Abbie Chatfield

If they see their parents at home and their mum does all the housework and also gets yelled at for not having the right dinner on the table, that would help in them understanding why that is wrong because shock horror, their mum is a person.

Like Jesus fucking Christ.

That would help them see –

recognize misogyny in their lives and recognize where women aren't being respected.

And that would help them change and then spread that knowledge to their friends.

And that becomes the norm.

It also allows when you have a group, a cohort of young boys, if you do educate them, they are able to police each other in what they are doing and what they are saying.

That's the most effective tool.

Women can scream and shout and let it out loud and scream.

But we can scream and shout and let it all out like IPs.

But if you don't respect women, women screaming and shouting and letting it all out is actually going to make you disrespect them even more because you are upset that they are questioning your reality that you have learned and been indoctrinated into from birth.

So if we cut the cord and we stop these young boys or we at least have some intervention where they are aware of the

They are aware of ways in which women are treated poorly.

They are aware of increased levels of domestic violence, online abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse.

If they are at least aware of these things, even the way that women are discouraged from doing STEM, the way that women are encouraged in doing home economics, things as basic and little as that doesn't have to be a domestic violence course, although that would be good, or a street harassment course.

Again, that would be good.

But it's just planting the seeds of recognizing that women are treated poorly.

differently and i just i i it's shocking to me that these men have an issue with them they are so upset that that boys would be told they're doing anything wrong which proves our point and a lack of understanding of the fact that if you respect women you you then don't need to be taught to respect men because you will respect men for more for respecting women

Period.

Exactly.