Abbie Chatfield

Like the way that these small interactions happen

just explode into huge media stories and TikTok like exposés about influencers.

Also, stop doing that unless they're a real cunt to you.

Stop making exposés going, I served an influencer at my cafe and they didn't even smile at me.

It's like maybe they had a migraine.

Like a lot of the time I'm walking around with a migraine or like I'm depressed or like, yeah, I'm walking around severely depressed but I have to mask because I'm so scared of people going –

I served Abby Chatfield at this bar and she wasn't overly excited.

So I go, I've got to give all of my energy into these people because it's

I'm living under fear there's going to be an expose saying that I didn't smile enough at someone.

And in contrast, Adam gives people fucking nothing and they go, he's so nice.

He's so fucking nice, right?

So there's the misogyny element.

And that isn't to say that I'm faking it when I am nice to people.

It's more that, like, I'm using my social battery on interactions that are, for me –

really asymmetrical, like really one-sided and then I don't have energy to see my friends.

I don't have energy to do the podcast properly because I'm like, oh, my God, I've done a meet and greet today, which is lovely.

Again, I'm not saying don't do this, but I'm saying don't do what this girl did.

Adam and I were at this event.

We were literally kissing and she like pokes her head around and is like –

God, I wish I'd love a relationship like that.