Abbie Chatfield

We aren't seen as human beings by a lot of men, in the manosphere especially, in this Reddit or –

So he says, "'Respect is something both earn by doing good and respectable things.'"

Okay, kind of okay.

Then he goes on, "'I especially take issue with this when I hear things like the ridiculous and infuriating article about schools in the UK teaching boys to be respectful of women and girls.'"

Can't stand it.

But, of course, no other similar classes for girls exist.

Never mind that, in my opinion, both should be taught to earn respect.

Okay, so what you want is for children to say – you want to say don't respect anyone until they prove – what the fuck, children?

A teacher, don't respect me until I earn it, guys.

I need to earn your respect.

But saying that there are misandrist policies –

in teaching boys to respect women and girls, again, you're missing the point.

They get so close.

They get so close.

What is the reason why we need specific classes in respecting women and girls?

It's because the default is respecting men.

And even like I, like, you know, when you're working through your internalized misogyny, when you're growing up and you're realizing that shit's fucked and you have the ability to be misogynistic, even if you're a woman, I feel like, you know, when I was younger, I would notice myself really,

not respecting men more and like I was like, women are stupid, but like you'd kind of automatically go to them for authority or information or you'd think that, you know, men, even just a thing of like automatically assuming a man is a doctor.

Yeah.

Yes, assuming that they're the boss.