Abby

I tend to kind of go for more like adventurous, fun, off the beaten path kind of people.

And so he's a little bit different in that way.

And I think that's really grounding for me and

forcing me to grow up a little bit um and he asks a lot of questions he's very emotionally available yeah he's just interesting and like tickles that side of my dating life and then the other guy is a little bit more classically what i'm interested in he's a little bit more um

I don't want to say like masculine, but he's a little bit more take charge, take the lead.

I feel like we have better banter.

We have more fun together.

And then he is also also just like asks a lot of questions, makes me feel really good about myself.

So they're similar in that way, but just like very different logistically.

I guess just in lifestyle.

That's a good question.

The one who's older and a bit more stable is very, very different.

He's a lot more stable, a lot more.

Yeah, I think that might be something I'm challenged with.

I think I really like independent people.

And I'm a, I'm someone who likes a lot of adventure in my life and likes to take paths that are like, I'm not a follow the traditional path kind of person necessarily.

So yeah.

And that tends to lead to a lot of guys who are maybe less stable and stable in the traditional sense, just like not following a career ladder, not necessarily intent on marriage and kids.

But this guy is more like that.

And I think that balance is nice, but maybe a little too far away from what I'm maybe after.