So that's a bit of a hook for later on, guys.

We hit it off well and two hours into our conversation, exclamation mark, she tells me she has a boyfriend.

At this point, there were a number of ways I could have reacted.

Most guys would have either gotten up upset and left feeling bitter and talking about how the woman had led him on or tried to talk themselves up and convince the girl to dump the other guy for him.

Would they?

Would they do that?

Yeah, well...

Well, most guys would have opted for either A or B. Believe me, I used to do that too.

Instead, I've learned that there's actually something that I call option C. Okay.

Tell me, John.

Tell me more.

React nonchalantly, maintaining my alpha male composure and demonstrating that what she said didn't faze me.

Good, I said playfully.

He'll keep you occupied when you're away from me.

Holy shit.