Abbie Chatfield
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I have no interest.
The fact that he gave you a list of suburbs.
Approved and disapproved suburbs.
Disapproved suburbs is fucking crazy.
Isn't it?
But after that you were like not interested and he kept going.
Yeah.
Oh, he's messaged me for years.
Yeah.
And then like.
But even just the audacity to think that I would be okay with that and nobody should be okay with that.
Whether you're trans or not, like no one wants to feel like some weird little fetish secret thing.
Like I'm not going to some dingy pub with you in the back to hide.
Like I have no interest.
And the assumption that you should be so lucky.
Yeah.
Like, oh, well, she'll accept this.
because she's trans or because she's queer or because, you know, whatever the reasons people have for hiding their partners.
Oh, she, cause this is all that she can get.
So she'll be okay with only going to predetermined suburbs.