Abbie Chatfield

But it's that weird thing of like just because you're making front-facing content doesn't give people the right to just treat you like a thing.

Yeah, and it really feels like I'm treated like a thing, like I'm treated like a caricature of like Abby Chapfield.

Like one time someone asked me, tell me a funny story.

can you download the podcast yeah and i go you tell me a funny story yeah like why don't you tell me like you know it's just it's really exhausting so i am looking at moving out of sydney um i don't mind looking at houses uh i don't think he particularly wants to move either but then it's similar for him it's like this thing where it's like we're stuck in this nightmare and i just feel like

I know it's supposed to be really sad because I feel like I missed out on, um, I miss out on socializing when I was a teenager because I was working three fucking jobs and I didn't, you know, I was trying to make money when I was a teenager.

So I never went to any, a lot of school things and stuff.

Never went on like holidays.

Never went on like weekends away with like friends.

I was like great school holidays.

I can work to earn more money.

Then I got out of that and then I went to uni and then was doing full-time hospo plus full-time uni.

So I didn't go out.

I was in hospo.

Then I got out of hospo and had a full-time nine to five plus was finishing full-time uni.

I was actually doing overtime uni.

So I was doing five subjects per semester to finish it faster and doing full-time work.

So I didn't really go out.

And then I graduated and then I'm on The Bachelor.

And now I'm so stupid to cry.

It feels really stupid to cry about.